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After reading the sad news about Simmo, my night and day were very quiet and I spent most of my night thinking of my loved ones who passed away and whom I badly miss from time to time. Sometimes I do wonder if I showed them how much I loved them? Makes me wish to have more time with them so I could at least make it up to them.

I spent the afternoon with my son, he drove me nuts and I wasn't happy about it but at the end, I ended up hugging him and telling him how much I love him and that I do get mad when he's being hard-headed ( just like me) cos I want him to be a good boy and a good man with a good life one day. A promised to buy him his own laptop when he do good on his exams these days made him so happy and I got a bear hug and heavenly kiss for that.

On my way to work, I called my ex-husband to talk about our son's school and his exams. We did have a very nice talk and made me feel good when he said " Don't worry a thing, I got this, we ( him and his wife ) will handle things and will also go to check with his teachers tomorrow. Have a nice day and take care of yourself" I wished we could talk like this during those bad days...

I reached office only to hear another bad news, the 17 years old brother of my colleague just died in an accident few hours ago. Life is so mysterious, it's just so very very difficult to fathom it.

Just before I wrote this blog, I read a message from my bf saying he's not comfortable sending me his shirtless photo that I asked, saying I didn't really want to see his tummy. That made me feel bad and sad...not because he doesn't want to send me one but because he doubted what I feel. I love the man, even if he grow a very big tummy, even if all his hairs turn white...he is a good looking man but that's not why I love him. I love him for who he really is...jerk and all

Now, since I'm in a very very sensitive mood at the moment, I would like to take this opportunity to say "Sorry" to those I've offended here on Blog Land and at the same " Thanks" to all of you who are a good friend to me and appreciate my crazy friendship in return.


You all have a lovely night/day

I watched this video this morning and i thought i should share here. I am new on this site, have not made a single friend but i think it's a good place to be as there are the good, the bad and the ugly (if you know what i mean) on this network.

I realized what's on this video many years ago. I grew up in a home where i thought i was a house help, though i saw my mom and dad there but i was a punching bag to my siblings.

I grew up and became stubborn, i put a shield around myself because it was the only way to survive. I listen to nobody, not my father, not my mother, i mean no one.

One day, i started realizing my mistakes and i decided to make peace with my father, two weeks after, a man i thought was very strong and healthy, passed on. I was devastated, i was down, broken, frustrated, any word you know that means DEAD ALIVE.

Though i didn't cry, but i realized it was my turn to take over and pick up where my father left off. I never knew what was responsibilities, i couldn't even look at my mother and siblings screaming on the floor.

Anyways, enough of that, watch the video and i hope you learn something.




Ehi Daniel Ekhator

Having ice coffee with jelly from McDo is my favorite drink in a hot day like today.... My friends came and we decided to use my car then we drove to Boko temple, a temple that built for female where in its gate there is a V-image- near to Prambanan temple here in my home town.

We went and sit in panoramic restaurant for having a finger bites snack. From its terrace, we could see the peak of prambanan temple appear from the cloud.... Amazing... While behind it, standing the mighty Merapi mountain saying hi to the sun.

Our meeting is special. Four women who has the same interest and talking here there about sex psychology...

And I just know that women can produce minimal of 8700words per day while men produce a maximum of 2700words per day !!!

So men.... Just in case you ever questioned why women love to talk, this could answer your question.....

Have a good day everyone.....

I love my Grandkids, but unfortunately 2 of them live quite a ways so I can only see them maybe twice a year.

So, that brings me to the close by Grandchild, Leo. Leo was born almost 2 years ago and he's quite a little dude. His relationship with his parents is so beautiful and healthy. They adore each other.

So, yesterday when I went to go see Leo his Dad, my wonderful son, tells me I am going to be a Grand Dad again!! Seems like it's going to be a little girl. I am so happy. My life is so great! And I give the Almighty God all praise, credit, honor and glory, Amen & Amen!!

Now, while I’m playing baby sitter to my brother-in-law after his open-heart surgery, I seem to have a lot of time on hand; hence my frequency on the blogs.

I was very upset to find the nurse dedicated to him in ICU playing with her cell phone but now I can understand why. He is an easy customer. He never complains, not even when he is in pain. He needs a little help to get out of bed but otherwise he is no problem.

We go for a short walk every morning and I plan another short walk for this afternoon. He is getting stronger by the day. Only coughing and laughing give him any real problems but that does not happen too often. He has never smoked and I keep my mouth shut, so no corny cracks coming from me to make him laugh.

His needs are very basic. I help him to dress in the morning, make two or three cups of tea during the day in addition to warming his lunch in the microwave oven. Furthermore, I stand with him while he takes his daily shower. And see that he gets his medication on time. He is quite happy to sit and watch TV all day.

Of course, being with him from 7 am until 5 pm has some impact on my life too. My renovation efforts at home has come to a standstill but I don’t mind. He did exactly this when my father had the hip replacement a while ago. He lived closer to my father than I at the time and his unselfishness saved me a lot of driving. So I return the favor with pleasure.

My sister is very tight-lipped about it but I suspect that she reached some agreement with the surgeon and/or the hospital for they will not be suing the doctor for malpractice. I think working for the same group played some part in it.

I’m getting a break from it all for the weekend and I’m not sure if my services will be needed next week. Maybe just for a day or two. My place is close to them; perhaps I can just pop in there two or three time a day to see if he’s doing ok.


A great day to ya all.

Police Abduct 10 Children From A Family In Kentucky Because Of Their ‘Off The Grid’ Lifestyle
Joe and Nicole had done nothing to violate the law whatsoever. All of their kids were happy, healthy and very intelligent. But because the control freaks running things in Kentucky got wind of their “off the grid lifestyle”, they have now had all of their children unlawfully abducted from them.

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