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I ask this because New Girl and I were just chatting and she told me she knew people who said that they loved each other but didn't respect each other. She could no more understand how that was possible than I can! What do you think?
I'm just passing by the way because I had to ask this question!

I have friends I am happy to chat to on FB, gmail and Skype.

Man, woman, young, old it not matter if just chat and share.

But if you close to someone, consider relationship would it be worrying if they refuse use cam? Not share details prove they honest?

I have good man I meet CS. I think 2nd time we chat when we meet we use Skype cam. I see his home he see mine. He meet my sons and later my family. I meet his family when they visit. So I think this good man. He honest have nothing to hide.

He happy show me passport, ID, driving licence, salary. I show him same.

You think this is good or bad?

Or does this make you worry?

This has been done before and it's been fun.
It hasn't been done for awhile, so maybe it's time to do it again.

So.
Here's the deal...
Judging by the number of views on the blogs, it seems that a number of folks look in, but haven't yet joined the conversations.
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Perhaps y'all are shy.
Or unsure what to comment on a certain topic.

Well, newbies...this one's for YOU!

There IS no particular topic!
Just jump in, introduce yourselves & join in.
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Don't worry that you might make yourself sound foolish
Many of us do that on a remarkably consistent basis.
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Not ME, of course But some do

And y'all old hands at this...give the Newbies a great...
blogs...

C'mon -
This is your chance to jump into the deep end of the pool.
Or maybe just dip your toe in to test the waters.

As a special incentive bonus...the first five Newbies will receive a set of dandy virtual steak knives. ...

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We've all had our little grumbles in the past, scammers, miserable buggers raining on blog parades, but how good has CS really been for you?

We've got people talking, laughing, dancing, singing on vlogs : people housebound with illnesses or issues socializing and joking and flirting

People who would otherwise kick doors or self-destruct let off steam here

We share hurt, get encouraged, and pick ourselves up and stride on

and all of it, or a lot of it, thanks to CS Agreed?

For some complicated and unfair reasons, I can't be with the one I love for a lifetime . It hurts, it sucks but things happen for a reason. Maybe it's meant to be...just not forever.

Wishing you all love and happiness...happy blogging!

Reunited At The Grocery Store

Actually I don't know if they celebrate it here, there aren't many gingers in the south of Spain, I may be the only one in my small town. But if they do celebrate it, I really missed an opportunity

Mind you there's a nasty bug going round. And in a world-wide poll on kissing the Spanish didn't come out near the top.

But still.



What do you get when you kiss a guy?
you get enough germs to catch pneumonia
after you do he'll never phone ya ...

Anyone old enough to recognize those lyrics -

Last evening I engaged in conversation with a woman from Europe I've never contacted previously. As a matter of fact, I rarely look at who is online. I just will comment on blogs when I come on CS. But last night a woman's face profile caught my eye. So, I read on and found the woman's profile interesting enough to facilitate an email chat.

I will describe the adventure to my days of being a recreational pilot, it has significance in the realm of take off and landings. Before take off a complete physical of the outer craft must be made. Looking for any stress fractures while checking the prop to the tail of the plane..including gas tank levels since gauges cannot always be trusted. After the outside part is accomplished there was an 18 point checklist in the cabin that needed to be made before taxiing to the runway.

So, I did my physical check on her, one profile picture of her face and that was it......semi

Hair....check
Eyes....check
Education...check
Location....check
Height....check
Profile....double check (loves to travel)
Age....check
Sign....check

So, ready for take off...

The windsock lied, (it shows wind direction), I went right into a headwind after my first email. She made a comment that I didn't read her profile carefully (I read it twice). After explaining my comment she understood where I was coming from. I needed to speed the engine to get it off the ground. Whew!!! made it. Started climbing to 3,500 feet, so far smooth no turbulence. Arrived at altitude, leveled off and started looking for other craft. One spotted above me, so I veered in the opposite direction. All is well, until she says here's my email I'm not here all the time (Red Flag). Her last comment was a kiss goodnight (Red Flag).Then coming in for the landing I hit a little high on the runway and blow a tire. The plane veers to the left out of control hits a ditch rolls over and explodes into a ball of flames......

After our chat I went back to look at her profile and it was most likely hidden (not deleted). (Red Flag) So, I googled her pic and found another CS profile with her pic and a different name, but all the details from age to sign to hair/eyes were all different. (Red Flag) So, I google her email address...nothing found....I then searched FB and once again nothing.

As some are aware here, I made a mistake a while back, so I am extra cautious going forward....We exchanged some 20 or so emails and I enjoyed the chat. Her english was perfect and you could tell she was an intelligent woman......does anyone tell the truth online??? or are we so busy trying to outwit the scammers????

Moral of the story: if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.....it might not be a duck.......

I struggle with the notion of being in a "serious" relationship. I am a person who needs alone time and a fair amount of it. Albert Einstein recognized that creativity can not flourish in an environment of constant external stimulation. And I am nothing if not a creative type.

The last relationship I was in, we were both people who needed alone time as well as deep connection time. Problem was, he wanted alone time when I wanted connection time, and vice versa. It felt like a constant battle of wills. So, can one find a partner who is similar in their emotional needs as well as in the timing of those needs? I have no idea.

I am working in an environment now where I get as much social interaction as I could possibly need, but lately (maybe 6 weeks or so), because of the particular personalities of the people who have been staying here, I feel like I have socialitis... serious overload. I hide out in my sanctuary and that keeps me sane, but it's not like having a place to myself. Someone is always just around the corner, so to speak, and if they catch me, I get to hear another hour long story about their lives.

So, finally, it looks like I will get a few days to do whatever I please. I am rapidly feeling a sensation of bliss.


I feel bad for people who have expectations of me. I'm not able to meet those expectations and I'm afraid I'm pissing some folks off.


Any commiseration is greatly appreciated.

Should you believe everything that's written in the profiles ...or take it with a pinch of salt?