What language of love do you speak? ( Archived) (172)

Jun 7, 2011 8:03 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
venusenvy: O Poo! Cookies and milk darlin!! Ive been single for 7 yrs and Ive had some of the most rockin B'days eva!!


Well, I got ya both beat. 42 freakin years single !!
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Jun 7, 2011 8:04 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
montecito: So that isn't your birth birthday ?


Yes, June 25 is my actual birthday. I'm a Cancer born on the cusp of Gemini... which means I'm triplets.


I just meant that this is the second time I'm celebrating it since my marriage ended is all.
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Jun 7, 2011 8:04 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
PandoraX: On June 25 I will be celebrating my second birthday as single...


And I'm guessing you be celebrating it with...? laugh hug wine
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Jun 7, 2011 8:05 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Ambrose2007: Well, the author doesn't acknowledge that kind of flexibility - nor does he speak of learning to speak and enjoy other languages - of being able to even change one's preferred language to a degree, and this is where I think one area where one could make some just criticisms of his thesis, I think.



Your author didn't take into account my personality type (ENTP/ENTJ)... we're only 2% of the population. wine
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Jun 7, 2011 8:08 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
montecito: Well, I got ya both beat. 42 freakin years single !!


Well my outlook is ...Its MY B'day and Im going to celebrate my life. So... if Im ever so lucky as to have someone to celebrate with that would be wonderful! However, Im still going to celebrate my B'day and be joyful dunno wine party hat
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Jun 7, 2011 8:08 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Ambrose2007: And I'm guessing you be celebrating it with...?


Last year I woke up on my birthday in the arms of someone who loved me. That "affair" was my gift to myself and part of my healing process. (we were both single, so I use the term affair without the usual cheating connotations)


This year I'll be waking up alone... after a night out in Amsterdam with friends.
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Jun 7, 2011 8:09 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
venusenvy: Awwww Or my kids decided after getting married they just couldnt give up the date that they met and so they have two anniversaries



My b/f and I celebrate every month on the very same date that we met.
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Jun 7, 2011 8:09 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Ccincy: My b/f and I celebrate every month on the very same date that we met.



I think that's really sweet. hug
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Jun 7, 2011 8:12 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Quality Time 10

Physical Touch 9





cool
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Jun 7, 2011 8:15 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Okay, now that I unexpectedly bared my soul on the forums, I really do need to go get some sleep.


This night owl is outta here. wave







super
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Jun 7, 2011 8:16 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
PandoraX: Last year I woke up on my birthday in the arms of someone who loved me. That "affair" was my gift to myself and part of my healing process. (we were both single, so I use the term affair without the usual cheating connotations)This year I'll be waking up alone... after a night out in Amsterdam with friends.


O Man! your heads gonna hurt grin sick
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Jun 7, 2011 8:16 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ccincy: My b/f and I celebrate every month on the very same date that we met.


Thats so awesome wine
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Jun 7, 2011 8:17 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
venusenvy: O Man! your heads gonna hurt
someone is going to get a head ? uh oh
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Jun 7, 2011 8:18 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Jeeepers: someone is going to get a head ?


Im not sure...you never know around here dunno grin
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Jun 7, 2011 9:44 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Jeeepers: Is she hot ? If her and hubby split up I'll gladly touch her.

I didn't say that.


Hi Jeepswave

She's blonde and petite, fiery and of European decent.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed she takes him away for a weekend getaway devil Hope he doesn't refuse uh oh
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Jun 7, 2011 9:46 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
venere08: Hi Jeeps

She's blonde and petite, fiery and of European decent.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed she takes him away for a weekend getaway Hope he doesn't refuse
How "touching". rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 7, 2011 10:06 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Kattsrose
KattsroseKattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA52 Threads 4 Polls 911 Posts
I tied on quality time and physical touch. That sounds about right.

























We really need to get a hot tub!
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Jun 7, 2011 10:15 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
#14 both of those describe me best

I know that's not the way to take that test, but it is the way I am going to take that testcool
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Jun 7, 2011 11:01 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Words of Affirmation 4
13%
Quality Time 10
33%
Receiving Gifts 1
3%
Acts of Service 5
17%
Physical Touch 10
33%

Interesting conceptlaugh Love the idea I am bilingualrolling on the floor laughing

Actually fairly close to reality for me, gifts are unimportant to me, whereas physical touch is extremely important as is spending actual time together. cheers
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Jun 8, 2011 1:46 AM CST What language of love do you speak?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
27% Words of Affirmation 8
27% Quality Time 8
13% Receiving Gifts 4
10% Acts of Service 3
23% Physical Touch 7

Funny that the acts of service ie. taking out the garbage are the things that irritate me the most when someone simply doesn't do them in the day to day run of the mill chores. I actually found the questions hard to choose because I could have chosen both answers in many instances.

Nice to see you using the book Ambrose, although I do wonder why you haven't participated in the test yourself! I think part of learning how to be with another is understanding what makes ourselves tick.
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