Social Snobbery ( Archived) (446)

Aug 17, 2011 7:58 PM CST Social Snobbery
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
montecito: I didn't go to college but later on after my divorce I took some college courses when I was raising my daughter. The courses I took required a lot of time my time and that time was taken from quality time with my daughter so I finished the courses I was taking but didn't go back.

I worked 10 years for a corporation who evaulates credit ratings for the business world, and 16 years in the legal field.

Even with that experience I don't fit in certain social circles for whatever reason people exclude me.

You probably know from postings I make in the threads that I don't care if I'm not accepted. I know who I am and I don't put on airs to be with the "in" crowd...


Who is the "in" crowd, Monte??

From what I see it changes from day to day anyway! Here, as in real life!wine laugh
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Aug 17, 2011 9:33 PM CST Social Snobbery
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
snooty blushing

The only thing that matters to me is a person's character and intelligence. There are many paths to knowledge and enlightenment (not that I personally know any of them, but I've heard rumors to that effect).

cheers
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Aug 17, 2011 9:38 PM CST Social Snobbery
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I have friends and lovers from all walks of life and social strata...makes life far more interesting wine
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Aug 17, 2011 9:40 PM CST Social Snobbery
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvy: I have friends and lovers from all walks of life and social strata...makes life far more interesting


Besides, Ive always maintained that intellgence is something your born with, its inherent in us. Education is aquired. wine
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Aug 17, 2011 9:56 PM CST Social Snobbery
rambling......
They will never feel successful with education or anything they do because they will never earn as much as they have inherited.
So the family has a few quirks.
Dealing with poor mouth wealthy people truly sucks.
jmho
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Aug 17, 2011 10:35 PM CST Social Snobbery
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
Isnt it funny....

We all have similar feelings, we chat daily, but most are single.
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Aug 17, 2011 10:38 PM CST Social Snobbery
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Bodecia: Isnt it funny....

We all have similar feelings, we chat daily, but most are single.


And how many of us are single by choice? wine
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Aug 17, 2011 10:40 PM CST Social Snobbery
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
venusenvy: And how many of us are single by choice?


I dont knw.

Good question

laugh
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Aug 17, 2011 10:44 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
felixis99: that is supposed to say "no big deal" at the end

but I did want to add that seeking someone who values education is not snobbery - not in the US anyway

as a nation we so value education that higher education in this country is accessible to even the poorest of the poor as a vehicle for self and economic improvement - hardly snobbery
I disagree I think it is snobbery....it is in fact prejudiced....preferring red hair over black is a preference....looking down at someone simply because of a degree is something different

and last time I looked I live in America
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Aug 17, 2011 10:52 PM CST Social Snobbery
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
I thought it would be perfectly natural for like to attract like.

While I'm not a materialistic type of person, I do have certain standards and would not be drawn to people who have not made an effort to improve their standard of living, should they feel it needs improving.

I know we can't all be employed, but those who aren't and could be, and choose not to improve their chances by education, grooming or otherwise, well, I can't say I would be looking for their company.
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Aug 17, 2011 10:57 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
serene56: I thought it would be perfectly natural for like to attract like.

While I'm not a materialistic type of person, I do have certain standards and would not be drawn to people who have not made an effort to improve their standard of living, should they feel it needs improving.

I know we can't all be employed, but those who aren't and could be, and choose not to improve their chances by education, grooming or otherwise, well, I can't say I would be looking for their company.
nor I looking for one that things a degree is what makes a person .....the forums certainly shows one true ideals....laugh
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Aug 17, 2011 11:00 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
grizzwald: nor I looking for one that things a degree is what makes a person .....the forums certainly shows one true ideals....
things=thinks....dunno
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Aug 17, 2011 11:02 PM CST Social Snobbery
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
grizzwald: nor I looking for one that things a degree is what makes a person .....the forums certainly shows one true ideals....


Hmm yeah how many times do we encounter highly educated people who have no use for it, no outcome confused It's academia for academia's sake in some instances.

Most people of average intelligence can fulfil the obligations that high level education requires, it's simply a matter of opportunity, funding and the time to spare.

However, this does not make them better people (or better company for that matter).
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Aug 17, 2011 11:06 PM CST Social Snobbery
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Reposted:

Education makes a good person better,
Education makes a bad person worse.

wine
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Aug 17, 2011 11:07 PM CST Social Snobbery
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I wonder what people would think about reverse snobbery so to speak.
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Aug 17, 2011 11:07 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
serene56: Hmm yeah how many times do we encounter highly educated people who have no use for it, no outcome It's academia for academia's sake in some instances.

Most people of average intelligence can fulfil the obligations that high level education requires, it's simply a matter of opportunity, funding and the time to spare.

However, this does not make them better people (or better company for that matter).
actually many people with degrees work out of their field ...altho I agree generally speaking a degree is a good thing ....the snobbery of not having one is pretty clear here in this thread ....don't you agree....wine
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Aug 17, 2011 11:08 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
lifeisadream: Reposted:

Education makes a good person better,
Education makes a bad person worse.
peace laugh rolling on the floor laughing applause handshake
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Aug 17, 2011 11:11 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
serene56: Hmm yeah how many times do we encounter highly educated people who have no use for it, no outcome It's academia for academia's sake in some instances.

Most people of average intelligence can fulfil the obligations that high level education requires, it's simply a matter of opportunity, funding and the time to spare.

However, this does not make them better people (or better company for that matter).
hug
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Aug 17, 2011 11:12 PM CST Social Snobbery
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
grizzwald: actually many people with degrees work out of their field ...altho I agree generally speaking a degree is a good thing ....the snobbery of not having one is pretty clear here in this thread ....don't you agree....



I've only read parts of it, but I seem to be detecting a pattern here maybe laugh

My thoughts are that young people, in particular, should receive vocational guidance to attempt to steer them to a college or university degree that will ultimately land them a job, not something they can frame and hang on a wall confused
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Aug 17, 2011 11:17 PM CST Social Snobbery
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
serene56: I've only read parts of it, but I seem to be detecting a pattern here maybe

My thoughts are that young people, in particular, should receive vocational guidance to attempt to steer them to a college or university degree that will ultimately land them a job, not something they can frame and hang on a wall
The only thing I have to add to this is....peace applause hug
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