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Apr 21, 2015 12:35 AM CST Hypothetical Situation
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?
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Apr 21, 2015 12:39 AM CST Hypothetical Situation
All depends on how much you trust them, if they are trustworthy, you shouldn't have anything to worry about and if they are not trustworthy, they shouldn't be in your life to begin with.
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Apr 21, 2015 12:54 AM CST Hypothetical Situation
1984JLG
1984JLG1984JLGToowoomba, Queensland Australia17 Posts
Track16: All depends on how much you trust them, if they are trustworthy, you shouldn't have anything to worry about and if they are not trustworthy, they shouldn't be in your life to begin with.


Great advice couldn't have said it better myself
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Apr 21, 2015 12:48 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
Friskyone: So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?
I know that things can happen in life. I'll put it this way, since I hadn't seen anyone else say so, but it may seem somewhat jaded/harsh. If I find myself in a relationship where I must be concerned about my partner's felicity, then I am in the wrong relationship.
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Apr 21, 2015 12:52 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
rohaan: I know that things can happen in life. I'll put it this way, since I hadn't seen anyone else say so, but it may seem somewhat jaded/harsh. If I find myself in a relationship where I must be concerned about my partner's felicity, then I am in the wrong relationship.



Yipthumbs up


If they're not trustworthy, they're dumped
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Apr 21, 2015 12:53 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
rohaan: I know that things can happen in life. I'll put it this way, since I hadn't seen anyone else say so, but it may seem somewhat jaded/harsh. If I find myself in a relationship where I must be concerned about my partner's felicity, then I am in the wrong relationship.




thumbs up As soon as the thought enters your mind wondering if you can trust your partner, pack your bags super
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Apr 21, 2015 12:57 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
If you can't trust your friends not to crap on you, ditch both of them.

Alternatively, work through your insecurities if it's coming from within.
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Apr 21, 2015 1:02 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If I felt I couldn't trust a friend and the person I was with I would run as fast as my feet co travel.
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Apr 21, 2015 1:03 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
I wouldn't let anyone stay in my home unless I trusted them 100%
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Apr 21, 2015 1:03 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
Friskyone: So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?

1-The real question here is... DO u trust them??
2- U should never have someone living for free at ur place (a friend) because they might get comfortable, not pay rent or clean... Some people do take advantage of others kindness, don't be this person (don't let someone take advantage of u)
wink
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Apr 21, 2015 1:08 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
Friskyone: So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?


yes if they are facing bad time...
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Apr 21, 2015 1:09 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Sandra.
This isn't a question about money, this has to do with trusting either your friend or your partner.
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Apr 21, 2015 1:11 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
allthegoodnamest: Sandra.
This isn't a question about money, this has to do with trusting either your friend or your partner.


If you friend is hot??? then??grin
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Apr 21, 2015 1:13 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
guysimple: If you friend is hot??? then??





guy shame on you.grin
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Apr 21, 2015 1:17 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Guy simple.
There is a code between friends... We don't f..ck with each others girlfriends or wives....
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Apr 21, 2015 2:46 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
rohaan: I know that things can happen in life. I'll put it this way, since I hadn't seen anyone else say so, but it may seem somewhat jaded/harsh. If I find myself in a relationship where I must be concerned about my partner's felicity, then I am in the wrong relationship.



thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up


I did chuckle at "Felicity" laugh Your partner has a pet Felicity? I want one. wow
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Apr 21, 2015 3:18 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
smalldutchgirl
smalldutchgirlsmalldutchgirlDublin, Ireland68 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Guy simple.
There is a code between friends... We don't f..ck with each others girlfriends or wives....


Aww that is so sweet if you really believe that
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Apr 21, 2015 3:22 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
smalldutchgirl: Aww that is so sweet if you really believe that



I trust my friends 100%.

If i couldn't, they wouldn't be my friends. End of.
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Apr 21, 2015 3:22 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
smalldutchgirl
smalldutchgirlsmalldutchgirlDublin, Ireland68 Posts
Friskyone: So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?


For a woman with a female friend: if your friend is better looking, you can trust her, she will proof nothing by going off with your boyfriend. If you are the good looking one or she is very insecure, do not leave them alone.
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Apr 21, 2015 4:43 PM CST Hypothetical Situation
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
Friskyone: So you are in a committed relationship and live together. One of your friends, either male or female, falls on a bad streak of luck and needs a place to live until they get back on their feet. Would you allow him/her to move in knowing that there will be times where your friend and your girlfriend or boyfriend will be alone together and knowing it's a possibility your relationship could be at risk due to a possible affair. What do you do?

I don´t care, my girlfriends got hepatitis
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