One of the women I work with, introduced her son to a co-worker, she did not tell our co-worker her son has a problem with drink. She asked me what should she do, I told her to tell her truth.
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: One of the women I work with, introduced her son to a co-worker, she did not tell our co-worker her son has a problem with drink. She asked me what should she do, I told her to tell her truth.
A drink problem is definitely something someone should know about in advance.
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: One of the women I work with, introduced her son to a co-worker, she did not tell our co-worker her son has a problem with drink. She asked me what should she do, I told her to tell her truth.
Apart advicing her to tell the truth,you had to asked her,if it was the opposite situation, someone to mislead her son,how she would have had to feel??
chris27292729: Apart advicing her to tell the truth,you had to asked her,if it was the opposite situation, someone to mislead her son,how she would have had to feel??
Both co-workers are worth knowing and the truth will keep us all in good standing. He is a good man and is working two jobs and is doing his best to be the best man he can be, but his drinking causes pain.
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Both co-workers are worth knowing and the truth will keep us all in good standing. He is a good man and is working two jobs and is doing his best to be the best man he can be, but his drinking causes pain.
If was a woman,i'll say this to myself.I don't need to fight,so he can get rid of his drinking problem. so is better to stay away from me. Beggining of the relationship with a drinking problem??? Better stay way from that problem.
As many already mentioned, it depends on what the issue is... But frankly said if the conditions is such that it will slow or change my life to the point of becoming a satellite around someone else's life, well, no, not for me, I am not a saint or a martyr... Drinking, drugs or manic depressions-not a chance...
One2note: I think there is enough women out there , with sound body & mind , to consider dating someone with difficulties I probably don't understand .
[quote=KNenagh]It depends on the impact it has on someone's life and in that regards to my own.
If someone can life a normal life it wouldn't be a problem. As people age, most have something bothering them healthwise.
If someone I just met has ED it is a no for me.[/quote]
That is a wise decision. I went through two longterm relationships with men who had ED and it was horrible. I cared very much for them, one in particular, and hoped they would get help but both had an ego that wouldn't allow them to go to a doctor.
A bad tooth is a medical issue. So is being hard of hearing. it is okay to date such people. However folks with splinters in their feet or a twisted ankle should be left alone.
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