Is flirting seen as a negative quality?? ( Archived) (223)

Mar 16, 2018 12:54 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.


I don't know why some people regard flirting as something bad.

If not flirting, what else is there to do on a dating site?
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Mar 16, 2018 12:55 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Friskyone: It's like everything else in life. There's a time and place for everything and moderation, just my opinion.


I agree handshake
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Mar 16, 2018 12:56 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
truheart1941: my honest opinion about flirting......its hurtful......some people on here may remember a certain person from S/A.....who came on to me........was well liked......nice looking....etc/etc.....for a year. we kept in touch...e/mails phone calls......was going to fly over here/then i to S/A.......to meet family......in short...it turned out a hoax...........in my book..i rate them as scammers...jmo.


Hey Pete.

I didnt know that happened to you and im sorry you were hurt.
That has maybe for once opened my eyes a little to the whole notion of flirting being a negative.
I wasnt here...i dont think when all this happened and im sorry for your hurt, i genuinely am hug
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Mar 16, 2018 12:57 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
freebird10
freebird10freebird10Ottawa, Ontario Canada4 Threads 147 Posts
Deedee123x: No free...i meant the part where you said i was right.....i said it doesnt happen often that i am right..so i will take it


oh .. okok now got that :)
yes you are a true spirit who are a loyal soul i think so and yes like you nature in forums :)
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Mar 16, 2018 1:00 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
LeeCharming: Enough of the slander and trolling of my character

The law in the UK has changed since the SJW feminist started to dictate the laws and a man can be arrested for speaking to a woman...this is a fact and in the law...blame your feminist sisters for this lunacy in the law and not the good man who opposes it...stop throwing stones...stop closing your eyes to the truth and look up the facts...


Name one case where, as you just stated in your post above, where a man was 'arrested for speaking to a woman'.
If you want us to "see the truth" then back your "facts" up with some links to cases where men were arrested for simply "speaking" to a woman.
To me it seema you give the same rehashed reaponse to anyone who goes against you..and your not putting your case forwars with any evidence and or REAL facts to back it up.

Dont post it here..but start your own thread where you can make your point intellectually as apposed to ramming your views down everyones throats...but dont wish to debate in an adult or mannerly fashion.
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Mar 16, 2018 1:02 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Tulefell: I don't know why some people regard flirting as something bad.

If not flirting, what else is there to do on a dating site?


I dont see flirting harmlessly and on a low level as being bad ..no.
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Mar 16, 2018 1:02 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Tulefell: I don't know why some people regard flirting as something bad.

If not flirting, what else is there to do on a dating site?


I dont see flirting harmlessly and on a low level as being bad ..no.
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Mar 16, 2018 1:04 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
freebird10: oh .. okok now got that :)
yes you are a true spirit who are a loyal soul i think so and yes like you nature in forums :)


Thanks for the compliment, Free...but have my bad points too laugh
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Mar 16, 2018 1:06 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
freebird10
freebird10freebird10Ottawa, Ontario Canada4 Threads 147 Posts
Deedee123x: Thanks for the compliment, Free...but have my bad points too


i am blind for seeing your bad points ;)
and dont mind i could not send you any messages .. may be you locked your profile :/
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Mar 16, 2018 1:07 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Tulefell: I don't know why some people regard flirting as something bad.

If not flirting, what else is there to do on a dating site?


Talk about gardening,politics ,pets ,exchanging recipes ,write poetry and play scrambles uh oh
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Mar 16, 2018 1:07 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Deedee123x: Krinka.

Great points.
But i woukd suggest everyone is aware of what they want and dont want.
To view the flirting, by someone who is serious about a serious relationship is one thing.
But for the two involved...one would think that each are comfortable with how they are portraying themselves...and may not be looking for anyone at all...in those cases i think its ok.

But i agree with you that if your a serious person who is looking for a serious relationship then for that person , flirting is not the best way to go and not the best look for them.



Deedee123 As far as I know there is a law here in the states as well on how a man approaches women too.

I wished some interaction between a man another woman employee and all the man did is pay that woman a compliment.He was a few feet from her and there were women witnesses like myself who heard the whole thing.that particular male did absolutely nothing wrong.
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Mar 16, 2018 1:09 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Sorry Deedee I quoted the wrong quote.OOPS
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Mar 16, 2018 1:10 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Dedovix: Talk about gardening,politics ,pets ,exchanging recipes ,write poetry and play scrambles
....dont you like knitting D.......?????dunno laugh laugh
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Mar 16, 2018 1:11 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Dedovix: Talk about gardening,politics ,pets ,exchanging recipes ,write poetry and play scrambles


What do you think about flirting Dedovix.
Is it good or bad in your opinion?
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Mar 16, 2018 1:13 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Deedee123x: Hey, Bogart.

Overly flirty and repetitive..i agree is stupid.

I dont agree that typing flirting is boring though
If it is done in small measures.

Hope you are well


thanks, all good here. I hope you are well too...hug

I prefer "voice" flirting.. old fashion I suppose
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Mar 16, 2018 1:15 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Deedee123x: What do you think about flirting Dedovix.
Is it good or bad in your opinion?

I may come up as a discriminator but I only flirt with Women laugh bouquet
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Mar 16, 2018 1:18 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bogart_1960: thanks, all good here. I hope you are well too...

I prefer "voice" flirting.. old fashion I suppose


Its not old fashioned to think that.
Ideally thats what i imagine we would all love to do...have it all in real life

Doing great, thanks bogie hug
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Mar 16, 2018 1:20 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Dedovix: I may come up as a discriminator but I only flirt with Women


The mens hearts are breaking, Dedo laugh
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Mar 16, 2018 1:22 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: Deedee123 As far as I know there is a law here in the states as well on how a man approaches women too.

I wished some interaction between a man another woman employee and all the man did is pay that woman a compliment.He was a few feet from her and there were women witnesses like myself who heard the whole thing.that particular male did absolutely nothing wrong.


Thats awful BW.
Thats what i mean by putting some real stories behind an arguement...not the way Lee chooses to conduct himself...
What happened..u didnt say
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Mar 16, 2018 1:22 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: Deedee123 As far as I know there is a law here in the states as well on how a man approaches women too.

I wished some interaction between a man another woman employee and all the man did is pay that woman a compliment.He was a few feet from her and there were women witnesses like myself who heard the whole thing.that particular male did absolutely nothing wrong.


Thats awful BW.
Thats what i mean by putting some real stories behind an arguement...not the way Lee chooses to conduct himself...
What happened..u didnt say
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