Is flirting seen as a negative quality?? (223)
Deedee123x: I do feel online can be a more heightened version of the person in real life...i do flirt but not as much as i would here....be that right or wrong.
No i dont see what you wrote as a personal attack but maybe you could provide me with an example of a time where i have made you feel uncomfortable through my flirting...and do you feel it was all initiated and continued by me or was i simply forcing the other to do it....im not saying this in a smart way but rather a way of learning about my interactions here and how they r viewed.
No i dont see what you wrote as a personal attack but maybe you could provide me with an example of a time where i have made you feel uncomfortable through my flirting...and do you feel it was all initiated and continued by me or was i simply forcing the other to do it....im not saying this in a smart way but rather a way of learning about my interactions here and how they r viewed.
It would be pointless to give you examples of when an uncomfortable situation occurred if you didn't see it yourself as such...
Anyway, it wasn't only me who was made uncomfortable as it was commented on by someone else...
I'm just saying don't underestimate what a woman can cause by "innocent" flirting...that's all...
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Track16: I wouldn't flirt around with just anyone, hell no. If you were to come along and sit on my knee on the other hand, we could flirt about the first thing that pops up
Is their gange involved??
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Deedee123x: Is their gange involved??
Always
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KremaP: It would be pointless to give you examples of when an uncomfortable situation occurred if you didn't see it yourself as such...
Anyway, it wasn't only me who was made uncomfortable as it was commented on by someone else...
I'm just saying don't underestimate what a woman can cause by "innocent" flirting...that's all...
Anyway, it wasn't only me who was made uncomfortable as it was commented on by someone else...
I'm just saying don't underestimate what a woman can cause by "innocent" flirting...that's all...
Someone else on here said my flirting made them uncomfortable??
Who was that?.
No i fully understand it can be taken the wrong way by the other person.....but when its two grown adults in the mix then i would appreciate being told to stop..by that person.
The same way we all feel confortable asking people to stop hijacking threads...or to stop bullying or the likes.
Being careful who i flirt with is something ill take into considersation....but making people feel uncomfortable i havnt heard anyone else bar you saying to me..as in..me doing it personally....as apposed to just anyone else doing it.
I guess its another thing on the list of things that piss people off here.
Something to consider for sure.
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Track16: Always
Yay
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rainbowdream2017: Darling Deedee, your personal consciousness is very much awaken to decide things for yourself, what feels right or wrong for you.
When I see people flirting, I rather see it as funny enterntainment, specially if is done in a tastful way but it's irrelevant to me who's flirting or not.
Can't understand why would anyone be bother as this is a Dating site.... except if ongoing flirtation is spoiling whole thread subject that people take very seriously, like political subject but even there, is good to occasionally add something funny to enlighten spirits ...to have a bit of laugh.
Life is hard enough, without making it more serious...and when we can find reason to laugh and to lift our spirit and others, day is not waisted.
Keep smiling.
When I see people flirting, I rather see it as funny enterntainment, specially if is done in a tastful way but it's irrelevant to me who's flirting or not.
Can't understand why would anyone be bother as this is a Dating site.... except if ongoing flirtation is spoiling whole thread subject that people take very seriously, like political subject but even there, is good to occasionally add something funny to enlighten spirits ...to have a bit of laugh.
Life is hard enough, without making it more serious...and when we can find reason to laugh and to lift our spirit and others, day is not waisted.
Keep smiling.
I get all that. You make so much sense!
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rainbowdream2017: Darling Deedee, your personal consciousness is very much awaken to decide things for yourself, what feels right or wrong for you.
When I see people flirting, I rather see it as funny enterntainment, specially if is done in a tastful way but it's irrelevant to me who's flirting or not.
Can't understand why would anyone be bother as this is a Dating site.... except if ongoing flirtation is spoiling whole thread subject that people take very seriously, like political subject but even there, is good to occasionally add something funny to enlighten spirits ...to have a bit of laugh.
Life is hard enough, without making it more serious...and when we can find reason to laugh and to lift our spirit and others, day is not waisted.
Keep smiling.
When I see people flirting, I rather see it as funny enterntainment, specially if is done in a tastful way but it's irrelevant to me who's flirting or not.
Can't understand why would anyone be bother as this is a Dating site.... except if ongoing flirtation is spoiling whole thread subject that people take very seriously, like political subject but even there, is good to occasionally add something funny to enlighten spirits ...to have a bit of laugh.
Life is hard enough, without making it more serious...and when we can find reason to laugh and to lift our spirit and others, day is not waisted.
Keep smiling.
Pretty much what i think too.
Some are highly sensitive to being flirted with.
Same as some are highly sensitive to watching it...like they r to listening to political threads and religious themes
But to be fair no one is forcing anyone to look nor to use their own keyboard.....
Oh ill continue to still be me..
I started this thread for a very specific reason and that was answered for me earlier on in the thread by a specific person..which in turn also answered other questions i had.
So much seriousness here as it is....some nice light hearted banter in my eyes is always welcome....some can choose to turn the other cheek if they so wish.
Thanks honey
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MsContessa: I get all that. You make so much sense!
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Hope u enjoyed the match yesterday..was a great win....great all round.
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
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MsContessa: Hope u enjoyed the match yesterday..was a great win....great all round.
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
Haha..i hear that.
I almost jumped onto the television on some ocassions....willing them on
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Hi Dee
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Tanqueray: Hi Dee
Hey Tan
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MsContessa: Hope u enjoyed the match yesterday..was a great win....great all round.
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
Fantastic DeeDee
Anytime I hear:
Ireland, Ireland Together standing tall,
Shoulder to shoulder
We’ll answer Ireland’s call....
I turn into a crazy woman for 80 mins.. Nuff Said
Great win, great day!!
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Can I slightly flirt with you please ?
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Tanqueray: Hi Dee
goodness ...u r flirting with Dee ....
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LeeCharming: “It's very clear you don't like me and I'm not keen on you either, so I won't be commenting on anymore of your blogs or threads and I would like you to give me the same courtesy...you don't like strong masculine men, who stand up to you and I really see no value in talking to you...”
DeeDee123: Yay yay yay
IF I remember correctly, it was you, Dee, that said you HATED that emoji because NOBODY could be THAT happy!
So am I to take it that I SHOULD BECOME an egotistical bigot, in order to make you happy?
Is this an endorsement of the "Ignorance is bliss" philosophy? 
So you're saying there's NO chance, huh? Guess I'll have to turn my attention somewhere else! 
DeeDee123: Yay yay yay
IF I remember correctly, it was you, Dee, that said you HATED that emoji because NOBODY could be THAT happy!
So am I to take it that I SHOULD BECOME an egotistical bigot, in order to make you happy?
Is this an endorsement of the "Ignorance is bliss" philosophy? So you're saying there's NO chance, huh? Guess I'll have to turn my attention somewhere else! ------ This thread is Archived ------
Let_Us: LeeCharming: “It's very clear you don't like me and I'm not keen on you either, so I won't be commenting on anymore of your blogs or threads and I would like you to give me the same courtesy...you don't like strong masculine men, who stand up to you and I really see no value in talking to you...”
DeeDee123: Yay yay yay
IF I remember correctly, it was you, Dee, that said you HATED that emoji because NOBODY could be THAT happy!
So am I to take it that I SHOULD BECOME an egotistical bigot, in order to make you happy? Is this an endorsement of the "Ignorance is bliss" philosophy? So you're saying there's NO chance, huh? Guess I'll have to turn my attention somewhere else!
DeeDee123: Yay yay yay
IF I remember correctly, it was you, Dee, that said you HATED that emoji because NOBODY could be THAT happy!
So am I to take it that I SHOULD BECOME an egotistical bigot, in order to make you happy? Is this an endorsement of the "Ignorance is bliss" philosophy? So you're saying there's NO chance, huh? Guess I'll have to turn my attention somewhere else!
No offence but you need to stop being so concerned with everything i say.
I change my mind on most things on a regular basis.
It will wear you out trying to keep up with me so best u dont even try..
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mykingdomforanam: Isn't "negative quality" an oxymoron?
No.
"Quality" is a noun, a thing. In THIS case, a trait of something. "Negative" is an adjective, describing how that trait is seen by the speaker (writer, in this case). If you're going to use words, King, learn what they are, what they mean, and MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, HOW to use them. To be "oxymoronic" the 2 words co-joined need to be (properly) of the same type, as in 2 nouns, or 2 adjectives. Otherwise the comparison (the basis of the concept "oxymoron") is a non sequitur, as no PROPER comparison is possible. JMO 
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My Favorite Scenes From The Movie Witness, 1985
Here is one of my favourite poem that relates to flirting....
Hope you enjoy it.
"Apprehension"
No, don’t come near me! I want to
love and long for the two eyes of yours from afar.
Because happiness is good only when it’s due,
While it gives just a glimpse.
No, don’t come near me! There’s more allure to
this sweet longing, waiting and fear.
Everything is much nicer while it’s sought
While it’s just a hint.
No, don’t come near me! Why would you and for what?
Only from afar everything shines like a star;
Only from afar we admire all.
No, may not the two eyes of yours come near me.
(Desanka Maksimovic )
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If I knew how to flirt, I would be doing it