Is flirting seen as a negative quality?? (223)
KremaP: The word quality on it's own is expected to be associated with a positive meaning...
I don't see flirting with many people as a positive act, but only when one is seeking the attention of someone they are interested in......
I don't see flirting with many people as a positive act, but only when one is seeking the attention of someone they are interested in......
If its incessant and with everyone and if its all one can lead with then yes its not really seen as a quality.
But often times its just harmless and shortlived.
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ali110: I think flirting for a single person is not bad , that's how we find the good person and love
For singletons yes i agree.
Theres alot more to find out in a person than flirting to know if they are good though.
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ali110: I think flirting for a single person is not bad , that's how we find the good person and love
For singletons yes i agree.
Theres alot more to find out in a person than flirting to know if they are good though.
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KremaP: Flirting online isn't much different to flirting face to face...you never know what the other one has in mind actually...no matter what they say...
It's tricky...
3746474 times agreed with you It's tricky...
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ali110: I think flirting for a single person is not bad , that's how we find the good person and love
Simplicity at its best.
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LeeCharming: These days I think a fair number of UK women would feel offended by a man flirting with them and call the police if he did….In the UK a man could be put in prison for approaching a woman and talking to her, so attempting to flirt could mean a life sentence in prison and the chances are he would get more prison time, than a female mass murderer
Lee quite frankly thats ridiculous.
Have you ever considered your own approach to women could be the reason your still single and not able to find a connection with a woman.
Its ok to have your views on feminism and the somewhat emasculation of men....but you need to look at your own actions from time to time.
I get the feeling you view women as just a piece of meat...there to cook your dinner...not question you and put out every night.
Theres really no reason why you shoukd have your extreme views on women.
Yes women are capable of nastiness towards men ..every bit as men are towards women.
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Krinka: It gives an impression of not being serious, especially if done excessively with lots of people and when it "crosses the line".
If one is looking for a serious relationship - flirting openly online is not the best way to go. I think it actually reduces the chances to find someone serious. On the other hand, it increases the chances to find someone for a casual relationship.
The more "flirty" someone is, the more attention that person will attract, but it will be not the type of attention one wants if they are interested in serious relationships.
There are many ways to joke and have fun online, without being flirtatious.
If one is looking for a serious relationship - flirting openly online is not the best way to go. I think it actually reduces the chances to find someone serious. On the other hand, it increases the chances to find someone for a casual relationship.
The more "flirty" someone is, the more attention that person will attract, but it will be not the type of attention one wants if they are interested in serious relationships.
There are many ways to joke and have fun online, without being flirtatious.
Krinka.
Great points.
But i woukd suggest everyone is aware of what they want and dont want.
To view the flirting, by someone who is serious about a serious relationship is one thing.
But for the two involved...one would think that each are comfortable with how they are portraying themselves...and may not be looking for anyone at all...in those cases i think its ok.
But i agree with you that if your a serious person who is looking for a serious relationship then for that person , flirting is not the best way to go and not the best look for them.
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freebird10: hey dee :)
yes being uncomfortable from a thing or that thing is harmless .. both are different .. you are right :)
yes being uncomfortable from a thing or that thing is harmless .. both are different .. you are right :)
It doesnt happen often, Free...ill take it while its going
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chris27292729: Simplicity at its best.
Hey Chris
I agree
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LeeCharming: These days I think a fair number of UK women would feel offended by a man flirting with them and call the police if he did….In the UK a man could be put in prison for approaching a woman and talking to her, so attempting to flirt could mean a life sentence in prison and the chances are he would get more prison time, than a female mass murderer
LeeCharming I've read where you posted something which resembles this within another blog/thread topic.
I don't like to make assumptions in regards to anyone or anything but there's obviously something going on in your life which has caused you to act in a particular way in regards to women as a whole.Just can't put my fingers on it.
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Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.
I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.
What makes flirting a no go area for some.? Why is it seen as a negative. - nuts everywhere
I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.
What makes flirting a no go area for some.? Why is it seen as a negative. - nuts everywhere
flirting is ok -is a way to build a connection, as attraction is not only based on how we look.
over flirting -stupid and unexciting, as it is repetitive.
"typing flirting " - boring.
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Deedee123x: It doesnt happen often, Free...ill take it while its going
haha .. do you think i am doing it ? lol
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my honest opinion about flirting......its hurtful......some people on here may remember a certain person from S/A.....who came on to me........was well liked......nice looking....etc/etc.....for a year. we kept in touch...e/mails phone calls......was going to fly over here/then i to S/A.......to meet family......in short...it turned out a hoax...........in my book..i rate them as scammers...jmo.
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Deedee123x: Yes i agree, Frisky.
It may get out of hand at times and take over threads, of which ive been guilty.
But i do not see it as a negative.
It may get out of hand at times and take over threads, of which ive been guilty.
But i do not see it as a negative.
It's like everything else in life. There's a time and place for everything and moderation, just my opinion.
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Deedee123x: Lee quite frankly thats ridiculous.
Have you ever considered your own approach to women could be the reason your still single and not able to find a connection with a woman.
Its ok to have your views on feminism and the somewhat emasculation of men....but you need to look at your own actions from time to time.
I get the feeling you view women as just a piece of meat...there to cook your dinner...not question you and put out every night.
Theres really no reason why you shoukd have your extreme views on women.
Yes women are capable of nastiness towards men ..every bit as men are towards women.
Have you ever considered your own approach to women could be the reason your still single and not able to find a connection with a woman.
Its ok to have your views on feminism and the somewhat emasculation of men....but you need to look at your own actions from time to time.
I get the feeling you view women as just a piece of meat...there to cook your dinner...not question you and put out every night.
Theres really no reason why you shoukd have your extreme views on women.
Yes women are capable of nastiness towards men ..every bit as men are towards women.
Enough of the slander and trolling of my character
The law in the UK has changed since the SJW feminist started to dictate the laws and a man can be arrested for speaking to a woman...this is a fact and in the law...blame your feminist sisters for this lunacy in the law and not the good man who opposes it...stop throwing stones...stop closing your eyes to the truth and look up the facts...
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Bogart_1960: flirting is ok -is a way to build a connection, as attraction is not only based on how we look.
over flirting -stupid and unexciting, as it is repetitive.
"typing flirting " - boring.
over flirting -stupid and unexciting, as it is repetitive.
"typing flirting " - boring.
Hey, Bogart.
Overly flirty and repetitive..i agree is stupid.
I dont agree that typing flirting is boring though
If it is done in small measures.
Hope you are well
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freebird10: haha .. do you think i am doing it ? lol
No free...i meant the part where you said i was right.....i said it doesnt happen often that i am right..so i will take it
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Bogart_1960: flirting is ok -is a way to build a connection, as attraction is not only based on how we look.
over flirting -stupid and unexciting, as it is repetitive.
"typing flirting " - boring.
over flirting -stupid and unexciting, as it is repetitive.
"typing flirting " - boring.
Hey, Bogart.
Overly flirty and repetitive..i agree is stupid.
I dont agree that typing flirting is boring though
If it is done in small measures.
Hope you are well
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truheart1941: my honest opinion about flirting......its hurtful......some people on here may remember a certain person from S/A.....who came on to me........was well liked......nice looking....etc/etc.....for a year. we kept in touch...e/mails phone calls......was going to fly over here/then i to S/A.......to meet family......in short...it turned out a hoax...........in my book..i rate them as scammers...jmo.
Hey Pete.
I didnt know that happened to you and im sorry you were hurt.
That has maybe for once opened my eyes a little to the whole notion of flirting being a negative.
I wasnt here...i dont think when all this happened and im sorry for your hurt, i genuinely am
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If one is looking for a serious relationship - flirting openly online is not the best way to go. I think it actually reduces the chances to find someone serious. On the other hand, it increases the chances to find someone for a casual relationship.
The more "flirty" someone is, the more attention that person will attract, but it will be not the type of attention one wants if they are interested in serious relationships.
There are many ways to joke and have fun online, without being flirtatious.
I think it doesn't reduce the chances of finding someone if somebody flirts .as u said it gets attention so it gives a chance to meet the right one