Should divorced categories re-marry? (30)
I think there are those who serial marry when you get up to marriage 3...4 n 5 plus...that's not about love...that's about not wanting to be alone and thinking marriage will stop that.....in reality it wont and a marriage has the same potential to go sideways just as much as being in a relationship with the wrong person or for the wrong reasons does....I don't think divorce is the benchmark as much as the reasons for marrying are....if you marry for love then I think it has much better chance....im on the fence on this one...I did it once not for the right reasons and im not really sure if I want to do it again...my heart wasn't really in it the first time and I was never the little girl or woman who dreamt about or even really thought about getting married....so maybe I have to accept its not really my thing....
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Hmmm...
According to many, love isn't something that lasts long, then why not celebrate the union of two people each time they feel it's the Right one...?!
Now seriously...I don't believe in the "once bitten twice shy" when it comes to love...unless you allow the same type of insect bites you, again and again...
If you commit to the pattern, then it's stupidity...
According to many, love isn't something that lasts long, then why not celebrate the union of two people each time they feel it's the Right one...?!
Now seriously...I don't believe in the "once bitten twice shy" when it comes to love...unless you allow the same type of insect bites you, again and again...
If you commit to the pattern, then it's stupidity...
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Hmmm...even tho I was not that good at it, I still think that the institution of marriage should be revered and respected. Before Mankind got all sophisticated with grain crops, settled housing, water-borne plumbing and lawyers, marriage was simply the ultimate commitment between one sentient being to another. Survival needs a hunter and a home-maker. Darwinism needs both to propagate the species. However, in a modern-day context, supermarkets, TV dinners, pensions and old-age homes have upset the natural balance of things. We don't need a partner to survive.
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Ano751: This forum is intended to those who strongly suggested to come up with a sense forum verses non-sense forum.
Hense, here we go, should a divorced individual re-enter into the marriage trap or stay free of the consiicuances?
What do you think? Should we go into the same mess thousand times or should we rely on our experiences?
I know some will definitely come to say not all flowers smell the same, out of the rotten ones there must be a better one. I know your answers in advance, but still eager to hear them, specifically those from Australia, they challenge me , so here we go...I bet those from the east part of US are Googling right now, since it is a habbit now not to use one's own brain.
I understand, the French cinema requires more brain activity than Hollywood remakes. Hense, here we go, should a divorced individual re-enter into the marriage trap or stay free of the consiicuances?
What do you think? Should we go into the same mess thousand times or should we rely on our experiences?
I know some will definitely come to say not all flowers smell the same, out of the rotten ones there must be a better one. I know your answers in advance, but still eager to hear them, specifically those from Australia, they challenge me , so here we go...I bet those from the east part of US are Googling right now, since it is a habbit now not to use one's own brain.
remarrying is pretty normal. From a divorce, (or any adversity) we can learn a lot about ourselves, and what we need to change in ourselves from our mistakes, instead of blaming someone.. Even to select and interact with someone.
btw, No "Terminator 999 " or Ghost World.
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Why not skip the weddings completely and be happy with what it is?
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Marrying, whether for the first, or subsequent times, will only work if entered into for the right reasons.
Many people do not look beyond the wedding day, but the hard work begins after that.
Certainly nobody should enter a second marriage without accepting where their first marriage went wrong, and ensuring that will never happen again.
If we don't learn from mistakes, we repeat them.
Many people do not look beyond the wedding day, but the hard work begins after that.
Certainly nobody should enter a second marriage without accepting where their first marriage went wrong, and ensuring that will never happen again.
If we don't learn from mistakes, we repeat them.
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If you consider marriage a trap, then no, there's no point in remarrying.
Otherwise, why not? Especially if he's rich, generous and very old :)
Otherwise, why not? Especially if he's rich, generous and very old :)
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Tulefell: If you consider marriage a trap, then no, there's no point in remarrying.
Otherwise, why not? Especially if he's rich, generous and very old :)
Do I qualify if I meet only two of those three conditions? Otherwise, why not? Especially if he's rich, generous and very old :)
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OnlyLiveTwice: Do I qualify if I meet only two of those three conditions?
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Tulefell: Old and generous?
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Being married wasn't the problem. Being married to an alcoholic was the problem.
I wouldn't marry again because of the experiences I've had with men since my divorce in 1971.
I wouldn't even live with someone but I might enter into a friendship....maybe with benefits....but not sure.
No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
I wouldn't marry again because of the experiences I've had with men since my divorce in 1971.
I wouldn't even live with someone but I might enter into a friendship....maybe with benefits....but not sure.
No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
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secretagent09:
No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
You can always try living together for some while before the honeymoon.No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
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Tulefell: You can always try living together for some while before the honeymoon.
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secretagent09: I would expect living together to BE the honeymoon.
Living together is the honeymoon and then they show their real colours after the honeymoon... Have I got it right?------ This thread is Archived ------
I never even had a honeymoon... 
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On our wedding night I called her honey. She just mooned me.
(sorry, couldn't resist)
(sorry, couldn't resist)
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Tulefell: Living together is the honeymoon and then they show their real colours after the honeymoon... Have I got it right?
Absolutely you got it right!lucky that after honeymoon they showed their real color, that is less suffering time compared to those who go through lifetime trapped in the mess and don't know how to free themselves.
California is only 4 hours away from Las Vegas ( at least from my place) , you should see the long lines in wait to get their wedding passes in such a hurry , and right when they get it for about $40 box or so, in most cases they end up in arguments and split in less than 4 hours, and there is a certain time limit to void that agreement, when they pass that time , the attorney fee in divorce starts tremendously, ridiculously awful , sky rocketing prices that you loose your head. That $40 box civil marriage in Vegas costs you all your life savings when you return back to your home state looking for divorce attorneys. Then you understand the true meaning of relationships, it gives you nothing except ruining your bank account, fico score , much worse if you have joint credit cards, not mentioning pregnancy, then nightmare is nothing, a total chaos!
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secretagent09: Being married wasn't the problem. Being married to an alcoholic was the problem.
I wouldn't marry again because of the experiences I've had with men since my divorce in 1971.
I wouldn't even live with someone but I might enter into a friendship....maybe with benefits....but not sure.
No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
at least you were married to an alocoholic , I was married to a lunatic!I wouldn't marry again because of the experiences I've had with men since my divorce in 1971.
I wouldn't even live with someone but I might enter into a friendship....maybe with benefits....but not sure.
No matter how long you are in a relationship with someone you never really know what makes them tick until you live with them. And that usually shows up very fast after the honeymoon.
at least you can see the alcohol effects right away, but discovering one's lunatic talents was not a joke , costs me time, money, and wound in my heart.
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Inthewoods: I never even had a honeymoon... ... ...
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Hense, here we go, should a divorced individual re-enter into the marriage trap or stay free of the consiicuances?
What do you think? Should we go into the same mess thousand times or should we rely on our experiences?
I know some will definitely come to say not all flowers smell the same, out of the rotten ones there must be a better one. I know your answers in advance, but still eager to hear them, specifically those from Australia, they challenge me , so here we go...I bet those from the east part of US are Googling right now, since it is a habbit now not to use one's own brain.