Geno2809: I don't know the circumstances of his death. I do know that he was on suicide watch in Tallaght Hospital, which was the only thing I debated on.
I said the authorities had questions to answer, which they do.
Ok .. as I said earlier we are just going around in circles, so I won't be posting on the same stuff anymore. I've said all I have to say on the matter.
Geno2809: I disagreed with you that the parents were to blame, and I also disagreed with you about suicide watch protocols. I didn't make a point of disagreeing with you. I just shared my opinions. Is that not allowed anymore?
How can you disagree with me on the protocol when I haven’t defended them in any way ? All I said was that Sinead should wait for an inquiry before blaming the authorities for her sins suicide.
Geno2809: I said the authorities had questions to answer, which they do.
Ok .. as I said earlier we are just going around in circles, so I won't be posting on the same stuff anymore. I've said all I have to say on the matter.
I’m not arguing that point . There will be an inquest into his suicide, so until such time , the mother should stop using the media as an outlet, is what I’m saying.
Geno2809: I never said you singled me out. I'm Irish, so that was a direct insult. No spin involved as there is no spin needed ..
I didn’t realise you was so sensitive. Is that because you have a complex about being Irish , because I’ve been called a lot worse by folk on here , but I take it with a pinch of salt , but if I offended you to the point of you making a big deal about it , then I apologise from the bottom of my heart .
Her Mother was abusive towards her but she still felt strongy about her. She died in a car crash when Sinead was 18. The song she is most known for, Nothing Compares 2 U, was written by Prince but Sinead claimed she sung it in memory of her mother and the tear she wept in the video was real, brought on by these lines....
"All the flowers that you planted mama In the back yard All died when you went away"
bodleing2: Her Mother was abusive towards her but she still felt strongy about her. She died in a car crash when Sinead was 18. The song she is most known for, Nothing Compares 2 U, was written by Prince but Sinead claimed she sung it in memory of her mother and the tear she wept in the video was real, brought on by these lines....
"All the flowers that you planted mama In the back yard All died when you went away"
God rest Shane O'Connor. R.I.P Sadly it's happening alot here, there is a search for a woman missing from Donabate area here....its almost like yes Shane died yesterday,old news, and now looks like this woman MAY have taken her life today. I wonder why Covid takes such significance over a widespread and longer standing issue like mental health and suicide.
Hope Sinead also gets the care and help she so badly needs too.
Youcannow: Exactly, and blaming the authorities in the media is not the time or the place when you should be mourning your child . The blame game should come at a later stage , not when your son is barely cold .
Then you don't understand grief, either.
Or at least you pretend to understand nothing, writing reprehensible posts to get an emotional response from people for fun.
This is not the time, nor the place for you to get your kicks.
QueSera_Sera: God rest Shane O'Connor. R.I.P Sadly it's happening alot here, there is a search for a woman missing from Donabate area here....its almost like yes Shane died yesterday,old news, and now looks like this woman MAY have taken her life today. I wonder why Covid takes such significance over a widespread and longer standing issue like mental health and suicide.
Hope Sinead also gets the care and help she so badly needs too.
That why it’s more important, now more that ever , that we should keep a close eye on our loved ones & to monitor any behavioural changes .
Geno2809: She is blaming Tusla and the HSE, in whose care her son was. They do have questions to answer.
Are you saying that mental health issues are caused by parents and that they are responsible if their child commits suicide?
Just a quick update for you . After admitting herself into hospital , Sinead has apologised to the authorities on Twitter. The singer said she was hasty in blaming others for her sons suicide & takes full responsibility for his death . She said that her son spoke to her a month earlier saying how he was plotting his death . I hope this clears things up for you , as far as my reasoning for her bad parenting skill having caused his mental Heath issues. Just to clarify, this is not a victory for me but a proof that you are ignorant in acknowledging why children develop mental health issues & that you argue just for the sake of being right .
It's not for anyone to say with absolute certainty how anyone parents and its rather childish to assume so. Even if he did say that to her it's not her fault that he wanted to...mental health issues are our own and no one else's
Sadly he was so young he may not have had the right resources to help nor was he old enough to be able to deal with them.
Why does it have to be a case of tit for tat. Just see it for what it is , a tragedy and with no winners.
To want to win an arguement of this type and shove it in peoples faces shows a serious lack or regard for oneself let alone anyone else. I've no wish to argue with someone on the Internet so will leave it there.
Not sure who said this quote but it's true
"When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time".
R.I.P Shane O'Connor and more recently Aisling Murphy....left this life too soon, you were worthy of so much more, the very least being a long life.
You sound like the perfect father! I am sure your kids would say you are/were the perfect dad. I just love it when parents say they are the perfect parents as if their child/children aren't the ones to make that determination. Only a child can attest to their parent's aptitude, not the parent.
Many kids these days who are suffering from suicidal ideations and attempting suicide are doing so because of gender identity and pressure from social media. Saw 9 kids today on one floor and they all endorse suicidal ideations which for most of them was because their parents are homophobic. The problem is social media is doing a number on our kids and for some kids even when life at home is good, kids are being bullied at schools and some kids are imitating what they see on tik tok. Parents have to be more aware what their kids are doing, not that I am blaming anyone.
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I do know that he was on suicide watch in Tallaght Hospital, which was the only thing I debated on.