why are guys heartless (109)
Next time say, "SOME guys are heartless."
Please don't generalize or "Guy Bash" because some butthole did you and your son wrong.
There are men on here who dream of having children or who can't have children of their own.
Please don't generalize or "Guy Bash" because some butthole did you and your son wrong.
There are men on here who dream of having children or who can't have children of their own.
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Ahh Venting is good therapy....
please I think I can speak for the other gentlemen here as well..
VENT AWAY
please I think I can speak for the other gentlemen here as well..
VENT AWAY
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sorry, unfortunately, it takes years to build something and then someone destroys it in a split second...... makes all that time look like waste. make sure ur kid heals properly, it may be longterm, talking about this from experience....
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You have to be so careful when it comes to involving children in any new relationship...and let's face it, men have a pretty ropey track record when it comes to responsability.
Good luck anyway!
Good luck anyway!
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Belly,
None of us are a part of this... not right to just point fingers.. she said they were moving in together... that means that you have to involve the kids... a for his saying he would kill himself.. that is a shame but then again that phrase is all over the tv, radio, music, and games... dont' blame mom so quickly
None of us are a part of this... not right to just point fingers.. she said they were moving in together... that means that you have to involve the kids... a for his saying he would kill himself.. that is a shame but then again that phrase is all over the tv, radio, music, and games... dont' blame mom so quickly
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not all of us are like that. and what if the roles are reversed and you broke a promise and hurt someone, would you be saying things like this now. don't get me wrong I am not condoneing what was done. just look at it from a different point of view other than yours. merry xmas by the way.
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I am so sorry for what happened to you and your son.
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sounds like this s.o.b. needs a good swift kick you know where
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not all of us are so heartless, but you're partly right...
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Why is he the heartless s.o.b.? She clearly stated that she kicked him to the curb after he made the third promise to her son. Did he keep any of the promises? Was he given enough time to keep his promises?
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dazzling_dave: Why is he the heartless s.o.b.? She clearly stated that she kicked him to the curb after he made the third promise to her son. Did he keep any of the promises? Was he given enough tim
e to keep his promises?
e to keep his promises?
yes i kicked him to the curb...he had over a month to fulfill a promise that was supposed to happen the next day...and when my son would ask he would tell him tomorrow everytime...and no he not once kept any of his promises to my son which is why he is the s.o.b. and why i kicked him out...no one is gonna play wit my kids hearts like that...but i do wanna thank everyone who has shown sincere concern and not worried bout how i worded things...yes i am extremely lucky that i did get out sooner than later cause i just found out that he was living a double life and had a wife in louisianna...so i thank god that he got me out of that situation...but my son is stronger now for this he now knows why i tell him to never make a promise unless u know u can keep it...he knows what matters most is that i love him and will never and have never broken a promise to him...oh and for those of u who think i need to look at it from the other side here is my answer to that...if i was to ever hurt someone the way me n mine just got hurt i would still see it the same way...but i dont have to worry bout that cause i tend to live my life and treat my man exactly the way i would want to be treated...
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keepinitreal4u1: why dont guys watch what they say and promise...i just got out of a longterm relationship...we were planning on moving in together so naturally i started getting my kids involved...well he started making promises to my son age 9....so when he took off promises broken my son thinks its his fault and that he doesnt like him...and today he had a meltdown and was talking bout killing hisself...seriously guys u need to be careful when u deal with kids...my heart is broken cause my baby was hurt badly...
Some people (especially the men i've met), will say anything, to look good at the moment. I hope your son is ok.
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keepinitreal4u1: yes i kicked him to the curb...he had over a month to fulfill a promise that was supposed to happen the next day...and when my son would ask he would tell him tomorrow everytime...and no he not once kept any of his promises to my son which is why he is the s.o.b. and why i kicked him out...no one is gonna play wit my kids hearts like that...but i do wanna thank everyone who has shown sincere concern and not worried bout how i worded things...yes i am extremely lucky that i did get out sooner than later cause i just found out that he was living a double life and had a wife in louisianna...so i thank god that he got me out of that situation...but my son is stronger now for this he now knows why i tell him to never make a promise unless u know u can keep it...he knows what matters most is that i love him and will never and have never broken a promise to him...oh and for those of u who think i need to look at it from the other side here is my answer to that...if i was to ever hurt someone the way me n mine just got hurt i would still see it the same way...but i dont have to worry bout that cause i tend to live my life and treat my man exactly the way i would want to be treated...
The same thing happened to me twice!!!! The last time it happened, i found out after 2 months. The apartment i knew was his ( and a flat mate's), was not his. He had most of his clothes there, so he could cheat on his poor wife, which means, i wasn't the only one going there! What's more, he married the poor woman, just for the papers ( he's african, the *ex* wife, finnish)!
I wonder how desperate men are for p****!!!
Disgusting scum!
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Most men are not like this and there are some heartless Women out there too:
This is only one side of this story as well.
This is only one side of this story as well.
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lusciousmile: The same thing happened to me twice!!!! The last time it happened, i found out after 2 months. The apartment i knew was his ( and a flat mate's), was not his. He had most of his clothes there, so he could cheat on his poor wife, which means, i wasn't the only one going there! What's more, he married the poor woman, just for the papers ( he's african, the *ex* wife, finnish)!
I wonder how desperate men are for p****!!!
Disgusting scum!
I wonder how desperate men are for p****!!!
Disgusting scum!
Luscious.......
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Men are not the enemy, they are merely the fellow victims.
Love has an amazing healing quality, channel it towards your son instead of anger towards the guy that hurt and you will be fine..
Good luck...
Love has an amazing healing quality, channel it towards your son instead of anger towards the guy that hurt and you will be fine..
Good luck...
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patrickthomas: Damm, Sorry about that. Had a rush of reality there for a second, won't let it happen again.
It's OK, I get those once in a while too.
Trying hard to fight it and maybe one of these days I'll be like "everyone" else.
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Where does she say, she blames ALL men for ALL her problems? There's a story she's giving here, in case you missed it!
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But I do wish you would say..."some guys". We are not ALL the same. I would even accept "most guys" in some instances. But to just say "why do guys" is an indictment of the whole gender. And yes, SOME guys are cruel and some unintentionally. I am sorry for your son's pain and for yours as well.