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RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 PostsIs it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
You think that's long distance?????
Go for it!!!
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
Its definitly possible. You should at least meet her and see how you feel. Then go from there. But you have to realize that one of you will have to move if comes to anything serious.
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jpunk: You think that's long distance????? Go for it!!!
Your right, it could be much longer
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
Of course you should not scrap the idea! Go see your Aunt and meet the young lady.
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Yes it is possible although it may seem harder to do it really isn't, look at distance as just time traveling, when you love somone you would spend 10 mins to drive to them so why not 10 hours to fly.
Some might say its harder but it's really just how you think about it and as long as you have no problem with spending a little extra time traveling then do it.
Some might say its harder but it's really just how you think about it and as long as you have no problem with spending a little extra time traveling then do it.
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She could be the love of your life, don't let mileage get in the way.
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
What's stopping you? You've got nothing to lose by just meeting her the once, at least then you'll have some idea of how things may pan out.
Good luck,
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
In a word.....NO
Just my opinion, of course! Seldom do local relationships work out...or these sites wouldn't be here!! So how do you maintain a long distance relationship??
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
Try being on the other side of the globe, 12,000 miles away
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It's possible only if you are both willing to do whatever it takes, for sure it isn't easy.....I don't recommend it. 
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
well.... it could be the love of your life, you know? but there again it could not...
if it looks like it is... there's going to have to be adjustments... one will have to move unless you want to carry on whith a relationship where the only thing you cuddle at night is either a teddy bear or a pillow ...
easy to say... "move! move over!" well, there are all sorts of things to take into consideration before that possible move. work, children, schools, doctors.. friends...family... and the dreaded and usually ignored.. "what if.....?"
I know it's difficult to find someone and to actually have the sparks flying all over is probably more difficult... love also gets stronger by being together so I think it's important to be as close as possible to each other if only to be able to see each other on a very regular basis and see how things develop.
long distance relationships are probably a sefety net.
there again, some people have actually managed to have a successfull long distance relationship, done the moving bit and done alright.
so....
are you prepared to move?
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Long distance relationships definitely take more effort...more dedication...
However, if the trip is not "specifically" to meet her, then its not a "wasted" effort if it doesn't pan out (you said you're visiting relatives there as well right?)
However, if the trip is not "specifically" to meet her, then its not a "wasted" effort if it doesn't pan out (you said you're visiting relatives there as well right?)
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wikked: Long distance relationships definitely take more effort...more dedication...
However, if the trip is not "specifically" to meet her, then its not a "wasted" effort if it doesn't pan out (you said you're visiting relatives there as well right?)
However, if the trip is not "specifically" to meet her, then its not a "wasted" effort if it doesn't pan out (you said you're visiting relatives there as well right?)
Yeah, I'm going to visit my aunt there as well.
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained...
Go for it!!
Good luck...
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RadioheadFan123: Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?
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Nope ... can't never work ... by the way ... just out of intrest ... What is her name and phone number?
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If you're going to NC to visit your aunt it wouldn't hurt to meet the girl for coffee or something .........don't label at seeing if a LDR could work. it's just 2 friends meeting and hanging out ......then you can see what's what later...............d@mn labels ruin everything
JMO
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StarliteFantazy: If you're going to NC to visit your aunt it wouldn't hurt to meet the girl for coffee or something .........don't label at seeing if a LDR could work. it's just 2 friends meeting and hanging out ......then you can see what's what later...............d@mn labels ruin everything JMO
If you are going to have coffee with her...you might as well spend the night so that she can make the coffee in the morning. You will be accomplishing several things at one time.
1. Is she any good in the kitchen
2. can she follow your directions on how to make YOUR coffee
3. Will she do what she is told
4. Was she worth spending the night with(or maybe this should be first on the list!)
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shipoker58: If you are going to have coffee with her...you might as well spend the night so that she can make the coffee in the morning. You will be accomplishing several things at one time.
1. Is she any good in the kitchen
2. can she follow your directions on how to make YOUR coffee
3. Will she do what she is told
4. Was she worth spending the night with(or maybe this should be first on the list!)
1. Is she any good in the kitchen
2. can she follow your directions on how to make YOUR coffee
3. Will she do what she is told
4. Was she worth spending the night with(or maybe this should be first on the list!)
:::pounces on ship::: he's too young for #4 or should i say too pure yet
now go back to your corner and behave or i'll break out the whip young man
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