I will welcome it. There is a line from a country song...Lord, I wanna go to Heaven, but I don't wanna go tonight.
I have tried to kill myself(half heartedly) many times. This life isn't worth the effort. So while I don't know if I respect death, I don't respect life, either!!
I know it's a reality for all of us. It's just something you really don't give a lot of thought to until it slaps you in the face... with a friend, acquaintance, loved one, etc. I guess you eventually learn to cope with it, but respect it? Not sure.
I don't know that one can "respect" death. I certainly see it as the break we take between lives, and that our soul/spirit goes to its true home at that point. I don't fear death. I believe that we all die when we are meant to, except in the case of suicide.
aberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia1,328 posts
Well I don't know about respect, but I am not afraid of what the future holds. It is just another chapter...and not one that we can avoid, so acceptance of the inevitable makes it easier.
It is a shame that people don't prepare for death.
They prepare for earthquakes, tornadoes, fires, financial disaster, retirement, education, but they don't prepare for the one thing that is a sure thing for everyone.
i do respect death...knowing we are going to die someday.but the problem is this,is death going to respect my wish of dieing the way i want.because i dont want to die in an accident...like plane crah,drowning,motor accident,eaten by a shark those sort of horrible deaths is a no no for me.(if i can help it)i want to die in my sleep,peacefully.i sure hope death does respect that.
A simple fact of life is that the dying process begins when we are born. I personally made peace with my maker long ago, to day I do not have a fear of dying, yet I am not starring it in the face that I am aware of. I am however going through this with my mother, she is "hanging on" but far from being in anything I would call good condition. Thankfully I have a few great friends to lean on.
Is it a fear of dying itself or is it fear of the unknown??
HJFinAZ: A simple fact of life is that the dying process begins when we are born. I personally made peace with my maker long ago, to day I do not have a fear of dying, yet I am not starring it in the face that I am aware of. I am however going through this with my mother, she is "hanging on" but far from being in anything I would call good condition. Thankfully I have a few great friends to lean on.
Is it a fear of dying itself or is it fear of the unknown??
fear of the unknown....dead people have no fear of any sort.in my case i think its the fear of dying itself.
I have to respect death because it scares me so much. It scares me that the people I love could disappear at any moment and I'd never see them again, and I'd be absolutely powerless to try and keep them here.
I don't fear death, I know it will come eventually and no matter how healthy I get there will be something that causes it. What I fear is that it'll come before I've gotten a chance to really live first.
HJFinAZ: A simple fact of life is that the dying process begins when we are born. I personally made peace with my maker long ago, to day I do not have a fear of dying, yet I am not starring it in the face that I am aware of. I am however going through this with my mother, she is "hanging on" but far from being in anything I would call good condition. Thankfully I have a few great friends to lean on.
Is it a fear of dying itself or is it fear of the unknown??
before my mom passed away she hung on as well, I felt it was becasue she didn't want to let go of us I have 7 brothers and sisters and she new how much we needed her and would miss her
blueriver30: before my mom passed away she hung on as well, I felt it was becasue she didn't want to let go of us I have 7 brothers and sisters and she new how much we needed her and would miss her
Mom is nearly 88, she has led a very good life. Dad went 12 years ago, 2 days before he passed, he told mom he had seen the light, it was a peaceful and a beautiful place, nothing to fear. Mom knows I have a very good life and knows I have everything I "need". I do my best at assuring her everything will be OK.. I do have medical power of attorney, I could go over her head if I wanted to. At this stage of life, why not let her have her way?
wikked: Would you say that you respect death as much as you do life?
For sure some deaths are tragedies...but death is an eventual to life....isn't it?
Depends on your state of 'mind'. naw...no respect for death. real life goes on with the spirit. Holy one, that is. Our bodies die all the time, all day long. Think about it. The child we were growing up - is gone. I'm not the same as five years ago. Gone.
Death seems so permanent - especially when I't someone dear to you. But all one has to do is drive through a traffic jam - and you remember why it's necessary......
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
DazzleYou: Death is as much a part of living as life itself.
It is a shame that people don't prepare for death.
They prepare for earthquakes, tornadoes, fires, financial disaster, retirement, education, but they don't prepare for the one thing that is a sure thing for everyone.
druidess6308: I don't know that one can "respect" death. I certainly see it as the break we take between lives, and that our soul/spirit goes to its true home at that point. I don't fear death. I believe that we all die when we are meant to, except in the case of suicide.
Off-the cuff, first response is no, no 'respect' for Death. To paraphrase Orson Wells from his role in the film The Long Hot Summer, Death is an eventuality which will eventuate at some point in all our lives, wanted, unwanted, sought or not. It is that simple. Do I heed, or have regard to, or of, attention to Death? Well, I have no desire or need to either take my own life, or someone else's under what are regarded as 'normal' circumstances of everyday life. Also, if I see someone who is in peril of imminent death by accident or misfortune and I happen to be in a position to help them survive it, then fine, I will at the very least try and if unsuccessful...c'est vie. Death is busy enough, it doesn't hurt to 'cheat' Death at all.Most of us would cheat Death out without a second thought... Life, as many medieval poets have put it also as in the film The Seventh Seal, Life is a walk with Love and Death, arm-in-arm; the penultimate image is of two young lovers strolling in and of kissing in the middle of an ancient cemetery... What I do find fascinating however about Death is in the above quote from druidess6308...the 'rest break' between our lives. From all that I have gathered from research projects dealing with the origins, developments all our ancient Religions is that there had never been any before Christianity that has ever rejected the concept of multiple lives. When 'reincarnation' was dismissed out of Christianity by the Councils of Nicaea, it still left enough of that ancient belief very ambivalent in terms of total rejection. What exactly was changed was reincarnation from a purely terrestrial form to a 'spiritual' form. Countless research projects have only found more ambivalent inconsistencies. The more research projects on the actual cases of claimed re-incarnations of individuals that I have worked on; the more books published with well documented cases that have been published, all seem to conclusively point to the reality of re-incarnation. My only problem with it is the rather strange patterns of its affirmation in cases. We do not know what happens during 'the breaks' if we are to learn from our past lives and any/all our mistakes, we end up coming back without any conscious memories of what not to do again, nor of any penances that we must pay to satisfy our 'karmic' debts...we have no clue, whereas, those that do and come back with very clear and detailed memories are seemingly in particular geographical areas of the world, India(Far East) and Ireland...(????) Unfair! No known reasons that make sense...The cases are all thoroughly investigated, turned inside out etc. Most have indeed, a genetic/ blood-line connection to the families concerned, especially in most cases in India. So far no coherent theories as to the various why's. Fascinating...for the nihilists among us, remember the old motto of the Spanish Foreign Legion: 'Long Live Death!' Now there was an altitude!
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For sure some deaths are tragedies...but death is an eventual to life....isn't it?