I´m a forgotten old time CS member. (39)

Dec 24, 2008 11:46 AM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.
Dec 24, 2008 11:49 AM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Hay I remember u Jan, good to see u around, welcome hug
Dec 24, 2008 11:49 AM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Mirodenia
MirodeniaMirodeniaNew York City, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 1,670 Posts
I very much care for you Jan.
I will never forget the first Friday Night Party on EU forum when we had such a great time together.
Merry Christmas and a lot of gift heart beating lips santa waving hug lips
Dec 24, 2008 11:57 AM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
What??!!...lost and unhappy folk??...jeegads Jan!...wherever did you get that idea??...far from it, we are just generally rather busy at this time of year...so as in my case, I have invited the cast of the "Radio City Girls" who have a show in Malta, to my tiny flat for a little eggnog...so I'm busy trying to keep 24 women entertained...I'm tyring to do a male version of what they do onstage in my shark suit...so this is just to say you haven't been forgotten, just join the party babe, and have a chocolate croissant!!

kiss teddybear laugh

Jan1305:
This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk,.....
Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.
Dec 24, 2008 12:23 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Not forgotten at all Jan... I always enjoyed your posts! Merry Christmas! Now I have to go massage the turkey...laugh
Dec 24, 2008 12:37 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Maisie
MaisieMaisielarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus4 Threads 616 Posts
I'm a fairly recent member, only the last 3 months. I don't know anyone and no-one knows me but this is an internet site and by it's very nature is impersonal and transient. People join for different reasons. It is easy to strike up friendships with other forum members but at the end of the day, it's not the same as a normal relationship and is a case of out of sight out of mind in most cases.

I hope everyone on here has a good Christmas and New Year, I am one of the lucky ones who are not alone this holiday but I am nevertheless wishing Santa would pop something a bit bigger in my stocking - George Clooney would do for a start.
Dec 24, 2008 1:09 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Mirodenia
MirodeniaMirodeniaNew York City, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 1,670 Posts
Maisie: I'm a fairly recent member, only the last 3 months. I don't know anyone and no-one knows me but this is an internet site and by it's very nature is impersonal and transient. People join for different reasons. It is easy to strike up friendships with other forum members but at the end of the day, it's not the same as a normal relationship and is a case of out of sight out of mind in most cases.

I hope everyone on here has a good Christmas and New Year, I am one of the lucky ones who are not alone this holiday but I am nevertheless wishing Santa would pop something a bit bigger in my stocking - George Clooney would do for a start.
cheers hug
Dec 24, 2008 1:11 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
merry Christmas , Jan


santa waving
Dec 24, 2008 1:57 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
Jan1305: I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.


Have a great Xmas........... I'm not looking forward to it myself, but then I have my reasons; it's always nice to see you post - have a wonderful 2009 ahead! wine
Dec 24, 2008 2:01 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Lagoona22: What??!!...lost and unhappy folk??...jeegads Jan!...wherever did you get that idea??...far from it, we are just generally rather busy at this time of year...so as in my case, I have invited the cast of the "Radio City Girls" who have a show in Malta, to my tiny flat for a little eggnog...so I'm busy trying to keep 24 women entertained...I'm tyring to do a male version of what they do onstage in my shark suit...so this is just to say you haven't been forgotten, just join the party babe, and have a chocolate croissant!!
So you were that LandShark on the Saturday Night Life Show.laugh wave
Dec 24, 2008 2:02 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Jan1305: I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.
Happy Holidays to you Jan.bouquet santa waving
Dec 24, 2008 2:30 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Jan1305: I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.



No, you are not wrong at all Jan, to speak out how you are feeling.

Do you think that? For some it is, I guess, I know when I have felt alone, I have come here for laughs and fun. I like to stay in touch with the people from this forum, that I do and I do.

Jan, I guess, it comes down to is here and the EU has picked up some, I think, in the last few weeks.

You have a great time and always a joy to see you.
Dec 24, 2008 4:16 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
In response to: I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.



Feliz Navidad Jan. Wishing you all the best during the holiday season. Stay safe.

Immanuelle.
Dec 24, 2008 4:33 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
MARTI
MARTIMARTImsida, Majjistral Malta44 Threads 2,726 Posts
immanuelle: Feliz Navidad Jan. Wishing you all the best during the holiday season. Stay safe.

Immanuelle.


May you all have a wonderful CHRISTMAS and a brighter loving NEW YEAR 2009. danceline group hug reunion elephant dancing dog cats meow

BEST WISHES santa waving christmas happy hohoho!!
Dec 24, 2008 4:39 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
santa waving Merry Christmas,Jan.teddybear
Dec 24, 2008 5:06 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Hey Jan! We never forget you - we just miss you lots when you`re not here! You`re always dashing off to Russia!

I for one have always appreciated your No-Nonsense Common Sense, and your sometimes Risque sense of humour. Of course we miss you! You know what its like with any "long distance" friendships...?.....they have to be maintained, just like anything else in life ... the Human condition is a lazy one ....!

I have seen you pop in now and again, and then you vanish completely!

But I dont think its nice to call this a "haven for lost and unhappy folk" ...... Okay, so we all looking for something/someone .... but we`re generally not THAT bad are we?
Just slightly screwed up would be a better term I think? But then we`re entitled to be like that, cause we are all mostly survivors of relationships that went bad, or died on us.

Anyway, nice to see you, and I hope we see more of you now?bouquet teddybear
Dec 24, 2008 5:22 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Jan1305: I´ve been here for almost 4 years on and off, and I posted a best wishes thread for xmas which only 2 or 3 people responded to. Ok, there are many new people here who don´t know me from Adam so I understand. However, when other old timers don´t respond it´s a wake up call.

This place is, in general, what I always I knew it was, a haven for lost and unhappy folk, and the pace at which members are forgotten, however much we have communicated via the forums, is amazing. In real life this does not happen because people make a bigger, more personal impact

I come here when I want to banter, or hear gossip, or see who is flirting with whom, nothing more, but I am a tad disappointed at times.

Am I wrong?

Now I am signing off for Xmas. Best wishes to you all.


confused

Not here. Well, sometimes I feel a bit lost. And sometimes I am unhappy. I cannot tell a lie.

But mostly, I am the opposite.
I can only speak for myself, it's true, but I wonder if your judgment may not be a tad harsh, from the kind of people I generally choose to relate to on CS.

Merry Christmas to you, Jan. I have seen you around. But I have only been here for a matter of months.

bouquet teddybear gift
Dec 24, 2008 5:48 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
Dear Jan...

You might be (like me and only as a member here of courselaugh )but not forgotten....

Merry Christmas 2 you.
Good to see you around.

I will not blame you for not being regular - I am also not very stable herelaugh

Kittylips
Dec 24, 2008 6:05 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
--- Actually I do not classify myself(Dont remember signing anywhre} a "Member" but Jan methinks we all remmeber you- youre the one that shoots rather true and from this post its fairly obvious you are a little blue- (:Hugs:)
Dec 24, 2008 7:02 PM CST I´m a forgotten old time CS member.
ghost007
ghost007ghost007swieqi, Majjistral Malta52 Threads 4 Polls 885 Posts
Hi Jan have a great xmas and new year...of course I remember you but as smoky said ...you are often not here thats all...great to see you back........and i think cs is many things for many people..for me at the moment it is a way of communicating and yet escaping from the the real world which at times just gets too much for me hug ...take care see you on line yay yay
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