The Aura of Female Mystery as it Relates to Communication (202)
Kaybee50: Shall I bring my own pool stick?
Personally I use a cue
Same thing and yes ut I am not sure of the Pudden
patmac: Personally I use a cue Same thing and yes ut I am not sure of the Pudden
Shall I retract my statement that you are the "BombWittity"? 
montecito: KB, will it be you and Patmac against RD and me?
You don't have a chance at winning....
I have a secret to tell you Monte, but don't let RDM and Pat know. You don't have a chance at winning....
If I manage to keep the balls on the pool table, then I consider it a success.
Kaybee50: I have a secret to tell you Monte, but don't let RDM and Pat know.
If I manage to keep the balls on the pool table, then I consider it a success.
If I manage to keep the balls on the pool table, then I consider it a success.
Errrrrrr KB.....this is a game of pool. I tink it not comfortable on da pool table....
montecito: Errrrrrr KB.....this is a game of pool. I tink it not comfortable on da pool table....
I shall choose my words more carefully next time. 
montecito: Errrrrrr KB.....this is a game of pool. I tink it not comfortable on da pool table....
Oh I don't know a gentleman will always take some wight on his elbows .....
Mind you, you gotta remember to chalk his cue
Kaybee50: I shall choose my words more carefully next time.
I see that the gals are still sending out radar signals....
patmac: Oh I don't know a gentleman will always take some wight on his elbows .....
Mind you, you gotta remember to chalk his cue
Chalk in hand...what do I do now Pat? Mind you, you gotta remember to chalk his cue
Kaybee50: Chalk in hand...what do I do now Pat?
Egads, am I the only one on here that doesn't realize when a stray emoticon slips into my posts? Where the H did that blahblahblah emoticon come from? 
patmac: Oh I don't know a gentleman will always take some wight on his elbows .....
Mind you, you gotta remember to chalk his cue
Mind you, you gotta remember to chalk his cue
I've chalked cues before. I know what yer trying to do.
You think I'm going to say I have to rub the white stuff on the end of his stick but don't talk like that in public so you're outta luck Mr. Pat...
mustbnutz: I see that the gals are still sending out radar signals....
Mind Reading 101...
mustbnutz: I see that the gals are still sending out radar signals....
Nutz, your radar just went over this head. What radar signals?Kaybee50: Nutz, your radar just went over this head. What radar signals?
KB, watch yer language...
Let's keep it as simple as it is
Women are as mysterious as Harry Potter's wiz!
Women are as mysterious as Harry Potter's wiz!
montecito: I've chalked cues before. I know what yer trying to do. You think I'm going to say I have to rub the white stuff on the end of his stick but don't talk like that in public so you're outta luck Mr. Pat...
S N A F U .......
potarick: Let's keep it as simple as it is
Women are as mysterious as Harry Potter's wiz!
Women are as mysterious as Harry Potter's wiz!
Simple as long as she's paying.....Right Rick..
Now don't give me a song and dance....yes or no.. montecito: KB, watch yer language...
I may have to go back and read this entire Thread. Seems I may be having foot in mouth moments here. 
Kaybee50: I may have to go back and read this entire Thread. Seems I may be having foot in mouth moments here.
No sweetheart....No foot in mouth.
I've always wondered what this emote if for
Anybody know?
Ambrose, I'll be the first to apologize for hijacking your thread.
I'm torry....
montecito: No sweetheart....No foot in mouth.
I've always wondered what this emote if for
Anybody know?
Ambrose, I'll be the first to apologize for hijacking your thread.
I'm torry....
I've always wondered what this emote if for
Anybody know?
Ambrose, I'll be the first to apologize for hijacking your thread.
I'm torry....
Figured it by myself.
Too much information..........
montecito: No sweetheart....No foot in mouth.
I've always wondered what this emote if for
Anybody know?
Ambrose, I'll be the first to apologize for hijacking your thread.
I'm torry....
Means "Too much information". When someone shares a bit more than wanted. I've always wondered what this emote if for
Anybody know?
Ambrose, I'll be the first to apologize for hijacking your thread.
I'm torry....
Well, let's see - I think once you get to know someone you can read people's body signals and if you can't ...then you aren't paying attention. That said, obviously it's best if people can actually be honest and upfront...however, CLEARLY, some people don't like the truth and/or choose to ignore the signals that might indicate a person isn't interested or whatever! What I have learned is usually if someone is 'pretending' to be 'mysterious' it usually means they aren't being too honest!
IF the behaviour isn't consist - or is consistently "off" - then run for the hills!!! That goes for men and women!
It only works in the movies methinks! Johnny Depp...sigh...bet he ain't that mysterious after 5 years and a few kids!
IF the behaviour isn't consist - or is consistently "off" - then run for the hills!!! That goes for men and women!
It only works in the movies methinks! Johnny Depp...sigh...bet he ain't that mysterious after 5 years and a few kids!
kidatheart: That's one of the things I like about you, no BS or games, the way it should be.
Hey there H..i cant be arsed with games..or...someone thats not going to hit me with the truth...im NOT afraid to tell it like it is...i respect a guy that says M..you will listen to me..
How are you fab guy..
RDM59: Tests, quizzes, game-playing ...... I thought that's what pubs are for ....
See ya .... ....
See ya .... ....
I should've mentioned darts, too, RD. Women can be very skilled with them.
leigh2154: Hello J........I can only speak for myself on this one and base it on my relationship experience....I can see how some would "label" communication problems between men and women as women expecting their men to be mind readers because women are by nature (biologically) more emotionally aware/in tune than men....By being so, we sometime assume our men are aware of something that seems very obvious to us when, in reality, they are completely unaware.....By "assuming" this, we become hurt, frustrated, angry, withdrawn, whatever, if they do not automatically react appropriately to whatever it is that is bothering us.....When this happens, the problem becomes compounded because now the couple is at odds with each other.....This type of "non communication" has not existed in all of my relationships because some men are highly sensitive to mood and pick up easily and it has existed to varying degrees in other relationships......Bottom line is early on in the relationship we need to "learn" our partner and act accordingly....It's a bit like the "hot" button thing...it doesn't take men or women long to "learn" where each others hot buttons are....Same thing is true of emotions, we can "learn" to read our partners body language and open dialogue accordingly...
Yeah, I think you hit the relationship "nail" on its...uh, "head," V. Very nicely put.
I, like you, don't see any reason why we can't learn each other's "codes." Just requires a little motivation and a little work, methinks.
RDM59: .... now don't forget your cue and arrows. You do have your own of course, don't you ..... ... that's my kinda gal ...
I can't believe you converted this into a "pub thread," RD (I wasn't aware that such a thread was even possible!).
To be honest, I could stand a good game of darts and beer right about now.
Ambrose2007: It has often been suggested that women in general have greater expectations of mind-reading from their significant others than men in general do - that is, they expect their mates to understand what they mean and what they want without explicitly expressing those meanings or wants.
Sometimes this is called "mind-reading." Lately, I've been wondering, as a sort of corollary, if women prefer vaguer kinds of statements and perhaps even an aura of mystery.
First, do you believe that women in general are more inclined to adopting a partial shroud of mystery, composed in part by more vague statements and other selective information-withholding, than are men?
My own experience with women is that this is indeed the case. I'm not sure, however, why it is. I have some speculations, but I'll leave them to later.
Sometimes this is called "mind-reading." Lately, I've been wondering, as a sort of corollary, if women prefer vaguer kinds of statements and perhaps even an aura of mystery.
First, do you believe that women in general are more inclined to adopting a partial shroud of mystery, composed in part by more vague statements and other selective information-withholding, than are men?
My own experience with women is that this is indeed the case. I'm not sure, however, why it is. I have some speculations, but I'll leave them to later.
to be as clear as possible, no
Ambrose2007: I can't believe you converted this into a "pub thread," RD (I wasn't aware that such a thread was even possible!).
To be honest, I could stand a good game of darts and beer right about now.
To be honest, I could stand a good game of darts and beer right about now.
501? 701? DIDO? Cricket? Soft or steel? Captain & Coke....
LovelyMorticia: Well, let's see - I think once you get to know someone you can read people's body signals and if you can't ...then you aren't paying attention. That said, obviously it's best if people can actually be honest and upfront...however, CLEARLY, some people don't like the truth and/or choose to ignore the signals that might indicate a person isn't interested or whatever! What I have learned is usually if someone is 'pretending' to be 'mysterious' it usually means they aren't being too honest!
IF the behaviour isn't consist - or is consistently "off" - then run for the hills!!! That goes for men and women!
It only works in the movies methinks! Johnny Depp...sigh...bet he ain't that mysterious after 5 years and a few kids!
IF the behaviour isn't consist - or is consistently "off" - then run for the hills!!! That goes for men and women!
It only works in the movies methinks! Johnny Depp...sigh...bet he ain't that mysterious after 5 years and a few kids!
amahlala: 501? 701? DIDO? Cricket? Soft or steel? Captain & Coke....
I think strip poker would've been more appropriate. This is a singles site, after all!
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KB, will it be you and Patmac against RD and me?
You don't have a chance at winning....