is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women???? (305)

Feb 13, 2013 4:56 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Saw Die Hard 4 a couple of nights ago. It featured a woman who was trained in martial arts or something akin to that, a trained fighter/assassin. Our lovable rogue John McClane had to fight her as if she was a man otherwise she probably would've killed him.

I think in circumstances where a man's life is seriously threatened (i.e. bigger/stronger/wielding a weapon + intent) it would be warranted, of course. One has to do whats necessary to survive.

Anything less than that, no.

There are men that believe, misguidedly, that to dominate physically (or indeed mentally/emotionally/financially, etc) is a demonstration of their manly prowess but, in fact, shows a very weak person, controlled by his own anger rather than in total control of his emotions.
Feb 13, 2013 5:07 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers: People should have skivvies on a lot more often, especially when they're agreeing.

Though I'd make a plea for thongs in some cases.
could you say "skivvies" one more time, please? (it sorta does it for me when you do...) laugh
Feb 13, 2013 5:15 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
Gentlejim
GentlejimGentlejimunknown, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 96 Posts
rohaan: Anybody hitting anybody else is wrong, whatever the gender. I do support having to defend oneself, and sometimes it happens that the assaulter is a woman. People always say how a certain thing should be, as in the folks who say "Never"; but anyone who has a clue how Life really goes at times knows that you can't really say what you'd do if the circumstances were awry. Saying that a man should just "not hang out there", or "choose friends differently" is weak. Our lives throw many things at us we don't see coming, and often a choice to defend ourselves or take the lesser of two evils demands it. JMO
Feb 13, 2013 5:21 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
rohaan: could you say "skivvies" one more time, please? (it sorta does it for me when you do...)



thong thong thong. smitten



puimond. love





ok skivvies. grin
Feb 13, 2013 5:25 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
Gentlejim
GentlejimGentlejimunknown, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 96 Posts
I agree with you. You can't pick the circumstances. Most things happen in a flash! Many years ago I was out dancing with my girlfriend and this guy kept bumping us intentionally on the dance floor. I told him to stop bumping us. He ignored what I said and did it again a couple of times more. I stopped dancing and picked this guy up and threw him across the dance flr. He got up and came at me and I dropped him in his tracks with one punch. His girlfriend came at me with a spiked heel of her shoe. I caught her arm before she could plant that heel in my head. I warned her that she back off or she would be laying next to her boyfriend on the flr. She did and that stopped everything. So when a person is in a public place, I think you should always be aware of what is going on around you! It may save your life!
Feb 13, 2013 6:43 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
BB_snickers: People should have skivvies on a lot more often, especially when they're agreeing.

Though I'd make a plea for thongs in some cases.


Where I come from a skivvy has the same meaning as a lacky.

confused
Feb 13, 2013 7:04 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
bodleing: Where I come from a skivvy has the same meaning as a lacky.


so ... you'd wear a lacky? confused



wave Dave?
Feb 13, 2013 7:52 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
montemonte: Buttercup, you don't need to be a mind reader when you read my comments. Now I know you're just trying to rattle me Okay I'm rattled but when I'm done jumping up and down on you you will look like this ------>



Wouldn't that be like hitting me? giggle



At least gingerbread is smiling. Maybe its the view. rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 13, 2013 8:04 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
BB_snickers: Wouldn't that be like hitting me?
At least is smiling. Maybe its the view.



Ahhh yes, if a woman is rattled somebody deserves hitting. Maybe I should put that in the proper thread. laugh

Can you imagine the responses that will get.doh

You're such a dork Snick but I'll continue to "deal" with you wink hug

Now there are three sentences each with a different message. Can you handle that dork man grin
Feb 13, 2013 8:05 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
Women should never hit men either, totally unacceptable.
Feb 13, 2013 8:13 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
CHOLENA: You do choose who you get in confrontations and altercations with.


Not always, I was headbutted once in an unprovoked attack,or maybe the Irish get involved in more fights because we drink more.
Feb 13, 2013 8:58 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
NO
She assaulted you and you should have called the police and had her arrested.
Feb 13, 2013 9:01 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: NO
She assaulted you and you should have called the police and had her arrested.


Who are you quoting? doh
Feb 13, 2013 9:06 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
I was quoting no one, only stating my opinion to the poll question.





menu11: Who are you quoting?



tongue
Feb 13, 2013 9:10 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I was quoting no one, only stating my opinion to the poll question.



Hi Mud.....I think you must have been quoting someone cause you said "She assaulted you" which sounds like it's in response to someone saying they were hit dunno
Feb 13, 2013 9:14 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I was quoting no one, only stating my opinion to the poll question.


Sure seemed you were quoting someone, or talking you yourself.tongue
Feb 13, 2013 9:15 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
Whoops, the OP stated he was hit with a bottle by the other guys girlfriend.dunno
montemonte: Hi Mud.....I think you must have been quoting someone cause you said "She assaulted you" which sounds like it's in response to someone saying they were hit
Feb 13, 2013 9:18 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
ooby_dooby: I got into a brawl with 2 guys one New Years Eve. It was all a big mistake. Anyway, I decided to go after the bigger guy and get him out of the way then kick the seeds out of the smaller one. I got the big guy on the floor where I was at home and had him in a headlock getting ready do a number on his face when he dug his nails into my face like a woman. I had to let him go when he grabbed my hair and started to drag me out of the apartment. I figured he had to let my hair go sooner or later and when he did I was ready to deliver a goodnight right hook. I felt his grip release my hair and I sprung up hauled back and let a sunday punch fly right at his face. That punch was all the strength I had cause I knew it was my only shot. Right at that moment his gf jumped in between us and that haymaker landed on her cheekbone. She dropped like a sack of potatoes. Damn! Now this guy is gonna be pissed because I just knocked out his gf. I figured my best bet was to get the hell out of there so I made for the door and after a little more scuffling outside we were both too tired to go on.
That was the only time I ever hit a woman and it was an accident.


hahahaha rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing sorry for rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I think the way you tell this story is quite hilarious ooby laugh but I bet actually being there wasn't much fun @ the time uh oh

Awwwwww don't ya jus lurrrrrrve how well wine beer & N Y's Eve make a gr8 pair up! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 13, 2013 11:11 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
LonelyMontse08: I dislike fighting I've seen cases in which the woman has hit the man first and he has responded hitting her, not even like that I agree, a man NEVER has to hit a woman no matter what, now on the case you're describing me, the only reason I would learn kicking techniques would be to compete as an athlete and well in that case I would have to kick and get kicked but out of the case you wrote me I woudnt fight and I dont ever.


I believe you and I’d much prefer to watch your athletic abilities performing the Chacha.laugh

Thanks for your response... cool
Feb 14, 2013 3:29 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers: thong thong thong.
puimond. ok skivvies.
bowing thank you thank you thank you




(could you describe them please? details, details.....)
Feb 14, 2013 3:33 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
rohaan: thank you thank you thank you

(could you describe them please? details, details.....)


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Happy VDay Ro...You dashing darlin you teddybear
Feb 14, 2013 3:37 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
modermen
modermenmodermencork, Cork Ireland66 Threads 1,108 Posts
2SHORT: ok,its my first poll an i wanted to ask a question that really puts peoples values up against peoples sense of fair game. Like 2yr ago i was in a brawl with a guy,and as i started to get the better of him his girl hit me over the head with a bottle.Glass stuck in the back of my head,i was a bloody mess.Im almost positive at the time i would of put her to sleep if the bouncers hadnt got to me when they did....(A LITTLE ASHAMED OF THAT BUT I CANT DENY IT).Id forgot about it untill i bumped into her on my way to a friends today..It made me recall it.*ESPECIALLY INTRESTED IN WHAT WOMEN THINK*AND THE AGES OF PEOPLE VOTING.
I don't like violence full stop, but if a woman hit me over the with a bottle and was coming at me again and I had to defend my self yep I would hit her.
Feb 14, 2013 3:39 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
venusenvy: Happy VDay Ro...You dashing darlin you
You don't miss a beat--how is it that you're here for me so much? Love it, love it, love it! Happy Valentine's Day!!!lips heart1 heart1
Feb 14, 2013 3:43 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
rohaan: You don't miss a beat--how is it that you're here for me so much? Love it, love it, love it! Happy Valentine's Day!!!


Happy Coincedence Ro...Im working crazy hours lately teddybear
Feb 14, 2013 5:28 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
As my daughter said when I told her that her father beat me . . . "You probably deserved it" . . . . doh
Feb 14, 2013 6:03 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
2SHORT
2SHORT2SHORTstoneham, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
newinsouth: As my daughter said when I told her that her father beat me . . . "You probably deserved it" . . . .
thats messed up ur lil girl said that......did u attack ur husband n the heat of the moment or is he just a a**hole?
Feb 14, 2013 7:08 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
montemonte: Ahhh yes, if a woman is rattled somebody deserves hitting. Maybe I should put that in the proper thread.

Can you imagine the responses that will get.

You're such a dork Snick but I'll continue to "deal" with you

Now there are three sentences each with a different message. Can you handle that dork man



you mean Master Dorkman. tongue
Feb 14, 2013 7:21 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
BB_snickers: so ... you'd wear a lacky?
Dave?


Wear a lacky where?...confused


btw...Dave's not here...grin


wave
Feb 14, 2013 8:10 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
bodleing: Wear a lacky where?... btw...Dave's not here...



Good, all the more stuff for me. grin






You really do want to let me in. giggle
Feb 14, 2013 8:25 PM CST is there EVER a good enough reason for a man to hit a women????
BB_snickers: you mean Master Dorkman.


that's an admission, then. I assume you've taken the Dork Geek or Nerd test?


I scored Nerd....yay
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