minnieme2: yes! people make too much of it; if it happens enjoy it as safely as you can and move on; it's your own business and a fun memory for later. Might be best not to tell any judgemental prudish types or those who have a tendency to gossip or blab (they tend to put their own spin on things!), or if ya like, tell them as if to say put that in your pipe and smoke it! haha!
Ken_19: Four votes. 2 men, 2 women. No man said no. No woman said yes.
So from this we can assume only for the male does scratching the itch and forgetting about it the next day appeal strongly enough so the inclination is admitted.
Clearly all the women who do so, have felt ashamed and would never openly vote yes about it.....
minnieme2: The best one night stands are spontaneous (most are unplanned)... you're both at a party or club, you're flirting, chatting even, dancing, buzzed from a few drinks, have the hots for each other, things happen and next day you just carry on with your lives; neither of you may be in the head space to start a relationship or just don't even think of it, and maybe even soon after start one with someone else. No big deal!
If getting drunk and jumping a stranger is no big deal for you, carry on.
no. not intentionally. not as an agreed upon course of action. no. the only way a man could get away with having a one night stand with me would be to lie about his intentions.....and continue that lie until he got what he wanted. If that sounds improbable, then you haven't met many men..lol
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I had one night stand. But then, I got another one. (The room looked so incomplete without a matched set...)