What do you say to an ex you don’t want to see but have to see closely at a social event in a swimmi (53)
John333333Xaghra, Gozo Malta11 Threads 4 Polls 180 PostsI say nothing at all ??
John333333: I say nothing at all ??
Seems kind of rude. Are you sure that’s the option you would take?
galrads: I don’t know but I doubt it. She txt msgs me, asks a question, i’ll text back with a reply, then she’ll text me again with some kind of shirt comment 18 to 24 hours later closing with ‘ “take care, love you, (name withheld)”
She’s playing with youPackersbabe1: She’s playing with you
My niece thinks she’s a poser. We did see each other in the swimming pool last night and said hello and mentioned she left something on my windshield. Then she turned her back on me and waded away. 
galrads: My niece thinks she’s a poser. We did see each other in the swimming pool last night and said hello and mentioned she left something on my windshield. Then she turned her back on me and waded away.
Your niece? I thought this thread was about a woman you were in a relationship with. 
secretagent09: Your niece? I thought this thread was about a woman you were in a relationship with.
This thread is about a woman i was in a relationship with. Sorry about my confusing things 
my niece doesn't think herself to be a poser, my niece thinks the ex gf is a poser. galrads: My niece thinks she’s a poser. We did see each other in the swimming pool last night and said hello and mentioned she left something on my windshield. Then she turned her back on me and waded away.
Your niece got a point, and attention to
galrads: Your opinion is valued. Don’t see you around the forums much. Hope all is well your way. thanks.
Hey there--I appreciate your comment. (I'm slowing down a bit on just about everything now--and sometimes if I feel I get a less than friendly comment(s), I sorta shut down. Thanks again--
You smell like hidden motives..Get away from me
Mercedes_00: You smell like hidden motives..Get away from me
I don't know exactly how this fits into the OP-- I guess a very simple and direct response to how you may feel would be simply to by-pass this thread. I mean, it's only as big as YOU make it--I read your comments from time to time and it usually appears that you are thoughtful, grounded, and tactfully forthright. Lately it seems that something is bugging you that probably has nothing to do with Connecting Singles. We all have challenges and "forks in the road", so to speak. Some of us are a little worried about you. Are you well?
hiya galrads
if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
jono7: hiya galrads
if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
Copy that--I always enjoy reading your thoughtful and positive comments, darls.....thanx for that......we are having a very nice early Fall here on the southern coast. How is going in your neck of the woods?if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
rohaan: Copy that--I always enjoy reading your thoughtful and positive comments, darls.....thanx for that......we are having a very nice early Fall here on the southern coast. How is going in your neck of the woods?
hiya Rohan thank you.
lovely to be e-seeing more of you in the forums again.
you’ve been missed.
I’m currently in Ontario, and the weather is fabulous, leaves turning colors, and still wearing flip flops....lol
(yaahhh... I know. winter is right round the corner....lol )
galrads: My niece thinks she’s a poser. We did see each other in the swimming pool last night and said hello and mentioned she left something on my windshield. Then she turned her back on me and waded away.
So what did she leave on your windshield?Sorry Gal,but I can't shake an image of her with her skirt jacked up leaving something on your windshield.
Maybe I need help.
Nothing
jimgi: So what did she leave on your windshield?
Sorry Gal,but I can't shake an image of her with her skirt jacked up leaving something on your windshield.
Maybe I need help.
You have a wild and dirty imagination jmgi. Sorry Gal,but I can't shake an image of her with her skirt jacked up leaving something on your windshield.
Maybe I need help.
Carry onjono7: hiya galrads
if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
if I were speaking with you, I would say this in a kind and caring way.
between the lines, it sounds to me like you want to see her.
so ask yourself....why?
and then be honest with yourself.
are you hoping to get back together?
is this a possibility?
if not, accept the friend zone or be prepared for more heartbreak.
this ain’t high school, and we are all capable of not attending an event we are not working at, or going to an event without speaking to an ex, or .....the tough one... acceptance and letting go.
remind yourself, no matter your choice...you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
Am I hoping to get back together .... kind of but don’t see how it’s possible unless
Why .... because we got along when we saw each other and we laughed a lot
galrads: Am I hoping to get back together .... kind of but don’t see how it’s possible unless
Why .... because we got along when we saw each other and we laughed a lot
galrads,Why .... because we got along when we saw each other and we laughed a lot
weelll..... I hope you have a great time at the swim shindig (grin).
I’m not asking you to do stand-up... but I am hoping you get to share some of that laughter.
no swimming
........... unless......
?
rohaan: I don't know exactly how this fits into the OP-- I guess a very simple and direct response to how you may feel would be simply to by-pass this thread. I mean, it's only as big as YOU make it--I read your comments from time to time and it usually appears that you are thoughtful, grounded, and tactfully forthright. Lately it seems that something is bugging you that probably has nothing to do with Connecting Singles. We all have challenges and "forks in the road", so to speak. Some of us are a little worried about you. Are you well?
When you say some are worried about me you mean some are gossiping about me..Why aren't I surprised and hey if I'm concerned about people on here I mai themI was joking..No offense but I'm not going to be careful with my sense of humor..Have never been the type to try and fit in with the majority of how they believe I should should think.
Thanks for being concerned
Mercedes_00: When you say some are worried about me you mean some are gossiping about me..Why aren't I surprised and hey if I'm concerned about people on here I mai them
I was joking..No offense but I'm not going to be careful with my sense of humor..Have never been the type to try and fit in with the majority of how they believe I should should think.
Thanks for being concerned
Forgot to add that I run into my ex often..When he whinges about he's ailments I tell him straight about he's obesity and anything else that he whinges about I give him a piece of my mind so it's not like I'm on a site running an ex down that hasn't been said to he's face.I was joking..No offense but I'm not going to be careful with my sense of humor..Have never been the type to try and fit in with the majority of how they believe I should should think.
Thanks for being concerned
That's my two cents worth.
Years ago one of my exes showed up at my door (for legal paperwork reasons) and I screamed "Ahhhhhhh!" and almost punched her. Both were just reflex actions.
We were to meet later at a local public area and she decided to drop by instead.
Scared the ever livin' crap outta me.
We were to meet later at a local public area and she decided to drop by instead.
Scared the ever livin' crap outta me.
jono7: galrads,
weelll..... I hope you have a great time at the swim shindig (grin).
I’m not asking you to do stand-up... but I am hoping you get to share some of that laughter.
no swimming upstream in the deep end...
........... unless......
?
Unless we both are wiling and want listen with an open mind to try and understand one another to be willing to choose ..... weelll..... I hope you have a great time at the swim shindig (grin).
I’m not asking you to do stand-up... but I am hoping you get to share some of that laughter.
no swimming upstream in the deep end...
........... unless......
?
hey jono
Believe me I would not say a word as done just that. You don't have to say anything as there is no obligation here. I had to be around mine at a function and it was harder for him to be around me than vise versa. I have moved on and obvious he has some baggage to worth through like the truth.
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