ekself Blog Comments (1,711)

RE: Drummer Problems

Careful what you say it can backfire.

RE: Lowest of the low

They have definitely increased over the years. When I first started using single sites most of the people were real...especially those from South Africa. Now I struggle to get real people here.

RE: I've stretched it & now it's too long !

We got presents but it was mostly something like new pajamas or something we anyway need and that parents are suppose to provide. Birthdays were when you got the good stuff.

RE: geseunde kerswes

You have to work a bit on your Afrikaans but it is a good effort.

RE: totally frustrated

I surely hope you will get some responses as you sound like a real person with a lot to give to the right man.

RE: idk

No but if you go for 50 or 60 you better not breed else the poor man can forget about going on pension.

RE: Yorkshire humour. I like it.

Very sound advice...

RE: Allergy to girls ??

maybe she should not have told him the truth

RE: Stamp

You are really good at this. It looks very nice.

RE: Happy Christmas and Merry New Year

Wonder how many times we are going to read and write this message over the next 4 days...saw you changed it a bit...
Same to you...hope you have a lovely Christmas.

RE: temperaments

I know those kind of men and I also run when they come near. Octopus is a good description...

RE: temperaments

I agree as that is the part of a person that never chances so it better be right from the start.

RE: I just pulled big-time

Lots of men on here get like that when looking at photos...wonder if it is some kind of virus. Be careful as you don't want to spend the rest of your life with a constant smile to keep him besotted.

RE: Why does bad things happen to good People?

I have tried to figure that out for many years and got a lot of different answers but came to the conclusion that it happens mostly for no reason at all. None of us has immunity against bad things and nothing we do can prevent us from experiencing bad things. It has nothing to do with punishment or rewards...it is just how life is. You took a lot on yourself so don't feel guilty if you can't cope. Get help if possible even if it means putting them in a home. Sacrificing yourself even for your parents can rob you of all the joy life has to offer.

RE: This is so true!!!!

No cats in my house until I can manage to kick my son out as he is very allergic to cat hair. We had to switch to dogs as pets when he was still a toddler.

RE: Could 'being single' be seen as destiny?

Not all people have the same need to have a partner. The idea that you can't be happy or your life can't be complete without a partner is very wrong. Some people are better off alone as they will never be really happy with anyone they try to share their life with. Don't know if it is destiny or just part of your personality

RE: My buddy..

Wow...think you have done a good job as a father...

RE: cs profiles

Age...don't even bother to look at profiles that are not within the age group I prefer.

RE: To find reasons to be happy is to increase happine

I am always happy but sometimes I am less happy than other times. To be a little ray of sunshine all the time is not really humanly possible.

RE: Life is ...short ...

not morbid at all as knowing we have limited time is a good motivation for using that time as well as we could.

RE: Alas...

You are a good daughter having so much patience with your dad. Must be so hard to keep the comfortable and happy when they are all confused about most things.

RE: scapegoat

It is just the way most people think for some reason. That is why I stay clear of anyone who is in any kind of relationship.

RE: what is the best start for a relationship?

a fire made with twigs never last. When you take your time to gather wood and build a nice stack before lighting the fire you will have a longer lasting fire.

RE: Well, They are not dangerous...

So cute...thanks for sharing.

RE: Life

Yes...lots of times that is very true. I suspect the human race is not as bright as they thing they are most of the time.

RE: Enough is Enough!

A world without bacon will be a sad world indeed. We shall fight them in the mountains and valleys and even on the beach but we shall not let them take our bacon away....

RE: A Time For Reflection and Meditation

Another year nearly gone. May you end this year and start the new one with a smiling heart as life is good even when we think it is not.

RE: "THERES A PLACE"..(1)

And they claim in nature there are no borders. They surely fight just like us to keep their little piece of land for themselves.

RE: girls just want to have fun

A single black girl with a face like that will not stay single for long.

RE: Maybe this is the place to get it started

As an outsider all I can say is...the way it seems to be according to what we see of the USA, I never want to live there.