Everyone I know thinks they know me. They all tell me and each other so, but no two of them have the same opinion of who they think I am. I don't believe anyone can fully know anyone else.
I tend to keep my tried and trusted friends a long time. Most now over 30 years. I occasionaly make new friends and although we don't see each ot ehr often, we just pick up where we left of our last conversation when we meet again. Real friends are too precious to lose.
I suppose if you had a partner and a load of male friends, all together between them you'd find the ideal man...
No man is perfect just as no woman is...
For me the only ideal man is one who would think I was beautiful and liked to be in my company more than with someone else, someone I felt that way with too. The rest is only window dressing.
All my meetings in my life with men have involved traditional dating. Never met one I gradually got to know in a work or similar setting. I actually like going out and meeting someone new. I love conversation and am pretty good at drawing the shy ones out on their topic of choice. I'm not someone who goes out a great deal anyway to socialise , so it's something to look forward to for me, and a chance to do something different.
I enjoy dating. I have dated serial daters who have many women they are seeing at the same time. They ususlly don't get a second date. I only talk to one person at a time, only date one person at a time, never keep a few on hand, so to speak, in case things don't work out, because that, for me, would mean that I wasn't putting any real effort into really getting to know the one I was seeing.
It would appear that you don't read through earlier threads. If you did then you would find at least two threads today congratulating people on their upcoming marriages. There are many more on earlier threads too, and of course the success stoies section is full of them too. Does that answer your question?
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RE: RE: Does anyone know the REAL you???
Everyone I know thinks they know me. They all tell me and each other so, but no two of them have the same opinion of who they think I am. I don't believe anyone can fully know anyone else.