Ok, Ok I will admit it. Sheila is coming to visit me....separate bedrooms of course!! Have a safe trip and I will see you in a few hours. Don't forget to ask Batman for some shark repellant.
I can tie my own shoe laces. I don't drink or smoke, but I can buy liquor at any bar, liquor store or street corner. I don't do drugs...except for cymbalta...ask me later what it is...
Stacy--this is your forum. Is it fair if I proclaim Cris as a match for me? I am sure everyone here knows, but Cris is the most intelligent, thoughtful woman in CS forums! She is an amazing woman and I hope Reno won't bite my head off!!!
Serenity is gorgeous. Sure Nicole is gorgeous also. But Nicole is so far away....and I don't mean distance. But a down to Earth, beautiful woman like Serenity is more beautiful because of her available smile and soul.
I have had surgery on my back also--malignant melanoma--I wouldn't care if a woman had half her back removed--please don't think that any importance in a relationship concerns vanity. A woman who overcomes any physical ailment is beautiful to me.
Blanca--may I suggest someone who is more stable than Tom Cruise.....ok maybe someone who is almost as stable? ME! Well, maybe Oprah's couch can help you with this one.Katie has nothing on Serenity!
There are alot of "me" oriented people out there...the trick is where to find the "we" oriented people (boy that sounded corny..sorry). There are alot of decent people here in CS, especially the forums. I am relatively new to CS and the forums and I am finding that the people here are mostly caring, decent people with integrity. They are also funny as hell!
I met someone on CS who I was very attracted to and we got along great. We dated for about a month and she had to move away. I have learned that I really want a tomorrow, and a next day, and a next day...I miss her more everyday she has been gone. So living for today is nice but very unfulfilling.
Fighting has the opposite effect on me--I feel terrible after it is all said and done. But I have known many people (couples especially) who somehow enjoy fighting, even to the point where they are totally turned on by it.
And I also know couples where fighting is the only thing they have left to hold on to...pretty sad. So be careful....
You just listed 7 opinions on how to eat, and then you say stop listening to other people's opinions regarding how you should eat?
All I did was offer an opinion based on fact that worked for me.I think people who buy books and diet plans are somewhat foolish when the simplest and most successful way to lose weight is eat less and exercise--totally free advice.
As far as losing weight being "ego driven", of course it is. I had low self esteem when I was fat and would never consider joining a dating site. Now I have more confidence and my ego is given a boost when I get compliments. Not just on how I look, but the determination and perseverence that I adopted when I started losing weight 11 months ago. It is tough to lose weight and people who do have their own reasons why. But ego is probably on most people's list why they want to lose weight, so it is a silly notion to offer ego as a put down. Case closed. Next???
LOL--I think that is the best weight loss system around. And maybe instead of walking 12 miles a day, a woman who plans to visit you could be my seduction--I mean reduction partner when she comes to visit me.
WAY TO GO--doesn't matter how, but what matters is how you feel. I know it sounds corny but it is true. By the way, you look great! Losing weight is more psychological than physical. You have to change your lifestyle for life. Losing the weight is great but keeping it off is the hard part. But if you keep doing what you have done to lose the weight, you won't have a set back. (Why do I feel like Tony Roberts all of a sudden?)
I know it is tough, but be patient. Also, give yourself a pat on the back and be proud of what you accomplished!! I walk very fast, so maybe quickening the pace would help. Cut out all sugar and that will really help. Losing weight takes time to do--just don't stop what you have done to lose 30 lbs and add the few suggestions that I gave and you will be surprised. Good luck!!
What 1st drew you to the truck driver? We all pretty much, no matter who you are, make instant judgements about people--1st impressions are a part of our makeup. Didn't his appearance at 1st give you pause Blanca?
Motivation..that is what it is all about no matter if the motivation is important like a career goal, or small like someone wants to lose weight to fit into a pair of comfortable blue jeans.
RE: All my bags are packed, I'm ready to go...
"Separate bedrooms? SEPARATE BEDROOOMS????Humph! So much for packing my crotchless underwear.
Hi everyone! It's me!