I'm not the best person to judge after a computer disaster on sunday morning.
For what my opinion is worth i honestly wouldn't worry about it, then again i would say that having a face that looks like it hit the floor when i fell off the bus.
Lifes too short to worry about people, you either like them or you don't...or maybe they will grow on you like fungus???????
We don't do the "decal" thing in europe, i think its someone with a sticker machine in America that thought this one up!! God luck to him, he must have made a fortune.
I used to lavish people with gift i thought they would really like. Then somewhere along the line it dawned on me that some might "expect" these presents and it put me right off.
Some people at work once bought me somethig silver, for my birthday....and it was slammed down on my desk in front of me and i just said "I accept your gift in the manner it was given, so please whatever it is please take it back and get yourselves a refund".
Some of you may think this is foolhardy, and what caused this outburst believe it or not was me sitting with one of the women in the office who i was going to ask out, for three others to be really annoyed that i wasnt spending lunchtime with them!
I really liked "Emma" but there was no way i was going to be scutinisedand like that every day, and have a relationship watched over by hawks in the office.
I should have just gone out with her, and be damned as she was lovely.The other threes attitude throwing a tantrum over not having lunch as we did every day made me adopt a policy of never dating anyone i worked with.
In that case it was a terrible mistake, one i regret.
Absolutely agree, personally i do what i have to to get through Xmas.
One day i might see it differently, and the season just amplifies already exsisting emotions, whether they are good or bad.Some will associate it with personal events, which as in my case will always be the same.
That said i let others enjoy themselves and if i can help it go somewhere very quiet and watch the ducks and stay there a long time.I've tried helping and playing the cook and host with a smile on my face, but inside i was screaming you hippocrite....i cant bear this.
This year i will be spending Xmas eve with a friend for dinner, then escape as fast as possible to get away from people.
Seasons greetings to everyone who would like them.
I think it all depends on the two people concerned.If you know each other in the real world and want a long distance relationship you use modern technology just to stay in touch.
Mind you, meeting say here on a site and conversing endlessly without meeting and saying hugs, kisses etc to someone you have never even met does feel just a bit odd to me.I cant see me professing undying love to someone i haven't even met, its a bit insincere, and i'd frankly feel a idiot as its not rational.
Till it's real, you don't even know if you will get on with someone in the real world, or god forbid they smell like a chemical toilet.They might have weird habbits, like picking their ears and scrapping the debrit of their fingers with their teeth.....which someone described to me recently!!!
As for timescales, it depends on what you want, or how long you want to really meet a person if its not in the real world.You mightly be completely wasting you time, who knows.
Personally from my perspective, it might be someones idea of cheap entertainment or something? I really don't know but until you've got along in the real world you don't even know if your flogging a dead horse.
I say lifes what you make it, if you want to try, go for it.......and i cross my fingers for everyone.
A friend of mine met someone on the net, they spoke all the time, talked on webcam etc, they met and in september this year they got married, he sold up here in the UK and moved lock stock and barrel to America....absolutely true story, so it does happen.
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Guess what, Riya is a friend of mine..and i have seen her on cam and talked to her for how many hours Riya?Tell him where were going on her first trip into Europe too!!
Sorry lad, she's entirely real and the pics dont do her justice, ive seen far better ones of her.