Elegsabiff Forum Posts (695)

RE: He hurt me, but my love is bigger than my anger.

I don't know - are your business pressures likely to change? because if you were too busy for him before, soon enough you will be too busy again and wondering whether he is looking around again. Or you will put your career on the back burner for his sake and end up resenting him for holding you back.

Still, 13 years is a long time to invest in a relationship. Difficult one.

RE: Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?

Oh, if romance is even a remote possibility that would be a different thing altogether. Either I would be keen, in which case it does become exclusive, or I would retreat as nicely as possible to a safe distance.

I thought your question was general chat, and I am usually chatting to a couple of people at any time, but not on a romantic basis. I find people interesting. Someone only wanting to talk about 'us' when I don't see an 'us' is not so interesting.

RE: Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?

It's absolutely fine to talk to multiple people so long as there are no misunderstandings about it. If you're telling each that she's the only person in your life, or even letting her think it, well, you know the answer to that.

When it's just getting to know people, even a bit flirty, why not? Chances are they are talking to others too. Sooner or later there'll be a click somewhere and even that doesn't stop the chatting, the honourable thing to do is say I've got a meet coming up and it might turn into something. No more and no less.

If it does, it would be gentlemanly to let the other(s) know that as much as you've enjoyed the flirt, you're going to give this new encounter a fair shot, good luck and goodbye xxx

If it doesn't, say so, and continue the chat

There's an incredible charm about honesty but a foul slime about finding out someone has been morally ambiguous

JMO

RE: Men, we don't want your money!

Well, if they have more than they need, and want to share, it would be rude to refuse.

If I had more than I needed, and wanted to share it with a nice man, I'd be quite hurt if he spurned it.

RE: Would you date a little person?

I do know of a little person who'd had a running flirtation on the phone with a customer for over a year and they got on so well that eventually he was phoning her every day and finally suggested they meet up. She hadn't even mentioned that she was different, and said confidently that it wouldn't matter, that they were long past that.

Maybe they would have been - if she had mentioned it. But she waited at the meeting point for an hour and no-one came up to her and he never phoned again.

When you do really, really click with someone, and how rarely does that happen, should it make a difference? So that's why I said I'm shallow.



Oh and Molly, you make me feel feminine

RE: belated happy birthday mollybaby

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????

RE: What do you crave on CS

Yeah - he should have offered ice-cream if he wanted a buyer

RE: What do you crave on CS

Oh help is there a subtext? Clue me in

RE: What do you crave on CS

well, it's a start

RE: What do you crave on CS

not in that video clip

RE: What do you crave on CS

Hahaa I got a message almost immediately but not sure it was related. He said simply 'I had like to meet you' and included a rose.

What do you think? Follow it up?

RE: What do you crave on CS

In the name of all that's holy, are Irish women all such nags? how do Irish men not run screaming?

(that might be a question for Molly )

RE: I Love Redheads

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It really IS uncanny how alike we are, the mistake was easily made

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oh my guess who will be in a VERY good mood tomorrow night

Which will make a nice change

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There's an old joke, I cook a lot with wine, if there's enough I even put it in the food

But serious answer -

full-bodied cheap red wine in winter casseroles
Brandy in chicken liver pate and also in Christmas brandy butter
whisky in the whisky sauce that goes with Chicken Balmoral

and I used to make a really good beer soup (no, seriously) but haven't done for years. Might true it again sometime.

And you?

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my memory's shocking and for a moment, a very brief moment, I actually wondered where I had left the wonderful guy

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Oh damn, is that what we're supposed to do? Oops.

I do tend to look accusingly at the nearest man and say 'you DIDN'T!'

Which of course is factually true.

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The trick is to stop drinking it when the foam spreads over the surface

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I will never look at a mango the same way again

That did the trick, ya BEAUTY

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I think he got all excited and went out to buy ice-cream instead

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Best way to eat a mango is sitting in a bath, and it isn't a pretty sight.

Unless you have a video of yourself which proves me wrong, of course.

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Yes but - who's going to be teaching?

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You HAVE to be kidding. You could stay still with icecream trickles and a human mop on the job? I'm ticklish, man!

You'll just have to be really quick.

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Never tried, but that's what I already said, I'm here to learn

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Probably easiest to just tip it onto my tummy and lick it off, that is usually the least wasteful way.

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Nope, I'm definitely a one or the other girl.

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Messy schmessy. Go on

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Would I be giggling breathlessly or just rolling on the floor?

RE: Ban the Poster Above You

You calling the lovely Serene an old fiddle???