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Everything She Wants!!!111!!!

Well, since the "what he or she wants" threads are so contagious, I'll contribute. This in not about women, it's about both genders in a new relationship, and when things change after those first few magical weeks.

Perhaps George Michael's best production (okay, maybe Careless Whisper was).

"I guess I must have loved you.
'Cause I said you were the perfect girl for me,
Maybe...
But now we're six months older...
And everything you want and everything you see,
Is out of reach...not good enough...
I don't know what the hell you want from me but boy" - Wham


Okay, the theme here is how things can change in a new relationship. That first initial take-off can be so awesome---those first 6-8 weeks. You could do no wrong, she could do no wrong. Then after the fireworks are done, and the smoke is settled, new views on our partner emerges, and we think---oh dear, what's up with that? Funny how it didn't matter in the beginning, but then after a while, we start to see things in a different light.

Just thinking out loud here. Funny how everything is perfect in the beginning. Thoughts?

RE: Why are you here, really????

Bend over then...

RE: Do you dress to impress?

I undress to impress. Filter that as you wish...

RE: Do you beleive 9\11 was a inside job/?

Will Ferrell on SNL. You see how un-American you are? Shame on you!

RE: Do you find yourself......

Pics?

RE: ladys your favorite men

I know this is about your favorite men, but I would like to say my favorite women are the Pleiadians...

RE: What is more important to you for living

Love! Gotta have the love for something in life, otherwise the air that you breathe is toxic...

/Clicks

RE: Is it?

Does this mean you are willing to give up the goods on a first date?





Nah, it's not desperate at all, it just means that you have a strong feeling of what you want. However, if you just go with anyone to just be with somebody in order to fill a void, then yeah, that is desperation and usually ends up in a disaster. Be wise when you choose your partner, be patient! If you want a cat, get a cat! Don't compromise and be true and honest with yourself. It's much more harmonious to be alone in peace as opposed to be with somebody who'll only bring disharmony and drama.

Also, learn how to love life the best way you can being single, makes life much more pleasurable if you can do that----instead of being trapped by your strong desires to "just get with somebody" if it's an idea in itself. Give the idea substance, choose wisely and be patient. It'll be worth it.

By all means though, find anyone to fill a void that you can only fill yourself, you'll learn many valuable lessons that you are meant to learn...young one.

RE: What MEN want...

lol It's football season and that time of year for the baseball playoffs! I know, it never ends haha!

RE: What MEN want...

So much truth in that. I'd love to expand that thought, but I'm too busy with pregame NFL talk. Big Monday night football game coming up---with spicy storylines!

But yeah, we seem to be always on the chase for something tomorrow---if we get this and those labels or if things are like that which projects this then we'll be happy instead of being with today. I can understand having goals, but not at the cost of some fancy label, burning bridges, or something that does not bring true meaning, in the sense of building character and value---or any memories that we can hold on to.

RE: What MEN want...

Welcome to Western society!

RE: Do you beleive 9\11 was a inside job/?

Oh yeah! Well I drive a Dodge Stratus and I happen to be in charge of over 30 people!! And I've been playing baseball my whole life!

I win

Bigfoot/Sasquatch - Do you believe?

You do strike me as a husky guy for sure! Personally, I don't know about that pic in the OP, but the video I linked in my OP is legit.

Bigfoot/Sasquatch - Do you believe?

What? lol

Bigfoot/Sasquatch - Do you believe?

Is Bigfoot :cough: well endowed?

RE: EX G/F'S... Question for you ladies

Well, it's not out of the question that you are making indirect comments towards her via vague FB posts. Just saying. You two did break up recently after a lengthy relationship, so these things just don't disappear from your conscious mind and subconscious.
Also, you may must be making whatever vague comments that are not directed at her, and she may be assuming that you are. So I see a mix in between the two going on here.

My advice, this....

RE: Do you beleive 9\11 was a inside job/?

RE: Confused....

True! Maybe she wanted to escape the wretched winter here and the government controlled liquor store hahaha. Can't blame her.

RE: Confused....

Cool deal! Good to hear you've had a good experience with the internet Swedish women! Every woman?!?! That's a good hit rate! Maybe I should put a nice car in my profile pic as well? Just kidding.

I'm just speaking from my experience. In any case, I rarely send any mails to anyone since I am not here to hook up....just for the forums. But when I first came here to find somebody, I had a much better hit rate with the American women and other European women, but rarely Swedes. Then again, there are not too many Swedes on this site.

RE: Confused....

This...

RE: Confused....

No worries. I don't even bother anymore sending mails to locals. I was supposed to meet up with somebody from this site, and she was a Chilean/Finnish mix, but born and raised here---and we never met up since she flaked out. I'm not saying this is the rule here, but just an unfortunate experience.

I'll just say it's much easier to approach Swedish women in real life.

Also, I can totally understand not responding to heavy first mails hahaha!

RE: Confused....

Actually it is. I'm not saying ALL the Swedish women, but just about all of them that I have tried to make contact with. There are 2 exceptions out of at least 20 that I can remember off the top of my head. And the other ones that respond, they are not really Swedish.

Have you experienced differently? And no need for the thumbs down, relax dude...don't be so damn rude.

RE: Confused....

I'm guessing it's because you don't respond to said mails?

Swedish women are the worst at responding to mails here. I have sent mails long ago, and they were just the saying hi type of mails----no internet marriage proposals or promises.

RE: Do you beleive 9\11 was a inside job/?

"The scientific paper Active Thermitic Material Discovered in Dust from the 9/11 World Trade Center Catastrophe provides, quite simply, proof that explosives were used in the destruction of the Twin Towers." -

RE: Is the Holy Land ,..Holy?

My daughter is 9, my son is 14. They are more important than Cali, so I stay in Sweden and ghey Europe.

Strange people? Son, go in the South, you'll see all levels of strange there. Or go to the trailer parks in the midwest where methlabs are heavily concentrated

I will say that Venice Beach and parts of San Francisco have some really strange people who would blow your mind haha.

Regardless, California is the Holy Land. Perfect weather sonny boy!

RE: Why do women smoke, when they spend a fortune on makeup

Smoking is a huge turn off. The end...

RE: Is the Holy Land ,..Holy?

Isn't the whole world in Diaspora? If there is one thing you can count on in California, is the perfect weather, serene nature, and the open minded diverse people.

Why are you always hating on California Conrad? I thought you didn't hate America? California has done a lot for America, and the world. FACT!!!!

RE: Is the Holy Land ,..Holy?

California is the Holy Land...

imo

RE: CS Pub will now reopen..........

GO GIANTS!!!! Up 4-0

UFOs eyed nukes, ex-Air Force personnel say

I'm not sure what you mean Conrad? Please explain. How soon until disclosure do you think?