blathin Forum Posts (3,125)

RE: "DOES NOT MATTER" - Reality Check

They? I don't think any of us can read their minds, or speak for total strangers, so maybe you're either asking the wrong people or maybe even the wrong question.

RE: "DOES NOT MATTER" - Reality Check

They? I don't think any of us can read their minds, or speak for total strangers, so maybe you're either asking the wrong people or maybe even the wrong question.

RE: A blog for the blabber mouths!!

Here here

RE: A blog for the blabber mouths!!

God, not in my experience they aren't..some might try but lets face it, 99% of men don't have the inherent alacrity women have for it

if they do then one can't help but ask...ok, maybe I shouldn't go there

RE: A blog for the blabber mouths!!

Nope, can't say there's anything really...lot of white fluffy stuff floating around the place that's proving a bit irksome but other than that all's calm on the good ship lolly pop here as usual

P.S. Venom, in writing? Minus the eye contact? Nah...sure that's no fun

RE: A blog for the blabber mouths!!

I log in and the first thing I see is a thread title at the side saying "A blog for the blabber mouths"

And to think some say this place is no fun, I thought that was hilarious

Have I been missed? *snort snort*

RE: A discussion...on how some women manipulate and lie to men

Yet here you are.......on a dating site

RE: Can anyone relate to celebrities today ?

Were you three sheets to the wind or something when you wrote that Galrads?? Because it sure sounds like it

RE: A discussion...on how some women manipulate and lie to men

good advice cryptorchid, I doubt he'll listen though

RE: Good luck Angleterre and Italy

I don't. I'm seeing first hand the effect of the UK leaving the EU. And, if things keep going the way they're going they are going to end up regretting it.

RE: Read Head Vs Blonde

I don't know why you think that, of course there are natural blondes.

RE: Read Head Vs Blonde

from what I've seen I'm not sure I'd agree Irisheyes..

RE: Read Head Vs Blonde

I'd say, those "some people" you're listening to haven't a clue what they're talking about.

RE: What’s your selling point ??

isn't that the truth

RE: What’s your selling point ??

Hi Sel As women, we find that kind of insulting because there's far more to us than just how we look.

But for men, that's how they're hardwired so they can't help it..just as us women can't help preferring certain traits in a man because that's how we're hardwired.

RE: What’s your selling point ??

Quite easily actually

Just messing. It wasn't your thread or what you were asking that made me cringe, it was the idea of actually answering

RE: What’s your selling point ??

Ah don't be putting yourself down like that Track...you're far from ugly.

RE: What’s your selling point ??

*cringe*

RE: Glasgow

Is it ? Why?

RE: To marry

The priest would probably be listening with a hand down his pants wishing he was part of the fun[/quote

The sad thing about that, is that's what used to happen in good old Catholic Ireland...only it wasn't his own pants his hands were down it was the pants of some poor little lad in his care.

RE: Is the whole world going insane?

Oh you're harsh lol... As a woman, having a mobile phone makes me feel so much safer if I'm driving at night or somewhere I wouldn't have gone alone pre-mobile phone days...

The internet's got to be one of the greatest technological resources we ever had too, or ever will. It's such a shame it's so abused by so many though, such a shame...

RE: When you feel lonely and need someone to talk to.

Ahh see that's why so many people say this online dating doesn't work or is such a nightmare. It's designed purely for men and what they want/how they think/etc etc.

If online dating were setup to suit (genuine) women it'd be a far slower process but I can assure you, there'd be far more dating going on and far more successful relationships from it as well....

If you first need there to be a photo to establish someone's suitability and can't find out through messaging, then that says more about your lack of character than someone's lack of a photo..

P.S. Presuming to assume is borne out of lack of imagination and/or the ability to simply just ask.

I agree, there are plenty on this site to choose from. If one is prepared to put in the time and effort that is.

RE: Glasgow

Here ya go Ali, knock yourself out




And given what I've seen of Glasgow women ......I'm sending this "without prejudice" too

RE: When you feel lonely and need someone to talk to.

Me neither But not complaining about it though

I dunno, I do wonder sometimes if half the people that go on and on about scammers aren't the scammers themselves..

RE: When you feel lonely and need someone to talk to.

Hmm, I'm not sure I'd entirely agree with that ana_g and am wondering if you've ever actually given it any serious thought? The real reason for loneliness is just that, being alone. Being able to live and enjoy your own company is great. But, as a species we're hardwired to socialise and connect with others. We're hardwired to lean on and need others. That's why we lived as communities. So it's a very basic (emotional) need. Even the most introverted introverts need someone to talk to every now and then, in a meaningful way. Tittle tatlle and silly shop talk/gossip isn't connecting.

I believe most of society's problems can be found rooted in loneliness. Chronic crazy consumerism, hedonistic behaviours, frantic rushing to and fro, shallow/poor relationships, inability to listen, talking about oneself aaaallll the time, never showing any compassion, they're all symptomatic of loneliness .

All these kids that are talking about having social anxiety, I'm pretty convinced that's borne out of lonliness too. They've been smothered by parents who won't let the child out of their sight and were rarely, if ever, given the opportunity to develop social skills that would help them connect with others. And the parents themselves were clueless as well , so not really their fault.

What's saddening, is that most don't even know or realise that they're actually lonely. What's even worse, is that it's so stigmatised, and considered shameful people would rather die of loneliness than admit they're lonely.

Having someone ( a genuine friend, a kind listening ear, or doing something for someone else e.g. charitable work) will ease your loneliness and " is" the solution. Telling people to learn how to be happy "on their own" is (and I don't think you meant it to be) cruel.

I've forgotten the original post now and wondering if I've rambled off on some mad tangent there....oops lol

RE: To marry

Honestly? Yes, I could and sure what'd be lovelier? I'm not sure if I'd be bothered with all the fuss of an actual wedding, but the idea of being with someone, for the rest of my life that I truly, deeply love and idolise (oh and vice versa too) ...well.."my cup runeth over".

RE: I call it service

Youtube runflats

RE: To marry

Oh the priest'd be busy alright.....all those dirty dirty confessions .....

RE: To marry

Lol..given my age; how far down the line are we talking here Pedro?

RE: Learn to live with it.

Well we don't need to worry about the CS forums' male reproduction rate, that's for sure....