I do not make a habit of taking on other people's problems.
If I got upset about something that doesn't concern me, that would be pretty wasteful of my energy resources. And I can tell, I have very little to spare as it is!
yes, I can appreciate that it still was hard dating, with that final 'done deal'. Nonetheless, at least you were able to confidently convey that you were 'emotionally' unmarried.
Your behaviour would also have reflected that. That is, behaviour matched state of mind.
Give yourself time to adjust to your newfound 'single' status, and all that it might represent for you.
Probably more due to you being such a baby then than anything else
Like everything, many exceptions, particularly, and not necessarily based on age. Two I can think of immediately. One couple met while the man was still married, and they essentially had an affair, then got married, and he raised yet more children. The other were 2 people in their 40's. The woman was going through a horrible separation. The man remained by her side nurturing her. I understand even gave her baths. I saw them last year, 15 years after she first cried on his shoulder. And she made it known to all that she did many more things as well! He lapped up all the attention, 'coz he was normally quiet as a church mouse! For onlookers and her family, you couldn't have had more of a mismatch. She was this hot blooded, fiery woman, and he was a meek and mild OH&S officer!
But granted. Warning bells are to be heeded and carefully considered.
Maybe instead of astrological matching, people should be matched on how attentive, respectful, kind, honorable, and appreciative, they are, towards other people!
I'm sure I could come up with a brief questionaire to distribute!
venere08 Forum Posts (9,996)
RE: Married People on a singles website
Of-course. And no doubt.I can only ever speak for myself.