Anam Cara, Gaelic for "soul friend," is an ancient journey down a nearly forgotten path of wisdom into what it means to be human. Drawing on this age-old perspective, it helps us to see ourselves as the Celts did: we're more than just flesh, blood and bone; we comprise individual worlds, that sometimes, if we are lucky, meet up.
A table for two by the side of a lake, freshly cooked fish served on a bed of crisp, green salad, music wafting across the water, and a chilled bottle of white to start the evening off..
Polls can be interesting sometimes, and informative.
I think what irritates people is when the poll question is particularly silly, or one of those "Would you Date Me" ones. Also ones that are just repeats of other previous polls.
If Im not interested in a poll, I just dont contribute! Simple!
This one is a poll on polls, so I find it interesting!
What does it matter what the age gap is? As long as you and your partner are happy, and get enjoyment out of being together, no one else's opinion matters..
All comes down to lack of manners. Whatever has happened, it is usually possible to let that person know why you cant attend. Even a text is better than nothing.
A real man for me is one who is happy in himself, is not afraid to stand up for his opinions if necessary, and who is not afraid to cry and show his emotions..
I read alot of the posts that go on on this site, particularly regararding what men and women want from each other.
The main things that seems to put barriers in the way of taking this further are:-
1. Insecurity in oneself; 2. Hurt relating to previous experiences, and prejudice therein; 3. Worries about financial abilities to please the other person; 4. Fears of being hurt again and the automatic implementation of emotional armour to stop someone getting to close.
What is the answer to these impediments? The answer to all is the same. TRUST.
In yourself, to be able to provide, and then trust in the potential partner.
Trust is the hardest thing to regain. But it is surely most important thing to obtain in order to enjoy an loving, longterm relationship. Which, I think, most of us on here would like.
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RE: Do you belive in finding...
Anam Cara, Gaelic for "soul friend," is an ancient journey down a nearly forgotten path of wisdom into what it means to be human. Drawing on this age-old perspective, it helps us to see ourselves as the Celts did: we're more than just flesh, blood and bone; we comprise individual worlds, that sometimes, if we are lucky, meet up.I truely believe we all have an Anam Cara.