As Ive said many times before on this forum, I think it is WOMEN who are confused. The conflicting dictats that modern society decrees - "Feminist is Best", "Being a Laddette is Good", bla bla, has left alot of the younger ladies, in particular, confused about their own role.
Men havent changed; it is women who have blurred the meaning of what being a "woman" is.
I guess its because you are not just dealing with the LDR thing, its also the moving around business. Your partner cant focus on one location in their mind. In a general LDR, at least you can visualise that place where your partner lives, and make a connection.
Im sorry you find it so difficult, lostbabygirl, and wish you luck..
Before, and If, I marry (again!), my potential husband would know all about me; my faults, my mad hair in the morning, the things that annoy me, everything..
Whats the point of putting on a facade?
You cant hide from yourself, and if you try to no relationship, whether marriage or not, will be successful.
RE: Your single now.
Sure..I like multiplying...