I know this may cause a riot, and I dont mean it to, but Im going to say it anyway..
I have noticed that alot of ladies in Ireland seem to find it hard, or think it wrong to make the first move on here, i.e. send a flower etc. I do know that alot of ladies have said they do, but it still seems to be prevalent that they expect the man to make the first move..
I may be wrong here, and Im really not trying to offend anyone, but I think its important to remember that its 2009, and there should seem nothing "forward" in a lady sending a guy a sign that she is interested..
RE: dress sense
Someone who is not lifting weights...I want my man to be subtle, not in my face...