I would have stayed with my 2nd girlfriend who I was with for 3 years and only left the relationship when I went away to college. I was stupid and as a college freshman, I had all the other college girls to look after and didn't want to be anchored to a college senior.
She was the most gorgeous and likable girl in the whole school. She later went on to be a pharmacist and I lost track of her.
A methamphetamine user who had picked his skin all the way down to the bone.
Although that is not quite as unusual.
I also had a guy brought in to the ER a number of years ago that had a trailer through his abdomen. A trailer broke loose from a vehicle and it crossed the median on the highway and hit his car. It pinned him to the seat through his abdomen.
They had to use a torch and cut the trailer tongue off and bring him in with it, because removing it would have killed him.
He lived and had a whopping lawsuit against the company who didn't properly secure his trailer.
I am a romantic person, but I don't talk a lot. I am content to just be with someone rather than having to talk all the time.
Holding each other on the couch and just relaxing is as fun to me as playing basketball, which I have done for years.
I am not real big on buying gifts for romance - although I do it. But to me, time together holding hands, or walking the boardwalk with my arm around her waste is better.
Surgery went ok. I feel a lot better already. Just to let you know, I ruptured a disc moving a patient. The guy wasn't even heavy, go figure.
Anyway, I got fixed up. I was searching my mind through all the conversations with the nurses and surgeons I had had over the last few years to make sure I didn't make any of them mad - you are pretty vulnerable in that position you know.
I didn't get into the OR until 3 hours later than planned. I got superseded by another more emergent surgery.
They moved really fast on this - faster than perhaps I was comfortable with given that A)I did it at work and B)Without me there they are understaffed.
I will be home most of the week and depending on how I feel I may go back in this weekend. The surgery itself was relatively minor - a carve out of the disc to stop contact with the nerve. So basically, aside from the incision, I won't have any after effects once the surgical inflammation goes down.
My fantasies are so tame. I want to be at a Caribbean island resort with lady, in a private hot tub on the deck, making love, every single inch of her body touched with lips and tongue.
No agenda, no phone calls, no computer, no traffic, no distractions of any kind.
I don't ever remember my parents saying, "Son, I hope you marry a doctor someday."
What I do remember is them saying that they hoped I would marry a good girl who has a good head on her shoulders and is "sweet".......their words, not mine.
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RE: if you could start life all over again what relationships that you had would you change ? and why ?
I would have stayed with my 2nd girlfriend who I was with for 3 years and only left the relationship when I went away to college. I was stupid and as a college freshman, I had all the other college girls to look after and didn't want to be anchored to a college senior.She was the most gorgeous and likable girl in the whole school. She later went on to be a pharmacist and I lost track of her.