DazzleYouDazzleYou Forum Posts (836)

RE: What's your Phobia?

I have doctorophobia. I am afraid of doctors.

RE: How many CS members enjoy riding motorcycles

I used to, but if you treat or see one motorcycle rider with severe road rash it will cure you like it did me. I used to have a Harley that I took out on the weekends. I sold it soon after residency.

RE: Are you same, online(or more exactly in CS forum) and in real life?

I am much more introverted on the internet then I am in real life. Though I am pretty introverted in real life as well. In the personality assessment tests I am right on the line between introvert/extrovert.

RE: Happy Birthday to Doc!!

Thanks for the well wishes guys.

Lucious, I used to post on here quite a bit. Life handed me a big lemon (or a few) and I am not on here much anymore, but I still have friends on here.

Some better than real life friends if the truth be told.

RE: Happy Birthday to Doc!!

Wow, what a pleasant surprise. I figured my birthday would swing by and noone would notice.

RE: If someone owes you money and they forget to pay, how do you approach them?

First off, I never loan money without a signature.

Once I have that, I simply leave them a message...

"Hey man, I know it probably just slipped your mind, but you forgot to pay me like you agreed to. If you just forgot, no problem, this is a reminder. If however you deliberately failed to make your payment, can you let me know why? Do you need an extension? I will work with you, but you have to communicate with me."


If it has happened several times, I let him know that the arrangement was not being honored and that I need payment in full by ____ date.

Then if the date arrives and he hasn't paid I file in court.

Fortunately I have only had to file once, but he paid before the court date.

RE: Finish the sentence: The way to a man's heart...

The way to a man's heart is through his thorax with rib spreaders.

Or through his thigh.

professor

RE: Health Care Reform Poll

I have health insurance and I support reform, but not reform that includes a government socialist program and constrains me as a doctor from delivering care or doing as my education and experience has trained me for.

Entering patient data and treatment into a database so that I have to seek that database for treatment guidelines is not what will control health care costs.

We need meaningful tort reform, and we need less government intervention, not more.

RE: Your CS success stories here, and disaster stories.

Met a girl I really liked, made plans, life happened.

My disaster is personal, has nothing to do with CS or the girl.

RE: Who was your King?

WTF, I don't think I am the only one who has had a traumatic brain injury on C.S..

I don't have a king per se, but Marvin Gaye and Johnny Cash are awesome.

RE: Need dieting tips

You could do like I did Owen, but I don't think you would want to.

I am probably 15 pounds under a healthy weight for me right now.

Was not overweight and ran 5 miles 4 days a week before my health crisis.

I am trying to bulk up the right way now to try and get back some of the muscle that has atrophied over the last several months.

An Update

Fortunately all is not lost. I knew I could not keep the kind of pace I used to in the ER, but emergency medicine has always been my passion.

But with my move to the Northwest (I won't even go into the stupid set of circumstances that caused that), I was looking at opening my own emergency medicine clinic. That way I could keep daytime hours and wouldn't need to feel like a vampire.

But, I found a not for profit health clinic that basically does emergency medicine - no traumas, mostly stuffy noses, broken bones, bites, sports injuries, and the pace suits me well.

Plus, they let me pretty much keep my own hours as I am basically there to divide work load away from the primary doc that works there. Of course the pay is nothing like what I was making, but it is still comfortable given that I don't have any debt.

Thanks for the comments on my writing. If you saw my handwriting, you would change your mind, lol.

An Update

Thanks for the well wishes.

Yes, an aneurysm is a rupture of vessel or vessels in the brain. It can be caused by a number of factors, however I don't seem to fit the mold for any of them - which does rarely occur.

Aneurysms are often fatal, however I had mine at a hospital I was interviewing for a new position at. I was speaking with my would be supervisor on the sidewalk out front after observing for a shift to see if it was a team I could work with.

I was attended to very quickly which was very important to my survival. Rehab has been difficult, but if it was easy my progress would not have been possible.

My only regret is that although my life was spared, life has seen major changes for me - most of which were not positive.

But, we still have life.

An Update

Been a long while since I have frequented CS.

Things are good here.

I'm up to about 6'1" or down to that anyway. I have lost quite a bit of weight - probably too much.

Rehab is going well. I have regained about 90% use of my extremities. Still a little shakey when walking, but hopefully that will come.

I will likely always sound like a drunk which is great when I get pulled over like I was a couple of weeks ago.

Things at the clinic are great and I am assuming a larger case load every month. I expect I will be full time there after Christmas.

Time is short, I am not home much. Things are pretty good here, overall.

Actually took today off

med,

I had an aneurysm and 2 weeks later had a subdural hematoma. I have been in recovery. My license that I refer to is my drivers license because of paralysis and loss of gross motor function, I was not permitted by my physician to drive. But have progressed enough now that I can drive with some modifications to my vehicle and was able to get my Washington DL - I had just moved from CA when this happened.

I am doing well. I am nowhere near 100%. More like about 50%, but after this happened I was about 10% so I have made progress.

Still sound like a drunken sailor though. Not sure I will ever get rid of the slur.

Actually took today off

I took today off with nothing to do, nowhere to go. I am not working out, not going to work, not going to PT.

I haven't been around much lately because I haven't been around much. I leave out at about 6 a.m. for breakfast with friends, then 9 a.m. P.T..

I go to lunch and get to the clinic at 2 p.m. and work till 6. Then various night activities.

I finally got my license back on Monday and have been driving like a bat outta hell so watch out on those highways.

RE: Who do you think is the best young actor?

I don't know any of those.

I have always been partial to Dakota Fanning.

RE: What's the fastest speed you've ever made by a vehicle?

I have been 135 on a kawasaki ninja before.

RE: He doesnt call but he sends text msgs

texts are cheaper. May be he is a cheap skate or has no money.

RE: I need your prayers!!!

Sorry to hear owen. I just saw this - first time I have been on since Friday.

How old is he again?

If I had a dollar for every head shot I took growing up, I would be a very wealthy man.......oh wait, in light of my recent problems, that may not be too comforting.

Weekend plans

Wow somechick, I wish we had an indoor shooting range around here. They are hard to come by these days because of all the DNR requirements.

John,

I am going out in a boat this weekend too. I think I am going to buy it.

I can't drive a car yet, but I can drive a boat. I will just have to pay storage at the pier.

Since mom is no longer alive I try to stay busy during this weekend.

Weekend plans

Anyone have plans for the weekend they want to share?

RE: Heart surgery..

lol rolling on the floor laughing

My flirty PT

I should say that there is no chance of a fling with her because she is married. This is simply a do I stay or do I go thread.

I was cheated on and will not encourage someone else to do that to their mate.

This is merely should I stick it out and continue to progress because she is doing a good job in that regard or do I find another therapist?

I am not interested in an affair.

RE: An open letter to president obama

Good letter, I agree with all of it.

My flirty PT

That's the problem, I am not really uncomfortable.

I am uncomfortable ONLY because she is married. I am one sick puppy.

My flirty PT

Ok, yesterday was interesting. Since I have been working with this therapist, she has always been flirty.

I just kind of looked at it as her way of motivating a guy to strive and succeed in therapy. No biggy, and she is a cute girl, so it makes it kind of fun.

But now I am faced with what I would consider a breach of ethics with her - I will spare you the details.

Now I have to decide if I want to find another therapist.

I have to admit that she is doing a good job with the actual physical therapy with me, and I am definitely making progress. But as a doctor, I understand very well the ethical boundaries we have to have between doctor and patient.

The fact that she is married is also a concern for me having been cheated on myself.

I guess I am on a line between speaking up and saying that her advances - while flattering, takes our relationship somewhere where it just can't go, or just finding another therapist all together.

RE: Are you secretly interested in someone on this site?

I would have if life was different. But sometimes life throws curve balls that knock your teeth out and you have to spend time at the dentist getting your smile fixed and it distracts you from fun.

That's where I find myself at the moment.

RE: what's the funnest joke ever pulled on You or someone you know?

I was at vocal music camp with 17 of my other singer mates. Some of the girly girls decided it would be funny to raid my cabin , load my underwear with shaving cream and throw it up on the roof of the cabin.

This was at the beginning of the year. I warned them that they had done a very bad thing and there would be a reckoning.

The day of prom, I loaded their door handles on their cars with vaseline, 3 of the 4 went to open their car doors and their newly done nails broke off.

HAHA, revenge is sweet.

Progress

x2 Arlene.

I was more depressed than stressed. What has been stressful is having to rely on people to get me places since I have not been medically cleared to drive yet. that has been very irritating.

Druid, you picked up exactly on what I was saying. I don't know of any reputable studies that would say that stress causes cancer, but certainly stress can cause conditions that complicate cancer once you have it.

And predisposition is definitely an issue....which is very disconcerting for me since my mom died of brain cancer and now I am having all the head problems.

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