Even tho I have people around me quite often there is still that time when I will find myself sad. Missing what I had. And feeling alone not so much lonely is what brings it on. It is those moments when I miss my Mom and my husband. The comfort of our relationships. Being able to curl up on the couch and tell my Mom anything. Or being scared or unsure of myself and hearing my husband say "You got this. You can do it" just being the wind beneath my wings. Sadly these are relationships of a kind that can never be replaced. And who knows maybe one day I will find a relationship of a different kind but just as comfortable.
Nope, nada, file 13. I have read about this before in the forums and I have talked to a few on here but not about others. If they have talked about me don't know don't think I would really give it a lot of thought. I am actually like that in my every day life. If people talk about me and someone comes to tell me I am more like. Don't wanna hear it. Don't care. It's there problem. I didn't always think that way. It has been so long I cannot remember what it felt like to care if someone said something about me. I don't know when my way of thinking changed Life is to short for a lot of bs
I have actually learned so much from the forums. It actually taught me to learn before I speak. Words can be so misinterpreted. Patience. And I have always enjoyed learning I have even got to meet some of the peeps from other areas and even from other countries. It has to do something for all of us to keep us coming back. And thank you I hope you enjoy your time here also
I am cooking Easter that sure was a surprise to me. But I am kind of excited about it. It will be nice. And I want be alone. Ok that last sentence made my cats mad
I know it is scary isn't it I learned also a long time ago always be myself then at least one of us is happy. I have been on the forums a long long time.
As silly as it is going to sound I learned to be grateful and appreciative for the life I have been given. That has been something I have relied on many times in life. In my worse of times I have been able to rely on that to see me through
Am glad the banana boat worked for you. I keep that on hand also. With a wild assortment of other stuff. Every year I usually get a little burn and then I am fine the rest of the summer. The vinegar recipe seems to work better and faster for me. And it stops me from peeling.
You know if you do that again try half water and half vinegar and use it where you are burned at. It will help. I know this but be prepared you will smell different after bathing in that .
I can be one of the sweetest kindest people you ever seen yet I also can be a force to be reckon with. I know this. Those close to me know this. It seems when you try to be kind people will try pushing you and / or taking advantage of you. And I will not tolerate either. Call it temper I am sure some have or call it what one likes. I think a lot of people have a limit to what they will tolerate in their lives.
Congrats on your new home. I like to try and do as many repairs as possible myself. And surprising enough am surprised all I can do. I got this attitude from my mother she was quite the handy woman. If it is a two person or more job I will enlist girl friends to help. And luckily enough when something goes wrong we usually can find someone to give us advice. There are some things I just am not going to tackle and will call the professionals. When I had my roof put on for instance and yes I felt the sting of people trying to over price me. It was difficult but I did find someone who did excellent work to do my roof.
New blood is always refreshing. And I agree come on in. The view thing often happens when someone opens a thread and says "Ummm nope haven't got anything I want to contribute to that" the outstanding multiple views gather when there is discord in a thread. Arguing, back biting and stuff like that. It is what we refer to on the highway here as rubber necking. people all seem to want to slow down and take a look at a train wreck happening
Oh my I who have always thought I had the patience of an angel have just found out I don't I would give people like that very little of my time. I also consider my time precious here on earth and do not waste it if I can get out of it. I would try to make a gracious exit away from the time wasters and usually can. If not I will firmly state my opinion and then walk off and usually by that time they are glad for my exit for my opinion is usually what I think of them .
RE: What are three things that make you happy?
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and my good health