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RE: Deserve?

So you don't think money or material gain can make some people happy? I actually was not aware we were speaking of People who don't feel they deserve happiness. I actually was commenting on "There's an idea that everyone deserves happiness, but why? Do we intrinsically deserve it at birth? Is it an arrogance to think we are all so special " Of course people who don't think they deserve happiness would find it difficult to create their own Do you feel that people have to have a prerequisite of they deserve to be happy to be happy? That maybe there are people whom choose to serve man kind and mother earth and yet without searching for happiness for themselves find it in that? Can one not have an inner light without thinking they deserve to be happy?

RE: What word would you use to describe a person....

History (as in bye bye)

RE: Deserve?

Does it really matter what one thinks they deserve? Without action it is just a bunch of
I know many self centered people who are not happy yet feel they deserve happiness. Sadly their feeling of entitlement is at the expense of innocent people. So as sad as this might sound for some reason these people who think they deserve this happiness never achieve it. So to me thinking you deserve something and taking the action to get it don't do one a bit of good. Then I know a young lady who does not think of what she deserves. She thinks of the world around her. And how she would like to see every one happy healthy and content in life. Funny thing is tho she does not put a high priority on her happiness she seems quite happy. So no I do not feel that one must have a sense of deserving happiness before taking action. So many in this world thinking of what they want what they are entitled to. Some think they know what would make them happy. Riches and gold. To obtain it all for after all that is what they think they deserve. Yet sadly are not happy. Sometimes it is not simply what you feel or what you think but what you do that leads to happiness.

RE: Deserve?

Words without action are usually just words. Feeling I deserve something and making no action to achieve it makes no sense to me. I feel I deserve to wake up everyday feeling wonderful. If every action I take is the oxymoron of what I feel how close would that lead me to what I think I deserve. In my opinion if someone wants happiness they do the action to get it. I have no idea with all the people out there what makes everyone happy But if they have the prerequisite of it and take no action to attain just only the feeling of deserving it then I would wish them the best at achieving it.

RE: Deserve?

Maybe the majority of the human race ought to just be grateful they don't get what they deserve.
Happiness is not a gift, there is no one with a magic wand to wave it over you and create automatic happiness. Now all of this is just my opinion but I feel happiness is an inside job. You have to appreciate life in order to achieve it. So realistically speaking I don't see where deserving it would fit in

RE: Hey thought Id drop in say Hi

Hi! So glad you are doing good.

RE: I Am Getting MARRIED!

Awesome news! Congratulations.

RE: When will Brits learn to speak English?

Mines in the green also we can make a holiday out of it

RE: Send an anonymous message #2

Thank you! No worry

RE: First Thing you see when you walk through your front door?

I never enter through my front door. And all that knows me enters through the door I usually use. With that being said when I go through that door I see a happy dog, a grouchy cat, a dining table and straight ahead the entrance to another room so I push by the animals and head to that area.

RE: When will Brits learn to speak English?

I did not realize there were really any english speaking people left on earth. Once we butchered the hell out of the language I thought it was dead. Sometimes I wonder how long they will continue adding onto the dictionary before they give up

Don't ya worry I am gonna go down to the local watering hole and find out the low down on the missin lingo for ya Be back in a flash

RE: If your really attracted to a person do you care if they are single/available?

It is beyond me why someone would want to go out with someone whom is married or not single I think more of myself than that.
So......tell doctor happy why you think going out with someone who is married or not single would lead to happiness? What distorted your sense of perception in life to give you such low self esteem?

RE: Summer is here.

Florida says you should come visit. We love tourist
Went for a swim. Low tide and it truly is a paradise kind of day here.

PS You might not wanna come here if we are expecting a hurricane

RE: Summer is here.

Hopefully he will soon!

RE: Summer is here.

Thank you We are in the dead heat of ours. This month and next month the hottest months of the year. Also baby gator hatching time and the heat makes them snappy
Spring awe to have a real spring. I am jealous

RE: Summer is here.

It is sunny here and seven thirty in the morning! I am heading out to the beach shortly

RE: I've seen better days...

RE: when I was a kid...

When I was a kid I didn't have to pay bills and work forty plus hours a week

RE: 5 Words -The Sequel

Best not say my weather

RE: Question for 40 something woman. Who makes a better lover?

To answer your question no. Now what makes a good lover is not age. It is a mixture of many things.

RE: Question for 40 something woman. Who makes a better lover?

Do you really believe that? Nope nada don't think so.

RE: Has anyone tried the new Windows10 yet?

So glad their are brave people like you to help them work out the bugs

RE: Has anyone tried the new Windows10 yet?

I agree!

RE: Has anyone tried the new Windows10 yet?

Plan to upgrade but am waiting for them to get the bugs out.I have a tendency to act like it is the end of the world when my computer don't run right. Kind of is for me. I do my grocery list and everything on my computers. I mean what if I have to pick up a pencil and write something

RE: Threads Versus Blogs

Awe don't worry about it. I have been deleted also

RE: Threads Versus Blogs

Well at least you can't delete it

RE: 5 Words -The Sequel

Weather can't makeup its mind

RE: JULY 2015 ROLL CALL ........

Not gonna see it where I am at. Cloudy and rainy

RE: Threads Versus Blogs

Sorry Could not seem to shorten the answer.

RE: Threads Versus Blogs

A few years back the blogs was not as it is today. It was riddled with controversy making the forums seem like the milder of the two to join in with. A couple of years ago they worked real hard to get the blogs calm. I do not know if that is when they gave the power to delete post or to make blogs that do not allow comments. But I believe there is a difference in blogs and forums.


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noun
1.
a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.
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blog
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noun
1.
a regularly updated website or web page, typically one run by an individual or small group, that is written in an informal or conversational style.
verb
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add new material to or regularly update a blog.
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One is conversation one is an exchange of opinions and ideas. Sometimes the exchanges actually leave the realm of conversation.
Thru out the years there have been many changes on this site. Each change showing how so many of us love change <----sarcasm
I loved it when we could post links in the forum. They also quit showing how many views blogs have. I believe they might have felt the views were adding to the controversy in there. The more wilder the blog got the more the views. Same thing actually happens here in the forums. But not to the point of the way the blogs got.
I like both blogs and forum. Some of the people I like more than others. But to think that the people in the blogs could not make it here in the forums is funny. Their interest just lies in different areas. I don't know if this has helped answer your question at all. Yet that is my idea of why