Well, maybe so. But I think that, as Boban suggested, it's natural to wonder if you satisfied your partner, if you care about them. I agree actually asking would be kinda awkward. What if they say, No?
No no, I was just listening to The Who's "Trick of the Light" which contains that line ("Was I all right? Did I take you to the heights of ecstasy, or was it just a trick of the light?")
I won't say I never have wondered. Sometimes I have, sometimes not. Never actually asked though.
Yes it sounds like this jerk had no respect at all for you. You deserve better. Don't let any guy treat you that way. They can't unless you let them, so don't.
And you're not a bad person or a bad girlfriend or a bad anything. He's just a jerk.
Maybe? Maybe? It took you 29 words to reply to his 23. If you don't get over yourself, my friend, no relationship is gonna work out for you. Like Danny48 said, your agenda precludes. Ponder those words. Shouldn't take 2 weeks.
RE: Is bad grammer and spelling a turnoff?
The word is "grammar," not "grammer."19