Charmers or Dorks? Which Should Women Choose?

Charmers or Dorks Which Should Women Choose

Are you a female who wants to know more about men? If so, you will definitely be interested in the following information. To get right to the point, it seems that the most charming men are often the biggest cheaters, liars, womanizers, and scoundrels out there. These men are often handsome, but that is not a requirement. Once they have figured out how to dress and act with confidence, they cannot be stopped. It's no secret that women are attracted to confidence more than anything else. When you think confident.. think suave and without insecurities. We will refer to these men as charmers. Once this perception is established, a man will have an opportunity to choose women as he pleases. The downside is that with this confidence and newfound ability to attract women often comes an addiction. For charmers, it becomes a game. The goal of the game may be to see how many women they can sleep with. A woman's feelings are not a consideration.

But not all men are charmers. Actually, most men do not fit into this category. Most men are either out of shape, do not dress well, and/or do have insecurities. We will refer to these men as dorks. Dorks will give a woman what she is looking for in regards to loyalty and emotion (but not sex). Dorks are so grateful for what they have that they would not dare risk losing it. They will often treat a woman like a princess. While many women advertise wanting to be treated like a princess, there's no faster way for a woman to lose interest in a man than being treated like a princess. Most women prefer a man that takes charge and has a rebellious nature. The irony is that these men are often the ones who take them for granted and treat them as objects.

Is it better for a woman to go for the suave charmer or the loyal dork? This is something a woman will have to decide based on her wants and needs. In other words, it may depend if she is looking for a physical relationship or an emotional attachment.

Comments (2)

Elle_Chante
I say choose the dork. He will usually humor you by allowing you to select his clothing and even do a makeover....so in the end you will have a dashing prince who treats you like a queen.

Mr. Suave Charmer thinks he knows it all and will probably not be very cooperative in changing his personality. You can not change his clothes on the INSIDE! Only HE can do that....not likely.

I'll take Mr. Dork. Actually I prefer the word, "Geek", as in "Geek Chic". hahaha

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HJFinAZ
Was the author of this a charmer, or a dork? Possibly a charming dork..doh

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