Okay.....
While listening to a mantra....I had the thought that the frequency of one's voice can and does create attraction.
There is a certain frequency....I forget the exact frequency, but it is very pleasant to the human ear. Okay, it is bothering me, I will take a guess at it (too lazy to look it up...lol) I think it is 522hz or 513hz...not claiming to have the best memory here.
Okay for men and women, has the frequency (or tone) of a potential partners voice been a deal breaker for you in the past?
I know when I was finishing up my college...there was a very attractive young lady who had a very high pitched and unusual voice. I was friends with her and her boyfriend. Toward the end of the year, they broke up. He cheated on her. After talking with him a bit, he said that he did not like the tone of her voice. I told him what I thought, ....I liked it. It was unusual but, I guess I like different things.
Anyway....busy day here...and will respond when I can. :)
Enjoy your weekend all.
Okay. I need to preface this story with a little factual information first. I don't know. Maybe about 10 years or so. I heard it was bad for you to get dressed while you were still wet. Not sure exactly why, but it just makes sense to me. Actually, it is much more comfortable for me to be dry when I get dressed.
Okay again. Why is it when woman hear that men have a hairdryer they kinda freak out? While at the restaurant, I told the waitress that I do not have a coffee pot....
(getting one soon though...I love coffee
) and it took a second for me to remember the other thing I thought about buying today. Then, I remembered. "I need a hairdryer too." She looks at me funny and asks, why do you need a hairdryer? Your hair is short enough.
Come on now! Why can't we just leave it at, I need a hairdryer. Why did she have to ask why?
So, the quick thinker I am, I said....well, it is getting cold out and sometimes I shower and go. I don't want my hair to freeze. She is like, alright, I give you that. Being at a restaurant, it probably would not have been a good idea to tell her the main reason why.
Well....it is a hairdryer...at least the last I checked. I have hair on my ball-sack. And, with the preface to my story, it is not good to get dress while wet. So...my hair needs to be dry. I am guessing not too many men have thought of this....or, will even admit to doing this. But hey, it is a hairdryer.
STAY HEALTHY!
A little fun fact to go with this story. When my ex and I broke up. She told me, "here, I will leave my hairdryer for you....you use it more than me anyway."
I am not talking about only one gender here and everyone in particular. This will pertain to both the male and the female gender and to only some people within. This blog is not directed at any one person…in fact, this thought has been with me for some time and only now have I figured out how to express it.
Many of us get our identity from the feedback we receive from others. For example, if George does a lot of charitable things for his school, chances are, George will get positive feedback from the people who he helped out. If George does this throughout his life and continues to get this positive feedback, George may develop a positive image of himself. In other words, he will begin to identify with this feedback and develop his ego based on this feedback. It is human nature for people to do this.
Let’s, for the sake of this blog, just use the example of a beautiful woman. Lol….I know, figures coming from me. Okay, it can really be any woman…or any man for that matter. But, I want to stick to the beautiful woman because it is easier to explain and to understand. Since her childhood, Margy grew up getting praise from her parents on how beautiful she is and how she is such a princess. When she gets into her teenage years, she starts to discover all the boys are giving her tons of attention. Even the girls gravitate toward her. Margy….well, she really is a truly beautiful woman. She is tall, perfect body, beautiful eyes, beautiful everything…..just a gorgeous girl. Well, Margy starts to discover that she can say anything and do anything and everybody just laughs with her and supports her behavior.
Now, into young adulthood, Margy, still a beauty queen as she was in her teens, continues on with the same behavior. She can be rude to others. She can get her way with everyone. She can dictate situations to her own personal satisfaction. The guys she is around never attempt to speak up. After all, most of them are after only one thing. The women she is around never attempt to speak up. Heck, if I am friends with Margy, she will be opening up opportunities for me with the people she has around.
Pretty soon, Margy, from all this “false” feedback, believes she is more in life than she really is. Until, her true close friends and family step in and try to offer her advice. Maybe, they try and point out the woes of her ways? However, Margy knows they are just trying to be rude, or, they are even jealous of her. Afterall, throughout my life, Margy thinks, I have never done no wrong. Nobody has ever spoken to me the way my “so-called” close friends and family are speaking to me.
Confusion and possible reality sets in….only after Margy ages and loses the “power” of her beauty.
So, being a beautiful person can be dangerous. One might think it breeds narcissism. Sometimes having people in your life that “check” you once in awhile, can be a great thing.
Of course, this can happen with men too.
What do you all think...yeah/no/maybe so?
Just my 2 pennies….
I am currently watching a show....or a series of shows on the History Channel. It is investigating the Knights Templar and perhaps their link to the developing of America and the Free Masons.
There was a recent blog about "they" are putting additives in things we consume to make us addicted to products. The question that comes to mind is, who are "they"? Right away, I want to assume "they" are the business owners. But, isn't our government suppose to watch over businesses to make sure their practices and products are fair and safe?
According to this History Channel show(s), there is compelling evidence to link the Knights Templars to the Free Masons. I have seen other shows that also link the design of Washington DC to symbols used by the Free Masons.
If one thinks about it, at least the land we live on here in the U.S. is not owned by the people who live on it. I would hate to see what happens to "your" property if you fail to pay the taxes on it. It is nice to have people develop and maintain your property for you.
Now back to who are "they." So, are "they" the business owners to feed us a lifestyle that we become addicted to and make us blind? Or, is it the government? Or, is it Free Masons?
I am a "junk" dealer and I have went to many estate sales. I like to go to higher end estates to try and find higher end items. Of course, I get to enter the homes of these estate and pick through what is left behind by the heirs. There are countless times that when picking through the high-ups of society, I find remnants linking them to the Free Masons. I have seen many doctors, lawyers, judges, and police officers wearing Free Mason rings. There are many of our founding fathers and presidents who were Free Masons.
Anyway....just watching this show and it made me do some thinking of what I seen in the past.
I do not plan on posting any comments....just would like to see what any of you think. Who knows, maybe some of you may be Free Masons. I wouldn't expect for you to post much information.
Well, the interesting stuff started happening about a few weeks ago. A few weeks ago I was at the club. Why does weird shit happen in the bathrooms at those places? Anyway, I am in the bathroom and there are about four college age guys in there. I am at the sink washing my hands when all four of them started talking about performing gay sex with each other. Not sure if they were being serious or not, I kinda said something in a joking matter. They responded by saying something about that is how we are....in other words, they were being serious. I told them to have at it and left.
As I mentioned before, I have nothing against gay people. As long as they don't bother me, I am okay.
So a couple of days ago, I am on my walk...about 9pm. There is a party on the opposite side of the street at somebody's home. There are about 20 or so people outside. As I am walking by, I hear some guy yell out, hey big guy...I am going to stick my d*ck in your corn hole. Okay....I just continue walking....thinking to myself, he sure is not talking to me (at least I am hoping he is not).
I never mentioned any of these stories to anybody. I felt they might be just some fluke isolated events.
So yesterday, my brother and I are going to the restaurant. He starts telling me a story about the night before at the bar. Just to give a little detail here, we go to bars in the same town. lol...no, I do not consider us alcoholics. He usually drinks only one beer when he is out.....anyway...back to the story. He starts telling me about these guys who kept on coming up to him and putting their arms around him and getting really close. He told me that he felt very uncomfortable and thought they might be some sort of s*xual advances. Shocked, I told him about my two encounters.
Before I could elaborate any further...he went on to say that he was starting to question if it was going to be safe for men to go out by themselves anymore. Funny thing, I kinda felt the same way.
We both agreed it was only toward the middle of this year we noticed this sort of behavior from the men.
Has anyone else noticed this sort of behavior increasing with guys? Do you feel a single guy can safely go out on the town by themselves?
We both felt that these men were not outright gay...maybe bi-s*xual....or just sex crazed.
My brother mentioned it could be due to the fact that same sex marriages has been legalized and now that sort of behavior is more socially acceptable. Also, he pointed out, there are a lot of "real" tv shows that promote this sort of stuff.
What are your thoughts....
Again, I mean no offense to anyone who is gay. This is actually a blog concerning the potential loss of safety to society.
I remember being told by my father when I was very young, "you tell somebody you are going to do something, you do it." I have always lived me life with this motto in mind.
It finally occurred to me tonight. Your word is your bond (well...always knew that but never gave it really any thought). The less you stick to your word, the less significant you become in this world. Of course, the opposite is true. Sometimes, your word can influence many people at once, both in positive and negative ways.
For example, you tell your close friend Jim, "Hey Jim, I going to be over in a few minutes." Then, you do not show up. Jim was counting on you to show up and you never do. Before you know it, Jim is telling his friends about you. Your being, in the eyes of Jim and his friends, has just become less significant. Again, the opposite is true.
Your false word is easily detected, because your behavior does not match up. In other words, you are not being congruent. For you men out there, women watch for that. But, if you are a genuine person, you will not need to be careful....just be yourself.
Of course, some men watch for this in women also.
Just an insignificant thought I had on my way back home tonight.
176, 177, 178.....how did I end up here, writing a blog?
The stupid pills I am on not only cause night sweats but also insomnia....lucky for me, because it usually took me an hour to get to sleep before these pills.
179, 180, 181, 182......looks like I just got some extra sheep for my flock.
So, what is the meaning of your last blog CH? Are you done with us here and now going? I hope not. You know, you, Robert, Pepps, and I still have tunnels to dig.
On top of that, isn't it better to leave a place after you are hated? At least you will have a reason to leave??
Even on top of that, many, including myself enjoyed your clever and masterful blogs you put together. Sure, some you were challenged on, but that is a great thing...isn't it?
Even on top of the even on top of that, many of us men here will be missing your flirting. You even threw a party for me once.
I would post half-naked middle-eastern men here....or, I mean European men here, but I am an idiot in that area.
So, would it help you to return knowing that while I am typing up this blog, I am sitting here naked....and obviously thinking about you.
CH....has added so many great times here on the blogs....let's support her with her potential return. :)
<----dancing to disco
As far as I know, A.M. advertising on their site, "have an affair." My interpretation of that statement is basically have sex outside of your marriage from somebody on our site.
We know how the men benefit of such a site, but how about the women? How do the women benefit? I am not sure about this.
I am guessing women have to sign up to become a member of this site. What would be their motivation to do so? They know it is a site that promotes sex outside of a marriage. At least, I would hope they would know that. So, one could assume that by them joining this site, they know that they will most likely be having sex with many married men. It has been mentioned that not all men who joins that site are married.....but again with A.M.'s slogan "have an affair" the INTENT is for women to have sex with married men.
So, what is the women on this site's motivation? If they are getting paid, then that would be outright prostitution. Right?? I am sure a team of lawyers worded the contractual content just perfect to have this site's practices slip through the crack....but back to the women on this site's motivation. If women are not getting paid, do some women find it exciting (for lack of a better word) to sleep with married men? I don't know, maybe they get turned on by doing something forbidden??
I am not sure. I would like to see what others think.
I think not only the men should answer for their extra marital activities, but the women should also be brought to public attention. I would not want to get suckered or tricked into a relationship with a woman like this.
My two pennies.
Or is it???? they are just fragile precious girls who do not know better.....bless....poor things.
...had to throw some humor in too.
I had a self-realization today. Woken by the phone ringing, I answer it still half asleep. On the other end, a close friend of mine…I will name him Joe. Joe is a truck driver and he is complaining to me about another driver that he teams with (or follows because they have loads going in the same area). Because Joe is close to me, I share in his frustrations.
Not even as I hang up with Joe, my call waiting beeper alerts me to another incoming call. This time, it is another close friend of mine…I will name her Missy. Missy is complaining to me about how she did a favor for her brother and that good deed turned into a huge issue. Her brother ended up canceling an important meeting with the garage to have his vehicle repair, which both the brother and their father needed to have on the road. The garage owner calls Missy letting her know about this failed obligation by her brother and father…telling her that he had to pay a guy for five hours of labor, for nothing. Again, I know all these people very well and also share in their frustrations.
After getting off the phone, I am thinking to myself, what the hell is going on here? Everyone is in a bad mood and somehow, I am getting stuck in the middle of it all. As I open the door to leave my home and walk outside, the frustrations I felt immediately left me.
The day was bright and beautiful, mid-70 degrees , and a light breeze. I thought to myself, how did those frustrations leave me? Then it occurred to me. I have a lot of positive things in my life. I am not going to go through and mention them all, but a few include, a gorgeous day, the ability to walk, the ability to see, good friends, good family, etc. Also, I have faith in my life. I have faith that life is going to work out the way it is suppose to for me and therefore no real worries. Now if you are not religious (I am not the religious either), one still has many positive things in their lives….but, do you choose to see them?
With talking with Joe and Missy, I can tell these situations they were in are going to define their day for them. In fact, Missy was telling me that she was going to tell her brother that she wanted nothing to do with him anymore. To a person with an abundance of positive perspective/energy in their lives, that sounds like a drastic decision. But, with a person that has very little positive energy in their lives, this one conflict becomes a defining moment in their lives.
I thought of this for an example. I watch Naked and Afraid on the Discovery Channel. Usually it is two people, a male and a female, that are dropped off in some remote area naked and each has only one tool of choice. They are left out in the wilderness to survive for 21 days with nothing but each a tool. Somewhere in the middle of their time, they are usually very hungry and thirsty. There is no abundance of food or water. You should see them when they kill a little snake or a little mouse for food. They are very excited and it defines them. To us watching on our couches while eating our bag of chips, we can see that the little snake or mouse does not mean much to us…in fact it is repulsive.
It is the same thing when we live our lives in abundance of light energy (love for ourselves/others, compassion for ourselves/others, appreciative, respectful…etc.) or an abundance of dark energy (hate for ourselves/others, disrespect for ourselves/other, envy…etc.)………when you have an abundance of potato chips to eat, a nasty burnt chip is not going to affect you all that much. When you have no abundance of food, that tiny mouse makes your day. When you have an abundance of positive energy within you, that brother that upset you is not going to define your day. When you have an abundance of negative energy, you want to disown your brother and have it define your life.
In hindsight, I see the era of expensive oil as being a gift to humanity. Because of high prices, we have developed reliable electric transportation, we are now looking into renewable natural resources, all while protecting our Earth.
I think sometime in the future each household will have their own source of renewable energy, whether it be solar or wind. Also, we will be using electric cars. We will then be able to power and heat our homes, after our personal power sources are paid for, for free, and we will be able to travel for free.
Thank you big oil companies.
Do you still get that way...even as an adult? You know something is very exciting coming up in the near future and you cannot sleep. I just discovered something tonight and the event is taking place on Sunday. I cannot wait....a major investment opportunity.
I love my job, it is literally like a treasure hunt and the lump of gold is in my sights.
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