Ashley Madison....yes another blog...lol
As far as I know, A.M. advertising on their site, "have an affair." My interpretation of that statement is basically have sex outside of your marriage from somebody on our site.We know how the men benefit of such a site, but how about the women? How do the women benefit? I am not sure about this.
I am guessing women have to sign up to become a member of this site. What would be their motivation to do so? They know it is a site that promotes sex outside of a marriage. At least, I would hope they would know that. So, one could assume that by them joining this site, they know that they will most likely be having sex with many married men. It has been mentioned that not all men who joins that site are married.....but again with A.M.'s slogan "have an affair" the INTENT is for women to have sex with married men.
So, what is the women on this site's motivation? If they are getting paid, then that would be outright prostitution. Right?? I am sure a team of lawyers worded the contractual content just perfect to have this site's practices slip through the crack....but back to the women on this site's motivation. If women are not getting paid, do some women find it exciting (for lack of a better word) to sleep with married men? I don't know, maybe they get turned on by doing something forbidden??
I am not sure. I would like to see what others think.
I think not only the men should answer for their extra marital activities, but the women should also be brought to public attention. I would not want to get suckered or tricked into a relationship with a woman like this.
My two pennies.
Or is it???? they are just fragile precious girls who do not know better.....bless....poor things.
...had to throw some humor in too.
Comments (57)
I have been hearing a lot on the news about the men involved with this site, but what about the women? It takes two to tango. As far as I know, it is against the law for anyone to partake in an affair with a married person (in some states). Why don't we hear about the women on that site?
Just something that crossed my mind today.
Yes. I am hearing the same thing.
For my understanding of this!
Is that's a, Call Girl Site! Or just a dating site?....
Thank you.....those seem like viable motivations as well.
Im not even in a relationship to even consider having an affair.
I will look it up and see whats it about.
I am not sure. That is what I am trying to understand.
No need to apologize. This site has been in the news a lot around the U.S. here.
I am not sure. I really do not know anything about it. I have never even opened up its website. What I know is from what I have seen on the news. They want you to have an affair....that is about all I know.
Asked me my sentimental situation. The age, height, weight and where is Spain I was.
Once I was in I could see pictures of mens body but their face was cover.
Lots of married men their.
Ladys if you are married you should get on and check your husbands not there.
Well! What's the name of that site?
You know! So I can look at the reviews about it.
That's It!?.....
Ashey Madison. Com?!
They have to pay to leave the site?!...
Well! I be shuck bucks.
I'm just teasing Johnny....
You'd think they could have made the site a bit more secure with all of that money!!
I Know! Right....
They will hold people as hostage, if they don't pay to leave.
Got dog!...
And we see you two!....
Thank you for looking into it and sharing what you found. I just think it should be a two-way street. If the men are publicly being called out, so should the women.
In my opinion, that would be fair.
These sites could be very popular for various reasons...
Some members could be in a marriage (which is beneficial or difficult to break/end, for various reasons), but intimacy could be lacking, also for various reasons. Relationship with someone in similar circumstances could be beneficial (another married person) as the probability for any emotional consequences are limited. I am not supporting this lifestyle, however I do have an understanding for a possible motivation joining such a site. Point I want to make... Relationships equals effort in all dimensions, and the effort should not end the moment you are married... without this, you just could find your partner to be a member on a forbidden fruit site for a snack or salad
Here is your second part of your comment I would like to address....
I do not like the slant of your blog at all! For a long time now when I've read certain comments of yours I've felt you have a deep resentment towards women and this blog takes the cake for me.doh
First off, I am sorry you feel that way. I will say, there are times that I think women get a free ride on their behaviors and for the most part, men are called out for theirs. I am just trying to bring out both sides of the situation...that is all. I am believe in being a fair viewed person.
I beg you in the future if you see me being unfair or feel I am being unfair, please point that out to me.
Thank you.
Men are going to get more attention if they are the majority of the users. I read on CS the other day that 95% of the users on that site are male.
Okay, you know more about it than me...95%, I would not be surprised.
But, that still does not excuse women that 95% of these males are associating with. I am assuming that when you say "users" these are men that have actually hooked up with women. Logic would tell me that the male "users" of this site have hooked up with the same about of women. So, there have been just as many hook-ups with men as there was women. Okay, maybe some women went on multiple hook-ups....I do not know. But, why is it that the men should only be humiliated? That is my exact point for this blog.
Thank you.
Your final point....
"A 2013 lawsuit claimed Ashley Madison’s users are 90 to 95 percent male, with most females either being plants of the company or fake profiles."
Another place said 70% dunno
Thank you for the statistics, and I appreciate you perspective.