How do you know if someone is worth waiting for?

Someone is worth waiting for if you both share a healthy relationship with one another, and put actions in place to talk as often as possible and make visits when you can.

Someone is worth the wait when they feel the pain of missing you as much as you miss them, and they just love every moment they get to talk to you while they are away.

Someone is worth waiting for when you are not only sure of what they mean to you, but also who they are; we don’t want to wait for someone we don’t think can take care of us emotionally and physically when the wait is over, so be sure of the person before anything else.conversing dunno confused
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to wait is to love. a pure value on love. i suspect i won't experience such but i hold out.
Bo

That was touching as I didn't expect how it is to wait but giving the choice one can have and keep it in their heart would give you the courage to wait wine thanks for the video clip cheers handshake
Crypt

Indeed holding on is I think for me to do also. thumbs up wine
Y, you provoke feelings under wraps
Crypt
I guess I am thumbs up keep holding on laugh
to the op
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@ Grand

Thanks.
That question can be related thumbs up why not dunno we can learn from you cheers
Bo
I love watching war movies
Like the Military Wives
You can just imagine how desperately they felt on keeping their heart and mind that someday their deployed husbands would go home. You can feel how it is to be in their shoes thumbs up cheers
I was waiting for the Pizza Delivery lady to bring my artificially flavored imitation pizza.

It took a while, but it was worth the wait. pizza grin

Oh oh, after eating that pizza, suddenly I don't feel so good. Think I may need some pepto-abysmal.
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Ur Guts i guess?
wine
I wouldn't stop my life waiting around to see if a man was worth waiting for. making up his mind because the grass maybe greener elsewhere...If a man is interested he will make a move whilst you carry on with your every day life
@Mercedes_00

The same is valid for a woman tho...

Do pleas spare me excuses of any kind....
Coz women this or that or the other one!.
One fact is certain human kind is full of shades of grey, that represent tons of excuses each can make up for a number of reasons,and all these shades are exclusively human whims nothing more nothing less.


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I agree with you..I was just replying to the subject line speaking for myself..I can only speak for me in how I feel about this topic
@Mercedes_00
WOW that actually wasn't expected tho,since women stick mainly for women and turn their heads on the other side rather than face reality.

Really appreciate it...

Still one thing stand straight and remain right there,human kind has become very good on making up excuses for anything and everything rather than face reality and facts..

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I have a son who has a zillion good mates..I have seen what many woman have done to some of my sons mates.
@Mercedes_00
To the point i am trying to make,but more in general humans aren't actually good,or at the very least very few are good and the most aren't but claim to be...
Going more into specifics.. lots claim to be honest but do not actually have the GUTS to say it,they simply do not answer coz easier and make theme selves feel better or hide behind excuse when at least for dating site there are simple solution like block button...

Humans a huge mess that claim to be good and honest rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

wine
I'm into the real world where men can\t pull the wool over my eyes...Typed words to me is like believing in Santa Claus & the bloody tooth fairy..Reason I'm here is because the forums and most forums are attached to dating sites..I tell men the truth when they mail me
Nor can i,as i came to understand that dating sites are just to spend time and talk with someone on the other side of the planet.

Honesty behind a screen and keyboard?
Forget it,Just BS....

Just like Big Brother Huge BS....

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The only way to get to know someone is taking the time to get to know someone.

Anyone trying to pressure the other person into doing things they are not comfortable/happy with - just move on.

Listening to someone, taking the person for what they are and not what someone wants a person to be.

Sticking with someone when the going gets tough.

I think there are very few really compatible people around. It takes patience and being realistic about yourself to meet someone and make it work.
@KNenagh

Reality and actual honesty...

What most on dating site aren't,but claim to be...

Just my opinion tho.
Since i am very skeptic and pragmatic for good reasons,well u have to prove me wrong with facts,which for me is face to face and not behind a keyboard...

wine
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iI don't think there are many men who go out of their way to support a woman when things get tough
@Happy Campero,

I wouldn't try to find someone locally on a dating site. I would probably give a guy a pass if he told me he uses dating websites to meet someone.

RL all the way for me. I met my partner through a group of people, that gave me the time to get to know him.
@Mercedes,

I think there are men that are supportive. If I get the feeling someone wouldn't be, no point in being with someone like that.

There are a lot of "nice weather people" out there - I simply avoid.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

You just have to live your life and have an understanding that though waiting is good as long as it is mutual.

Though it might not work out after the wait.dunno wine teddybear
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Campero handshake

Thanks for the good insight wine
@KNenagh

Well i understood it probably too late i guess,and probably because i was feeling too lonely?
Perhaps.

One thing i'm certain those Claiming to be honest and not giving an answer to someone that sent them a nice and polite message its just rude...,Judging someone for his opinion well each has its own opinion tho i do not judge a christian coz he or she goes to church since that's what he or she believes on.

I do openly express my opinion if u like it ok if u do not like it its ur problem not mine since i accept someone else opinion or point of view...

Again i am very skeptic and very pragmatic...

Perhaps i will find my other half only when i see her with my own eyes in person face to face....
Or..
I wont find her no clue....

Still...

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@ysabeljhen

Welcome and good luck!!!

Along with...

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Robert laugh
That was really indeed worth for the wait
Got some here enough for you to take
Antacid would help you in a way. laugh drinking cheers
"C'mon let's talk about this over a cup of coffee"

I'm still waiting for my coffee!

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Aw master Lukelaugh
I can be as hospitable if you Pls come in
and make you some special espresso drinking handshake wave
Special espresso?
I wanna come too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just because i am italian and i drink only espresso preferred home made!
TY
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Gnite folks!
Nytnyt Happy
When you got up espresso on the way dancing wave
@KNenagh..You're correct..I could of worded that post of mine better..Your words resonate with me.
If I was married to a military man I would wait for him to come back home after his mission. That would be the only man worth waiting for. Gone are the days when women had to write letters to their husband, put them in a mailbox and hope that he got it. Now men and women are able to spend time on a computer to keep in touch with their loved ones on Skype.
I think , people will know it by themselves ..
Time will show you the signs... Your heart will tell you...
But you have to be careful to pay attention and realise it .... wave
@Tanzila

Dear i agree 100% with ya tho,specially with now days human....
Not gonna add anything else...
wine
Tanzila
Happy

Count me in thumbs up
We are often told to go with the first answer that pops into our head, but the evidence suggests we might want to be careful about which intuitions we trust.cheers wine
@KNenagh

Simple solution to solve the problem of Rude people...

Block Button that is on the right side when u read a message!!!!!

Not answering to a nice message show only that what u claim is quiet the opposite!!!

Yep unlimited shades of grey human kind make up as excuses!....

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@ysabeljhen
Thanks for the espresso home made specially when i wake up...
Coz i really really need it...

wine
Happy !

Thanks for the appreciation dude handshake
@ysabeljhen

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