Houston, we have a problem
Communication...what a wonderful thing! But somehow, many of us use, misuse, abuse, or misinterpret almost 95% of the communication we give and receive.Is there a language barrier? A resistance to change? A hidden agenda? Hearing only what we want to hear?
Perhaps these factors play a role, and many other variables are involved in even the simplest of communications. I can fully understand misinterpreting a message when multiple native languages, cultures, ideals, or backgrounds are involved...but I would like to think people speaking the same language would have less of an issue misinterpreting messages being delivered.
There are many ways we cloud our messages……euphemisms, metaphors, sarcasm, dryness, saying one thing but meaning another, twisting messages in ways that suit our best interest, or simply politics. Add to that mulitple communication devices....email, phone, message boards, and we have a haven for misunderstandings.
No wonder there are so many pissed off people, so many killings, so much road rage…….
Is there really a way to be clear in the delivery of our message and have it interpreted exactly as we intend? I think it is possible, but does not seem to happen as often as I would like....
Miscommunication can have some horrible consequences. Wars, death, wrongful arrests, ruined relationships, loss of family, friends, acquaintances, and even money.
Communications flow more easily once two people understand each others’ personality, motive, background, and direction in life. A mutual understanding and awareness of the preferred communication method, the intent of the message, and how the message will be received can prevent many future complications.....
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Go Kat I think this conversation has long ago jumped off the deep end into a vortex which you have no understanding of....if there was a way to communicate clearly with CT, then he wouldnt be CT!
He is straighforward when speaking AT people...but speaks in code when speaking TO people.....once you understand this you will be fine. That is what makes him great!
Anyways, I’m trying to master the art of communicating, and its worth learning..
Thanks Mr.mike3478, for adding something readable :))
Hav fun.. can see a critical thinker around :))
Melody
But it sure is a powerful tool. Communication that is. Lack of it, really limits possibilities. I sure could have used better skills when I was younger. I'm sure we can all say that.
Good topic.
Enough said and commented about the miscommunication. I have a different view however. I think whether verbal or nonverbal, a miscommunication is often clarified at some stage. Before any bigger damage is done. This kind of miscommunication is not consistent. It is often inadvertent.
Now the other and most widely used is the intended miscommunication, aimed at deceit and intentional misleading, to obtain some objectives. All wars and conflicts are the outcome of this kind of miscommunication. The the person doing it has a very clear mindset. This one is an art actually. I think somebody should write a book on this one "The art of miscommunication"
Juz passing by, lol
Ms. drea,
Good blog! Juz a comment to ur questions!
u have already the answers to ur blog!
Mis interpreted,mis used, mis understanding, and un appropriate answers to the main topic!
It all leads in miscommunications...
If there is hidden agenda or expected to get good feedback its
Juz that sometimes our curiousity hidden in our mind,
For example,,
In a certain question or topic,, we already know and got the idea but coz of curiosity of what he/she will answer or reacts, we ask again in another way around that can make them think of posibilities that might happen or where to lead that convesation/communication!
Hope u got what i meant! Lol
Tnx
Tc guys!
I missunderstand a lot, I try to ask when I do missunderstand but sometimes Im just too confussed to try, and need a break from just thinking about it....
But thats just me!!
Take care, Interesting topic.
Thank you! I clearly know that, hehe...but I still want to clear out the jealousy and something wrong about me. well, don't worry that I can be so easily hurt except something private or personal to me! I am more like a self-repair calculator!
Is there any great joke coming to mind that can crack me up?
Chinese version,"true tractor tire tracts make vision unnecessary to see"....????
Sorry for the NONsense.
Be honest with me.
lol..a mental disorder, yes sometimes too profound words can turn into the opposite... I haven't figured out if there is such a Chinese saying about tractor sth sth... I will work on it and try to you give you a result later...
to be honest, that may sound more like a mental disorder to me.
I pulled it out of thin air!
Great topic, though! If you think about it, we spend a lot of time "explaining" things to people...I wonder if hearing aids distributed free by the government would help...lol.
I think a lot of it has to do with selective filtering. We filter almost everything we hear, and many people tend to personalize statements that were meant in general...and get quite upset in no time. What do you think: selective filtering?
I love the topics for your blogs. Keep em coming...
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Today, your words, In the end, we only have ourselves, is resonating in my brain as I rummage though a pile of paper work...
Oh miss V, I can't wait to tell you all about my new brain.
I don't even want to think about having to blog with their kids.
I'm trying not to be 'needy' but I'm having some 111 withdrawals.(hint hint)