Just my thought

Am kind of addictive to blogging now and then. It’s a good way to throw out whatever you have been thinking and clean out your heart and mind, so to speak.

Have also read what others posted in the forums here and other website. Am kind of passive members in both forums. Never dare to respond or participate in any forum yet as am too a shy person. Wait .... I did posted one in CS forum a couple days ago, well ... it was my only post so far.

So many funny stuff to read, though, even the outrageous one. It is so interesting what people have posted in both forums. My buddies usually ask me to tell them interesting posts as they are too busy with their families. We always have good chuckle after I finish telling them some, and we have a long discussion about the topics.

I notice that some people are very sensitive that they cannot accept or take the values of others who have different opinions. And the posters take them as insults. They will become rude. Am not sure whether it is a language barrier of just a personality. Hey, English is not my mother tongue either, so whenever am not sure what people are talking about, I will read the phrases couple times to ensure I understand them correctly.

I find out people in CS and other forum do joke around, but not in a cruel way. It’s just that their opinions are different. The differences actually put colors in our lives. And yes, people are entitled to post any of their comments. I believe that heated arguments began from misunderstanding and misinterpretation. Even for both English native speakers!

Anyway, don’t be too serious and don’t take into your heart. If the posters don’t like what others’ comments, don’t be upset. If the persons don’t like what the posters have posted, don’t become nasty, please. All should keep healthy arguments. Don’t judge others.

The forums are for fun. No insult nor cruel words, pretty please. I admire people who can lighten up the forum with jokes. If a person wants others to treat him or her nice, the person has to treat others nice first. There is a phrase that you will be more successful to attract a bear with honey. Oops, excuse me, keep away the bear please. But you can pass me the honey.

For people who are English native speaker, please understand that I, the non native one sometimes misunderstand and get confused. Apologise for the ignorance and be gentle.

Well, the request is just for me, yours truly only as I cannot speak on behalf of others. Final word here, I agree that we disagree.