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Some people say that you only have one

true love in your life........and that statement, by some is very romantic.....

I think it's a sad thought......I mean, what if you find your one true love when you're relatively young and something horrible happens and you lose them to an accident or illness??

Does that mean that you're destined to live the rest of your life never loving again? Destined to live a solitary life?

Scary thought......

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capricorn62●Unknown, California USA

Mar 1, 2013●1,717 Comments

Not at all ,It can happen again

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Then why is everybody professing to be looking for their "soul mate", which to me means the same as their one true love??

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 1, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

awwwww I've had more than most , and they get better and better as time goes by .....I surpose I get over it quick ....

but some women never fully get over it , and its just so sad that they shut themselves off from loving again ....

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Hey V!!! How've you been?

I know several people (men and women) that have shut themselves off....I must say though, I understand it......

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 1, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

I'm good , just got back from exile in the , unable to blog zone again ....

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

What happened?? Were you given a "time out"?

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 1, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

yes , its that thing where ....women think no ones talking to me ever , so they force themselves apon me , every few hours....so when we break up , they dont get over it well and months latter , I could be breaking up with some one else and they start thinking ...I'm talking about them .... and the trouble starts again

AthenaNike●Glasgow, Central, Scotland UK

Mar 1, 2013●257 Comments

I think that it just is all in the head. You can have as many true loves as you can manage to convince yourself you have.

Then again, this whole 'love' and even more, 'true love' thing is total bs. As I said many times, love is just another name for selfishness. It's only purpose is to justify being selfish. Think about it. Why would someone burden himself with a partner unless he didn't need it? If that ain't selfish...

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Poor V........

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Athena...Hmmmmm, I've never thought of love as being selfish...unless you (figuratively speaking) consider insisting on monogamy bening selfish

Speaking for myself, I don't think I GIVE MORE or are LESS selfish then when I'm in love.

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Mar 1, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

yes ..... and I'm not doing it any more ....I'm going with-out for a while so I can use all my brain power to get things sorted out here ....and then I can stay happy ...

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

V, There you go......keep the wind at your back

mikenewtothis●Gippsland, Victoria Australia

Mar 1, 2013●46 Blogs●1,088 Comments

Lgs some years ago i met someone who i thought was the world to me i shared stuff with them about when i was a child told them how i had always been faithful and been two timed in return they told me they would never do that to me and i believed them ,we got engaged i had never beeen engaged so it was special very special i would have done anything for her and then it happened i found out she was doing the same ,two timing me since then i find it hard to trust again,(WAS SHE MY TRUE LOVE I DONT KNOW NW BUT I BELIEVED SHE WAS AND NOW IM NOT SURE IF I LIVE A SOLITARY LIFE )
HENSE ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAV SONGS

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Mike....

I understand how you feel....long story short, been there done that..."They" say you get over it...but each of us has our own timeline. I hope your time to heal is short and you find you're "the one" and life gives you another chance for happiness....

particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Mar 1, 2013●9,376 Comments

..

<< Some!!.
.. Others >>

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 1, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Parti....And you >>>>>>>>>>>>

african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Mar 2, 2013●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

It would be amazing if one was very lucky and found their true love the first time, but I don't agree with that, I believe that it's not a one time thing if it was from one side or didn't work out well for any reason ..

>> at least I hope so

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Mar 2, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Hi lgs, I don't believe in soul mates. With "true love" - not nitpicking, but what is it exactly?

I did love before more than once, however I did meet someone I could see a future with - but people change.

So I'm just hoping I didn't use up my quota yet...

some14u●Kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Mar 2, 2013●7 Blogs●223 Comments

Hi LGS

it is about learning from mistakes from past experiences and moving forward, should have no regrets on accidental events otherwise life becomes miserable, their are so many fascinating personalities out their, and who knows what fate brings to us :)

But i have to agree some of them are hard to forget!

have fun!

threedognight●Brisbane, Queensland Australia

Mar 2, 2013●1 Blogs●131 Comments

Knenagh, you've hit the nail right on the head, what is love

I don't believe anyone can explain this for you, even I in my 60 years of experience with relationships I am still trying to work it out

you can only hope to experience some sort of closeness in a friendship were it overcomes ones very state of mind, boy I wish I could explain this LOVE thing everyone seems to go on about

but it is better to have lived and experienced this feeling then to have died and never experienced
It I guess

anyway take care and all the best of luck in your existance here

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

single...

It would be amazing to find your "the one" at all, really, if, like some say they even exist. I agree with you. We get so many chances, so many "do overs" with other important lessons in life, it would be sad to think we just get onc chance for love......

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

teddyb.... Glad you've found your "the one"

THAT MANY out there?? Mine must be in the time zones that are awake when I'm asleep....

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

cuddling....

I guess Shakespeare has something there..

How lucky you were to have that in your life. I hope you find another that helps to ease the numbness of that scar.........

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

KNenagh.... I thought I knew what all the fuss was about, years ago.....but in hindsight, I think it was a long infatuation....

Don't think I believe in "soul mates" either....maybe it just feels that way when you find them???

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

some14u...

Oh I agree....No regrets. Experiences, be they bad or good, are what have made me the person I am and have shaped my life as it is. And honestly.....I am blessed

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

3dog....

Hmmmmmm.......

"to experience some sort of closeness in a friendship were it overcomes ones very state of mind"

These are your words......I think you have this love thing down pretty good

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Viking.... Waste your life loving the wrong person?? I guess it depends on what happens through those years. I was with the wrong person for 8 years, but I have 3 wonderful kids from that relationship. They are my heart and my life. Had it not been for that "wrong person", I wouldn't have them....

Maybe this is where Teddyb's theory comes in????

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Mar 2, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Hi 3 dog,

thanks and take care, too.

lgs, unfortunately I know what the fuss is about.

I think everyone who experienced the real deal and enjoyed it wants it again, what exactly "it" is - that's up to everyone's own definition.

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

KNenagh.. I'm a firm believer.....everything happens for a reason.

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Mar 2, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

lgs, I'm more of making something happening than let something happening for me, but yes, things happened for a reason and some of them turned out quite positive.

tatami●Inuyama City, Aichi Ken, Chubu Japan

Mar 2, 2013●241 Blogs●992 Comments

@Mikenew, thanks for Neil Sedaka’s Solitaire. It all wraps up Ms.lqs’s blog. I myself haven't gotten over it too. Maybe never would.

Bogart_1960●Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France

Mar 2, 2013●2,177 Comments

There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a moment, in a heartbeat, when you dont expect... whatever you choose, or allow.

(gosh i am inspired today)

venusenvy●Calgary, Alberta Canada

Mar 2, 2013●115 Comments

I disagree. I think we have many soulmates/ lovers over our lifetime. People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime and there are things we learn from each

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

venus....

Your words are inspired....

"People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime and there are things we learn from each"

BRAVO!!!

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

Bogart...You and venus appear to be on the same wavelength today

lgs37OP●Bellefontaine, Ohio USA

Mar 2, 2013●96 Blogs●1,505 Comments

tatami... We probably never get over it, just beyond it....

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