Married guy

Someone sent me this message:

"Where you live? Are you married? Kids? Are you ok if you are chatting with an older married lebanese guy?"

I answered :

"The question is for you, as a married guy, is it ok for you to chat with another woman?"

What would be your answer, ladies?

And to the gentlemen here, help understand this kind of behaviour.
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chatting can be as a first step.
on dating site, what he is looking ? I think not only ordinary chatting... (Bukan chatting biasa, gitu lohhh)

chatting with everybody is ok, even a married person, they have right to have male and female friends to chat to but in my opinion there should be a line... to remind them that they are married.

doh
Smartass, been there done that... this is the line for me "I would never do things, I don't want other women do with my partner/lover". And as you said, this is a dating site... and as innocent as a chat can be, you spend time that maybe you can spend with the more important person in your life, in this case, your partner.
empty words cheers
this is internet not real world they can send and tell what they want cheers
pedal, jarred, I think he got my point :)
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Saras.... I agree with Bali if the guy asked you for romantic chatting.

what I read on your blog is he asked whether it is ok if you chat with an older married guy?

I did not see that this guy has willing to have a romantic chatting with you. He has even honest that he is married and older.
from what you wrote,I can say he talk politely with his English... and I see that you appreciate his honesty by reply his email.
Just ignore it girl,,, don't move on with them.wave
Yep, told him I'm not interested and blocked him.
im free cheers peace rolling on the floor laughing
Aduh cinnn ... itu mah co iseng yang hanya ingin cari temporary fun. And you did right thing for already block him

Nanti kalau mau nonton film Anak Jalanan lagi, ajak" dunk mba wave
laugh I agree with what she just said.
Pedal: who is? grin
Saras & Lavina.... begitu yaa... ga ajak ajak...
Smart: Just asked her too, if we all can meet up then why not wink
Hi saravathy, lots of married guys on this (locally to me) but a good chunk doesn't say that they are married. dunno

It is good of him to be upfront. If someone isn't only here for the forums/blogs but to chat to other people, I don't think it is harmless and I wouldn't waste my time with it. Sooner or later they usually want to talk about "what pops up". roll eyes
Where you live?
Beautiful city, my hometown - Bratislava, Slovakia

Are you married?
Yes, I am, happily married.

Are you ok if you are chatting with an older married lebanese guy?"

Absolutely ok.
So, how is your wife?
How many children do you have? How old are they? What would they like to study in the future? What is your fav wife´s meal? Does she like cooking ... ect. ect. laugh laugh
Hi Sarasvathy! No...definitely no...married men should be chatting to their wives. One married man here propositioned me a week ago, I politely turned him down and told him that I have respect for his wife even if he doesn't. Have a lovely day angel
Lavina, Smartass, ayo kumpulin 10 orang nanti aku undang sutradara dan pemain filmnya. Aku memang harus nonton berkali-kali karena akan buat komik dari film itu.

To all, I still think the time spending chatting with other women are better off spending on his family. Share your dream and fear and feeling with your partner, not stranger. And if you still need someone to talk to , chat with people nearby, your sister in law, your wife's friends, someone your wife know, not someone on dating site.

I was once approached by a married guy, he said they have an open marriage, both are still allowed to meet other people. I dare him to let his wife know that he is interested in me, only to find out whether it is true what he said. I mean c'mon, you can say anything you want, but I'm not stupid to just believe.
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Mba Sara, Aku punya teman yang kebetulan dibidang berfilman juga aku akan coba undang dia, just need to set up the time when?. For others can invite our other friends who live in Jakarta
yes, sure, the more the merrier. sooner is better juga sih, takut keburu filmnya dicabut kalo penontonnya sepi.
Weekend ini bagaimana?, aku coba tanya ke mereka ya, sekalian aku collective untuk donasi buku yang mereka mau sumbang ( yang sudah pada janji)
Wah, weekend kelamaan, takut udah nggak main lagi filmnya. Kamis biasanya penggantian film baru, yang gak laku, diganti.
@ Ian...what is this all about? What's your problem?
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