Abby1963
Abby1963
California, USA
Jan 2017
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Trust

What to do when your boyfriend has created a phony profile to spy on you ? He says he trusts me but yet spies on me all of the time .
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bluyeeezonline today!
bluyeeez●new paris, Pennsylvania USA
Jan 12, 2017●2 Comments
#81
this is not trust , this is baloney
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Elegsabiff
Elegsabiff●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain
Jan 12, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments
#82
Erm - if I found the guy I was dating had a phony profile on a dating website, not sure I would assume he was spying on me. I would very much assuming he was casting his net out for other options.

I would probably, because I have that kind of sense of humour, create my own phony profile and chat him up, see what I learn.

Hey, he started it! laugh
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 12, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
#83
Cincy I know your right .he insists that he trusts me .then I find out he's had a profile for several months .im mad as heck
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 12, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
#84
Elegsabiff im to tired and old for games
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Ccincy
Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA
Jan 12, 2017●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments
#85
Abby be very careful cause not only doesn't he trust you but he could accuse you of being jealous of other women that he may talk to online or offline.
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 12, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
#86
Ccincy I'm not jealous it he wants to talk to others helps gonna do it no matter what
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 12, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
#87
wave imbackagain your absolutely correct . He's lost some of my trust .its sad that it had to come to this
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ScottyVan
ScottyVan●Bracknell, Berkshire, England UK
Jan 12, 2017●216 Blogs●2,833 Comments
#88
Have you dumped him yet?,.........................hug
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 12, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
#89
Scotty I'm mad as hell sigh I can't just dump him I care deeply I was hoping to knock some sense into him
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ScottyVan
ScottyVan●Bracknell, Berkshire, England UK
Jan 12, 2017●216 Blogs●2,833 Comments
#90
Abby up to you, leopard dont change its spots, the begging I will change will be next then week later back to same old, more fool you, you had plenty of good advice here and all agreed you need to get out, what more do you want to hear to your question? Good luck,............hug dunno confused
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Proficiency1
Proficiency1●Montego Bay, Saint James Jamaica
Jan 12, 2017●1,188 Comments
#91
Abby

You know what you have but trust is essential
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lisaj77
lisaj77●NA, Gauteng South Africa
Jan 13, 2017●271 Comments
#92
.....wondering how this ended...abby?
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Jan 13, 2017●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
#93
I do know how hard it is to walk away if you are attached to someone.

But on the playing game thing - you know he reads your blogs, so was this to show him the error in his ways?

Only you can decide if you want to continue to live like that, he won't change his ways because no matter how he treated you so far, you didn't walk away.
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 13, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
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Scotty I understand what your saying .I shouldn't have written this blog when I was so mad .Its hard to just throw a person away .maybe he can earn my trust and he will probe his trust for me . For now it's in his hands to show me trust .Thank you so much for all of your comments and support hug
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Abby1963
Abby1963OP●California, USA
Jan 13, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments
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Knenagh I did post this blog in the hopes that he would see his bad ways . He's a good guy .just has trust issues that he needs to figure out .i don't know why he has trust issues I will talk to him tonight in hopes of finding out why he's like this and can he learn to trust again ? If not then I must leave .its hard because I love him and he's very good to m . We have lots of fun together .i think the trust issues come from me being on this site since it's a dating site . Maybe if I go off the site these problems can go away .dunno dunno
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Jan 13, 2017●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
#96
If it would be a problem for my boyfriend that I used the blogs and forums on CS, I would stop using them as it wouldn't be worth for me to agitate my partner.

But from what I'm getting from your previous blogs, CS is not the only problem. No one is perfect and there are always some characteristics in a partner that are difficult to deal with (and I know what is out there alternatively), but - and that is me and not the same for others - I simply couldn't stick constant arguing and someone doubting me.

Hope things work out for you one way or the other Abby. handshake
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