Ah, poets and philosophers have forever waxed clued about our tickers. The heart this and the heart that. But just how connected is the heart with our thoughts and emotions. Specifically, can one die of a "broken heart"? Aa.
There is a saying that if you worry, you will die. If you don’t worry, you will also die. Then why all the worries? It only leads to stress.
But responsibility dictates that there are a few things one should worry about. Your health is one of those things.
So, are you enjoying good health or not? If you are healthy then there is nothing to worry about and if you are not well it leads to only one other worry.
Will you get better or not? If you are going to get better then you have nothing to worry about, but if you will not get any better, well, it brings you to yet another worry.
Will you survive or not? If you are going to survive then there is nothing to worry about. But suppose you’re going to die then it leaves you with one hell of a big worry.
Will you go to heaven or will you go to hell? If you end up in heaven my friend, then there will be absolutely nothing to worry about.
However, if you get turned down at the pearly gates, you will go straight to hell and when you get there you will be so busy shaking hands with all of your old friends that you will not have the time to worry about anything!
So why worry?
Enjoy the day and don't worry, be happy.
Woh!! How's that for a title! Probably should don a bullet-proof vest, or two!
Before anyone jumps to conclusions, I suggest you first read a decent way into this post, to know what it's on about.
I was brief with the title, so people knew what it was about. The longer version of the blog title should probably read: "Are we single for a reason?"
Again, before anyone jumps to conclusions about what that question may imply, I suggest you read further into this post.
Some people may say: "He/she's single for a reason," to imply that that person has something wrong with them that prevents them from having a partner, or having a partner for any decent length of time.
Whilst that may be true, there are other aspects to this topic. I wanted to mention these other aspects coz I think they're worth mentioning, especially so, on a dating site.
I have my ID on this site. I'm single, and I'm open to having a future partner. However, there's something different about my approach to this circumstance that I didn't previously have.
The difference now is, I'm also happy to be single for the rest of my days! No I'm not 87! I'm 57. I'm quite eligible to spend many years still, with another person.
To summarise a huge topic, I'll try to be as brief as possible...
I'm sure most single adults can feel the need to be with another, to feel 'whole.' Whilst it's lovely to have that kind of situation, many are not, and it may have little to do with anything being wrong with us.
It's just our life circumstance! Simple as that! Hang on, you say, good people find other good people and everything is clearly in order! Are you (me) saying that other good people may not find who they're 'meant' for? My answer: Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying, AND, no-one is necessarily 'meant' to be someone else's partner. But, they 'may' be.
If we find ourselves single, then yes, it feels kinda 'UNwhole.' There is definitely a difference between being partnered and single. No question.
However being single is better than being with the wrong person. And being single should not be seen as unwhole, even though it may 'feel' unwhole.
I believe the better psychological approach a single person can take on this topic, is as follows:
1. Be active about experiencing everything life has to offer. By that I mean, don't think you cannot go to things because you're single. Go on trips, social outings, activities, whatever. And not just a few. Go out as much as is right for you. Some are social butterflies, some are quiet loners, some are somewhere in-between.
2. At different times in life, we are given a boost, strength, Grace, anointing, psychological development, new insights, whatever, that are helps. Some say these are helps from a higher power. I will leave it to the reader to decide.
3. Life is not fair! Ohhhh, how dare I! Yes, I dare! Hahaha!
Ok. Maybe the truth is best dealt with by knowing what it is!
Some say that everything becomes fair in the next life! That whatever we persevered with in this life, we will receive a reward for that perseverance in the next life. I'm not talking about a psychologically destructive perseverance, like an abusive relationship. I'm talking about things such as being single when we don't wanna be, dealing with unruly children or associates, carrying a seriously debilitating illness for many years, etc.
The end! Hahaha!
The author of this post has 20 years experience in weekly Christian men's personal growth groups; a BA (Psychology); an Advanced Diploma in Counseling; was married for 8 years and had 3 children, before becoming separated and divorced.
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Once I was a bootleg
and I thought i'd quit
didn't have a nickle
and I didn't give a shit
went to the man to get my roll
thought I'd go to town
and get some toddy on my pole
Anybody know the rest of this great poem?
I learned this from a co-worker named Meyers
from Trinidad back in 1960.
Now we hear whinging from Yapping Denialists, who invert reality and pose the question as to whether it bothers us that our (vaccine resistance... somehow) causes others to die.
It's their clot shot causing people to die.
analysis shows that it is likely that over 150,000 Americans have been killed by the current COVID vaccines as of Aug 28, 2021And even the VAERS numbers are being throttled and mis-classified.
Probable Misclassification of Vaccine Deaths as COVID-19 DeathsRecall that Covid, originally arose from nature, but underwent gain-of-function modification at the hands of the likes of the Chinese Communist BioWeapons researchers at the Wuhan Institute of Virology, with the financial support and direction of Anthony Fauci, et al (to include DARPA). The Fauci you cling to for truth and guidance, quite obviously lied under oath about not funding gain-of-function research.
NIH Contradicts Fauci, Admits Funding Gain-of-Function Research at Wuhan LabWe choose not to take this clot shot. Our bodies, Our choices.
That should be the end of the discussion.
But no, the contention arises from both Big Pharma / Communist China / Eugenicists / Reset-ers and their beguiled followers doing everything they can to pressure the Un-jabbed to be similarly infected.
Let's keep this simple.
THIS is what normal blood looks like. The cells remain distant from one another, are of healthy shape, and mobile.
Post-jab, this is what happens -- very early on -- to your blood.“These strands or tubes appear to be hollow – it’s really odd. When you really expand it you can see some cells in it but we don’t know if it’s a crystalline structure or organic. The few healthy cells are circled. The rest are cracked and fractured – they’re finished. That’s not healthy blood. We see it again and again.” Remember how Fauci worked for decades on AIDS/HIV, and then started working, at least from 1999 on, on Covid-type BioWeapon and an mRNA treatment? Well, look what's in the blood now::
https://stateofthenation.co/?p=80137To Sum it Up:1) It's not a vaccine.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/5NDNl7BrxQjZ2) It doesn't give immunity.
3) The only immunity is Big Pharma against any liability.
4) The Jabbed can still catch and spread Covid.
5) The warnings are coming from virologists and doctors. The drive for injection is coming from the CCP, those allied with it, and those who think there are too many people on the planet.
6) Covid has a 99% survival rate, and permanent immunity after that
7) There exist cheap, effective and well-proven treatments available, e.g. Ivermectin and HCQ.
8) Not only does the Jab NOT help, it makes things WORSE for the Jabbed, and they've known about this since at least December of 2020:
International Journal of Clinical Practice; 2021 Mar; NIH PMCID: PMC7645850
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7645850/
Global Conspiracy!its a global conspiracy! What?! I said its a global conspiracy!!
Today, I had a 3pm meeting with a client
We met inside his car. For lymphatic drainage massage, consultation, career coaching & progress report. It's been a month of communication by messenger.
I got my professional fee & a gift(good will). He bought in Singapore city. I love the perfume & tea. Also my professional fee. Yehey!!! What makes you happy during weekends?
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Birds of a feather flock together ....?
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