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Hi all, have any of you met a real honest person on a dating site and hook up for the forever long haul, I have met mostly scammers and maybe I’m scaring the honest ones away.
I have been alone since 2014 and I sometimes think I might be alone right into the next life, maybe my soulmate is already there waiting with open arms but I do not want to wait that long, I’m getting tired of making my own coffee every morning.
Be safe

Without going into too many details,
when she opened her front door and I saw what she was wearing,
lets just say, that I was.....

totally spellbound.
It wasn't a trick, but a nice treat.

If all the men who, upon seeing an atractive woman walk by, have said to their companions something along the lines of, "I'd like to give her a good seeing to", were given the oportunity to fulfil that wish, I wonder how many of those women would afterwards consider themselves to have been well seen to. Not too many is my guess.

I've read lots of profiles of 35ish women to see stated: her kids are far away.
I usually ask myself: Why and who has her kids? What are the circumstances they would be in a dating site, some divorced and many never married.

It's known many young Philippine women take jobs in other countries for financial support of their families back home while the grandparents raise the children. Personal sacrifice.
On the other end of the spectrum is the question what happens if the mother is unfit and the court awards custody to the father...

Doing the math, lets say having a child at 25, she's now 35 and the child is 10.
Getting into a relationship with a woman who has a distant child (or children) doesn't always sound like the best choice to get started on a relationship.
Red Flags should be going up!

That's my thought on the subject.

So I'm talking to this guy, and we've been mic chatting for weeks on Skype and talkin by phone. Even though he's seen photo's of my septum piercing, I hadn't posted any pic's of me on the dating site since I replaced my stainless steel jewelry with a tribal bone tusk.

While on the cam tonight, once he saw me, his tone never changed. He didn't say anything about it. So, I'm guessing it's not such a big deal to him that I've got the bone in my nose - which I expected questions, but was pleasantly surprised. I think he's innerstanding more that it's really important to me to not look like I live in or belong to colonial society. I just want to be me, and honor my Native ancestry in the ways that we did before the harassment, terrorism, and oppression of colonialism squashed the language, the ghost dancing, body modifications, and various other traditions.

Now, once I tattoo my lower lip and chin, it'll be interesting if he is also silent about that. That I plan to happen before mid December.

I finding difficult
To sleep
I keep on thinking
About him
Looks like I am gone
Mad....I know this
Is too early to say..
But...I am not able
To keep my ....mind ..
Heart...feelings
In control...
I know it is
Intriguing...
What to do...
I really don't know
What should I do?

I am sort of
In love with
This guy...he is around here(cs)

“You call it madness, but I call it love.” –

No one can deny the importance of love because it is cutest relation as compare to others and never ends till the last breathe and sometimes after the end of life.

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PS...He. Is not aware of my love
For him....

As far as I can throw them...

Take 2 new profiles, created within minutes of each other. Different photos, different age, different countries. The both have word-for-word identical opening lines, same height, hair and eye color, say the same thing in their occupation and looking for nearly the same in what they are seeking in a man.

Check one box that applies:

( ) Real

( ) Bogus

With new female members being about 80% bogus, it's difficult next to impossible for someone to actually find a real deal.

Pretty sad situation. This week, I was hunting a photo that linked to a site that advertised all their members are verified.
I'm thinking "Verified for what?"
A few bogus ones each week show up there.

Hey there! Alone? Me to looking for advise here,I've been lied cheated and ultimately betrayed and was looking for ??????

I was wondering, are there any woman that love to be pampered