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Hey! If you come across a blog or blogs from an unknown account, that was my old one. I found it and just reading my old blogs and forums. Sorry! Back to reality!

Does a woman with a promiscuous nature get her way?

or

Does a man who does not want his woman to be promiscuous get his way?




Right now this question is still being pondered by society.

What do you think?


I mean....is it important that the man gets his way with the relationship? Why can't the woman get hers?

I decided that i need to flirt more so here goes.

So, ladies, i got a cool pair of grey socks if you wanna see

When it comes to beauty.

Many women respond to beauty on an emotional level...how somebody's looks make them feel. That is why women fight among themselves...well maybe not fight so much (but sometimes)....but for sure compete over beauty. Who has the better dress? Whose hair is stunning? Whose breast...whose...shoes... We don't even want to get into make up. There are countless sources of information out there for women with make up.

Then of course, the insults will come out between them if they are competing for the same guy. The snide remarks are made, the "tooling" of their opponent in a public situation is the best battlefield.

Where do women make their mistake most of the time?

Well, most women perceive life from their own perspective. It is called "self-projecting." They basically apply their perception on a situation from the way they would handle it...from the way they feel about it.

Feminism was a beautiful thing for men. Because, feminism encourage women to be women. Be who you are. Let it all out. "Do what feels good." Then of course it lead into the s*xual revolution for women. Men got educated to women's nature. ...or ease of manipulation.



Before feminism, women would have been right...for the most part. Beauty is beauty and men and women both have been led to it like a moth to a flame. (side note: it is said that up to 50% of women are bi-s*xual). Like a moth going to that flame, there was no logical rational being used in the moth making its decision...It just mindlessly went to the flame.

After feminism, not now with men. Men have learned their lesson, when many of their souls have been ripped from their being. Their lives were destroyed. They lost their children and sometimes women would convince the children to actually hate the father. They lose half of their wealth. Some men lost their lives, lost their jobs, lost their homes.

You see, most women don't go through that. They instead go through what makes them feel good. For many, that is having many men on their speed dial...and a mission to suck as much money from the man.

You beautiful women, the mistake you make is that you believe everyone responds to beauty equally. I will give you this, an ignorant man might; however, a man who went through the ringer, won't.

I'm glad that people find connections here, but interracial marriage can be challenging. Online conversation is vastly different in person, considering factors like culture, language, and political views. Based on my own experience, it's crucial to understand how someone reacts in simple situations, especially over petty things, before considering marriage.I advise people to learn their partner's language for better communication. While marriage can be blissful during the honeymoon phase, as you go along, you'll realize each other's weaknesses and strengths—that's when the real work kicks in. I believe it's a challenging job that requires hard work. If a marriage ends, it's not solely one side's fault.Living together before getting married can provide valuable insights into compatibility. Marrying on the first meeting might seem unusual as it often takes time to truly understand each other and assess long-term compatibility.

When you thought you met the person of your dreams online, it turns out they are someone close to home, manipulating you.

What would you do if you have been talking with someone....someone whom tells you that they love you and you love them. This same someone you have never met in real life (in person). Everything has been over the internet...for years, you have been communicating with them...they talk about how they need your financial help, and they love you and you love them...so, you send them money whenever they ask for it. You do it with a smile on your face.

What would you do if you were in that situation...only to find out...that this person you have been talking to, sharing your love with, them sharing their love with you....giving them money....giving them gifts...what would you do if you found out that you are 1 of 100's that this person has been accepting money, gifts, and love from.


This situation does exist in today's world.

Would you continue giving your hard earned money to them, given them gifts...and giving them your love?

For this past Sunday mornings I've been hugging and kissing a older female from my Unitarian-Universalist congregation in Pittsburgh,Pa, who I met face to face in person(not online); while sitting next to her in the pews during worship she gives me a cough drop.

I tried to check the old threads and blogs of this site, but ruefully I wasn't able to find them. I still remember it only had two options: forums and threads. I miss the OG members of this site; I'm afraid some of them are either in heaven or happily married. I recall when a member of Coldplay used to be part of this site before they became famous. It wasn't a catfished account; we saw him on camera before he became big. Those were the days. I was in Taiwan when I used this app for my leisure time. It was hard for me to leave this site when I met my ex-husband with the friends I made here, but I'm glad I still communicate with them offsite. However, I still miss some who don't use social media and choose to stay here.

So today I did a search on gemini compatibility, somewhere down the line was the question: "When will a gemini find their soulmate?" The answer was "With 19 years of age, but they won't know this, until they get older."

That answer "stunned" me, because I think that I did meet my soulmate when I was 19, we got married, and divorced when I was 21 or 22. Over the years, I've wondered what has become of him, wondered if we would still have been married, how many children we would have had. We met again, many, many years ago, after I had moved to Germany (I gave him some important papers from our divorce), he told me that he had remarried and had a child. He's the only man in my life, who I really felt "at home" with, the only man who I know really loved me for who I am, and I loved him just as much.

I found a telephone number online for him, I called it many times over the years, but got no answer, and I didn't want to send a SMS. He doesn't know that I now live in Sweden, so maybe he thought it was a "spam call" that's why he never answered but since Covid, the number no longer works. I have an adress for him, and often think of writing, but also ask myself....."What do I hope to achieve by contacting him again, after all, we've been divorced for more than 35 years:" I still have strong feelings for him, and maybe that's why my other relationships, including my 2nd marriage didn't work out, it was I who wanted and filed for divorce.

He's 10 years older than I, and I guess the age difference at that time, played a big part in our getting a divorce: he wanted to settle down and have a family (I was his 2nd marriage, and no, I wasn't involved with him when he was 1st married. I met him 3 years after his 1st divorce. I was still somewhat of a "party girl", not ready to start a family. One thing we both agreed on when we were asked during the divorce proceedings is that "we married for love, and still loved eachother", but sometimes love isn't enough to keep a marriage together.

Maybe sometime in the new year, I'll have the "guts" to take a pen to paper, and write to him.