What is the sense of having multiple profiles, when you have the same information and photos in each?
I've just noticed 2 profiles where the person has the same profile photo in each. Since curiosity had "gotten hold" of me, I looked at both profiles, and saw that most of the photos were the same in both, but the age was 5 years less in one, not only that, they had been online at the same time with both accounts. They even wrote in one profile that they appreciate genuine sincere people with strong values, and honesty. Now how is that person being honest, when they don't seem to know their own age? I can understand someone forgetting their password, creating a new profile (even though it's easy to change or recover passwords), and not using the other one. Another thought is also, how can you expect honesty from others, when you yourself aren't honest? I'm just being curious, so no need to "kill me."
myssmyss: What is the sense of having multiple profiles, when you have the same information and photos in each?
I've just noticed 2 profiles where the person has the same profile photo in each. Since curiosity had "gotten hold" of me, I looked at both profiles, and saw that most of the photos were the same in both, but the age was 5 years less in one, not only that, they had been online at the same time with both accounts. They even wrote in one profile that they appreciate genuine sincere people with strong values, and honesty. Now how is that person being honest, when they don't seem to know their own age? I can understand someone forgetting their password, creating a new profile (even though it's easy to change or recover passwords), and not using the other one. Another thought is also, how can you expect honesty from others, when you yourself aren't honest? I'm just being curious, so no need to "kill me."
Free dating sites are a godsend to players, cheaters and scammers. Multiple profiles, created daily then deleted, it's a business. Half the profiles you look at are probably dodgy. If you want more security and quality, pay the price and go to fee-based dating sites.
myssmyss: What is the sense of having multiple profiles, when you have the same information and photos in each?
I've just noticed 2 profiles where the person has the same profile photo in each. Since curiosity had "gotten hold" of me, I looked at both profiles, and saw that most of the photos were the same in both, but the age was 5 years less in one, not only that, they had been online at the same time with both accounts. They even wrote in one profile that they appreciate genuine sincere people with strong values, and honesty. Now how is that person being honest, when they don't seem to know their own age? I can understand someone forgetting their password, creating a new profile (even though it's easy to change or recover passwords), and not using the other one. Another thought is also, how can you expect honesty from others, when you yourself aren't honest? I'm just being curious, so no need to "kill me."
There's a long term member on here who has been 61 since he first joined. He must be close to 80 in real life now. But forever 61 on here
mollybaby: There's a long term member on here who has been 61 since he first joined. He must be close to 80 in real life now. But forever 61 on here
That's like one of my ex, on the dating site when I met him, he was 54 instead of 59, now he's 67, even though he doesn't look it. I'm sure his profile still says he's in his 50's
mollybaby: They have had more deaths and suicides so far than most people have in their lifetime
but wait. Don't forget, we took "my girlfriend committed suicide" out of context. I didn't realize there were so many nuances and contexts to that phrase.
Kaybee50: but wait. Don't forget, we took "my girlfriend committed suicide" out of context. I didn't realize there were so many nuances and contexts to that phrase.
I hear ya merc...words don't mean anything to me anymore....I have had my share of time wasters and now I cant be bothered to even reply or talk to anyone anymore.....
M4_Mischief: I hear ya merc...words don't mean anything to me anymore....I have had my share of time wasters and now I cant be bothered to even reply or talk to anyone anymore.....
Did you always know about time wasters?
I thought I knew it all but I found out about the term time wasters on this site..Rach had to explain to me what it mean't as I had no clue.
I think people do that because they always think the grass is greener else where therefore they're only wasting their time as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not looking for anyone I'm interested in going out of my comfort zone so to speak.
The person who the OP speaks of I think I know who he is I confronted him he blocked me
He had never mailed with me he was using the same pic under two different usernames and me being me couldn't contain myself
While being in my home country and still considering whether to move to another country or not, I spent a lot of time online talking to people from the country I planned to move to - both men and women - on various social media sites and also forums and dating sites. I thought it would be nice to make some friends before moving and - maybe even meet someone special. I made quite a number of virtual friends and potential dates, who were looking forward to meeting me.
When I finally decided to accept a job offer and move temporarily (to see how everything goes, before I make a final decision) - I was unpleasantly surprised by the behavior of my virtual acquaintances. Some got VERY busy the moment they realized that I was living in their country/town and never had the time to meet in RL. That was very curious since they used to have a lot of time to spend with me virtually (and not with me only, but on the internet in general). Some simply vanished. I did meet some, but they didn't seem too happy about it. They were distant and not very friendly. It was more a sort of a duty for them (they promised...). I preferred their "friendly virtual self" much much more. Only a couple of people were who they said they were and were really nice and friendly.
At least 90% of all my virtual contacts were actually time wasters - not only romantically, but also as potential friends.
People live more on the internet than in reality nowadays, I guess.
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I've just noticed 2 profiles where the person has the same profile photo in each. Since curiosity had "gotten hold" of me, I looked at both profiles, and saw that most of the photos were the same in both, but the age was 5 years less in one, not only that, they had been online at the same time with both accounts. They even wrote in one profile that they appreciate genuine sincere people with strong values, and honesty. Now how is that person being honest, when they don't seem to know their own age? I can understand someone forgetting their password, creating a new profile (even though it's easy to change or recover passwords), and not using the other one. Another thought is also, how can you expect honesty from others, when you yourself aren't honest? I'm just being curious, so no need to "kill me."