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Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Hello Ben...

Not hurting the woman, that is a perspective I have not thought of or looked at before. That really is something to give some talk and thinking about.

Thank you.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

been in one relationship for 13 years.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Molly...with your comment about work....

I would suggest people be weary of the person who has everything handed to them without earning it. They may not understand the responsibility portion.


...or the one who has had the opposite flocking to them just for being beautiful, they may have a misconception of what it takes to love.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

I might have learned that the hard way Molly....so true, they do require work from both sides.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Swami,

I can see where somebody could reference a marriage or a relationship as a prison...but if it is a healthy relationship, I would think it would be anything but a prison.



Again, I do not know that for sure.


But, I would think a healthy relationship would make both people in more fulfilled then if they were alone...or at minimum, make them as fulfilled if they were alone. As soon as the relationship starts robbing that fulfillment, a feeling of a prison might be felt.

I think anyway.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Swami,

In regards to your first comment, I would think if two people are madly in love with each other, both of them wanting to be closer with each other would make them closer with each other.....rather than driving them further apart.



But I do not know that for a fact.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Molly,

That is an interesting point. I think it would be a great discussion to find out more about a common factor or factors that drive marriages apart.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

You are right Molly. It seems as if there is a lot of that going on, only together for the sake of the children.

With the high divorce rate we have today, it seems as if selfishness is the order of the day.

I am just curious which gender is more willing to jump ship first....and maybe why that is.

It seems to me it is usually the men who are holding on to the mirage of a relationship, doomed to fail for sure at some point in the future.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Hello Molly,

Good point about the public image. I also do agree, if two people in a relationship are not truly happy, they should not remain together. However, there is a difference about maybe one being in a bad mood for a day or a week....and one just outright despising the other they are with. We should all be pursuing happiness, I think.

...but, for some people, especially the chronically depressed, happiness might be unattainable.

Hmmm...married people, just how happy are they?

Yes Duro, that would be one way of looking at it.

RE: Latest on Weinstein, charges are filed

In other words, women are players in the game too.

RE: What's Wrong with People?

lacking in the capacity to love department?

RE: The madness of human behavior

Hello AK,

It sounds like you are trying to shoot your foot in the end of this very informative blog. I would say, stand strong and humble.

Just as something else that seems important to myself is emotional intelligence.


...and as long as I am mentioning that...

Maybe discover something bigger than one's self in life.


Not pointing this at you AK...but just saying this in general.

For those of you women who feel powerless...

Hello Pepps...so nice to see you.

For those of you women who feel powerless...

The only question I can ask myself is....where is the love?

For those of you women who feel powerless...

Free...granted we all do not know the full details.

But there are some women that loosely play with love as a toy for their own ego boost.

as there are men too.


For those who do....love is not a toy.


Free, perhaps you can share with me how you came up with the conclusion you did? How do you know it was not just some woman on here leading a man truly finding the love of his life...perhaps is first....and she was not just playing with him for her own ego boost?

For those of you women who feel powerless...

Not to mention, if 99.99% are blackmailers, what harm is there in being warm to save that .01%?


I would rather be wrong 99.99% of the times to save a life. My ego is not that important.

For those of you women who feel powerless...

Truly...I hope you are right Molly. But I take people at face value...by their word...I don't know otherwise.

For those of you women who feel powerless...

ej's molly

For those of you women who feel powerless...

in addition, whoever went on his blog just to post a cold comment to him, I feel sorry for you.

For those of you women who feel powerless...

...and for those who do just play.....get some help

RE: Ah and what shall we say about Self - Sabotage

Very good read as usual.

Let's talk crazy conspiracies?

...btw Ash, you are a great loving soul.

RE: Party on Internet

*communicated with on a regular basis.

RE: Party on Internet

BTW..in the past year, there is only one person that I have communicated with behind the scenes...and he is a great friend of mine.


I am not into hidden drama.

RE: Party on Internet

Swami.....not sure about the genius part...but maybe we are the problem.


Daniela....unfortunately, not meant in a bad way...but unfortunately we don't get new people to expand this group the shed us with new ideas and perspectives.

RE: Party on Internet

Swami....good point. By making this site feel more inviting, should bring out others. I think anyway. Allowing people to belittle others, might drive some in their shells.

The concept of your party framework sounds good. There have been many 'party' blogs here in the past it they usually bring out many. Unfortunately, it is usually the regulars. How to get more to participate. Maybe offer them candy bars.

RE: Tolerance

complaining a form of trying to be controlling?

Let's talk crazy conspiracies?

Hello LR,

I have never heard about the whole population thing before. But, I suppose, if one thinks of it, we are very easy targets for whatever. They can always blame it on swamp gas.

Let's talk crazy conspiracies?

The beautiful and lovely Ms. CH. I would have expected more of a response from you regarding this. But, I hear what you are saying.