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Loving one's self

Bun, I just got her number in the last 5 minutes....lets put it this way, she is not a retired private dancer as she claimed.

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Pepps....I know that. lol


BTW Pepps, there will be no date.


Good thing I asked to exchange phone numbers. Lets put it this way, I didn't like what I found out with her number.

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Thanks Jazz,

You are absolutely right....gotta go out and venture. :)

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Jazz...that is a clever idea. Maybe I can post it on Youtube and get paid for it also.

No Pepps.....Plenty of Fish....but pof.com

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POF....they have on about a 1/2 million people on at just about any given time. It is also free.

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Pepps....of course. :)

Jazz....I am on another site also.

Bun....maybe, but only time will tell. I hope she is so much more than that though. One of my past mistakes was not understanding what was upstairs and how that could effect a relationship.

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Thank you and thank you for the advice SR. :)

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Pepps.....I am keeping an open mind....but, I am not ignorant of what things can be. At least, I think anyway.

Yeah, my ex-gf and I went on dates.....but....not on dates with strangers. lol

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Thanks Bun.... I have given money to the homeless. I guess I am generous. lol

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Not kidding at all Jazz....I met my long-term girlfriend at a younger age....at a party. We just kept on meeting at the same places randomly. Once we got together, there was no need to go on a date/date. Don't get me wrong, we had date nights. But, no dates with a lady I didn't really know for about 25 years.

I am still a rookie in the dating world. ....but, kinda exciting I think. :)

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Jazz....thank you for the compliment....even though there is nothing too special about me.

If anything, I can say I went on a date in the last 25 years.

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lol Bun....thank you for the clarification.

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Walls,

You are so right. I think that played a huge role in the downturn of my previous 13 year relationship.

Even though the relationship was going well, there was that deep underlying feeling of unhappiness....I think for both of us. I could not really put my finger on it until I had this thought today.


Thank you for your post.

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Mimi....if you told me you were a private dancer, we would have been married by now. lol

j/k

The reason why I mentioned the private dancer thing is because she was living a life of pleasing other people. Now, she was smart enough, to change direction in her life to do something that made her proud of herself.

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Pepps,

I haven't been on a date in 25 years. But, we are kicking around the idea of bowling. ...only bowled like twice in my life.


But last chance of happiness....hardly. I do not even know this girl and not to mention there are a lot of red flags flying over head.

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Butters.

This thought really got me thinking of how people are "people pleasers." They try to please others to get favorable judgment from them. Say for example, a trophy wife. She only stays or is beautiful because she is trying to appeal and please men. I have heard and seen so many of these types of women not genuinely happy. I think until anyone, man or woman, for them to be truly happy they need to accomplish something in their lives to make them believe, know, and feel they are happy. And, if both people in a relationship are not truly happy/loving themselves, it could lead to a toxic relationship.

Like I said initially, this is just a random thought.

I could be wrong but would like others' opinions.

RE: The 5 Secrets To A Great Relationship

Good point Mimi. You forgot about #6 the woman that knows her way around a cupcake.

RE: The 5 Secrets To A Great Relationship

Hey Mimi....great advice for a woman.

What about some secrets for a man? lol

RE: Are there any limitations?.....

Wall and Soc....I like both of your responses.

RE: Rules of the House

Hello GJ,

If everyone in a household lived by those rules, keeping a place clean and well organized would be no problem. I must admit, I have been in homes that seemed like they have never heard of even one of those household rules.

RE: 2014, what lesson you learned?

Hello Sar,

From a business perspective, 2014 was a slow year.

From a personal perspective, 2014 gave me a lot of growth. This is the year I got on CS and learned so much about other people, life, and different cultures.

RE: Are there any limitations?.....

Sure Bun....I will be around the whole day.

GJ, I just got back into town and am starting to read a lot of blogs I missed. I will check out yours shortly. Thank you for the head's up, now you got me curious.

RE: Are there any limitations?.....

It depends on what, "no matter what" is. It sounds like it might be a lot of work, a possible headache, or a potential miserable time. Example....don't give on me no matter what because I will be locked away in prison the rest of my life.


However, if it is something minor, it might be just normal day to day life one may have to acclimate to when being in a new relationship.


Example.....don't give up on me no matter what because I pick up my socks off the floor usually a couple hours after I wake up.

RE: Go well...

Hello Coch......Happy New Year to you...and GO WELL!

First time I have hear that saying...thank you for explaining its meaning. :)

RE: Back Down Memory Lane

Hey Pepps...Happy New Year to you and everyone on the blogs/CS.

I haven't been here all that long. Many of the names you mentioned are missed here also.

Enjoy your night Pepps.

RE: A 3 Dollar Birth;

Happy Birthday Robert....this, I have a feeling, will be your year where all good things come in abundance to you. Let's celebrate its greatness.

RE: The mirror or Me?

Nice Mimi....is it me or does the mirror need a light cleaning? But, you look great...as usual.

RE: I didn't mess around...did I?

Be happy you have choices....there are many out there that have none.

RE: what to do?

*seeing there are no men left.

RE: what to do?

Nia:

You may want to consider chasing those rich women yourself...so there are no men left?